Wingingmotherhood
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Absolutely this. His advice is inaccurate. We gave our baby family foods from 6 months prepared appropriately. I wouldn’t say avo on toast was really soft his advice is confusing. You really can’t do ‘a bit of both’. And BLW is so much more than just giving finger foods.Been a lurker for a long time but feel I need to post.
Q&A session about weaning, saying they did a mix of BLW and puree but started with just very soft or puree veg...surely that's traditional weaning? Nothing wrong with that at all, but baby led weaning is about more than just finger foods, my impression was family foods, whatever we ate but being mindful of choking hazards, salt and no honey?
I feel like his and his collaborator's advice really contradicts the NHS and health visitors advice, seems a bit dangerous, and saying that you can give family foods as long as cooked really really soft, again I'm sure this is not the official UK NHs advice? Happy to be proven wrong though!
Our toddler is a similar age to Indie and we never offer the level of mush she still eats. Every time I read a ‘a bit of both’ my eyes roll out of my headNothing winds me up more than people who say “we did a bit of BLW and traditional” no. No you did not. You did TRADITIONAL and that’s OK!
I on the other hand did BLW. I have never fed my daughter with a spoon or mashed up puréed etc her food I literally went in with the whole stuff in a proper BLW way she used her hands and it was messy AF but she loved it. I introduced cutlery very young and she is 3 now and uses a spoon and fork and is a very neat eater. He needs to knows the difference. Even at 20 months old he is still mushing most of her food to a pulp!
I also find it funny that he isn't fully honest but forgets he’s documented everything on Insta Stories. Now he goes on about being confident with weaning (which is easy to say when your baby is weaned) but doesn’t admit that him and Rosie were both nervous about textures when they were first weaning (which is probably why they didn’t go with BLW). I remember watching their stories when they were saying they were nervous but this never gets referenced any more so parents think Joe has always been confident with giving his daughter solids. Just be honest!
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