Jim and Sarah Chapman #8 2023 The year of doing less

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littlepup said:
I don’t think it’s bitter. She’s in probably the 1% this happens to, it’s more like “how the hell?!”. The loose skin and extra bulk around the belly is so normal. I think there’s posing there because as the other person sort of said, your womb has to shrink and internal organs have to shift back, it’s biology. It’s genuinely abnormal to be that small again already due to the sheer mechanics of the body. It takes 6wks-2 mths for everything to shift back into place.
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Exactly. How the hell... is exactly it. I haven't had kids but even my forever-thin friends who went back to being thin fairly soon after giving birth didn't bounce back THIS fast and to THIS level. Like you can see ab definition in the photos... And the baby was born mere couple of weeks ago, right?

Starting to wonder if she's using old photos.

And if this comes off as bitter, I'm okay with it. Maybe I am cause I work out consistently and take care of what I eat and I certainly don't look like that.
 
Afair, Sarah thew a shade at mothers who bragged about their kids' progress for making her feel insecure about Margo's development. So, she must know that her showing off how quickly she bounced back after giving birth the second time might make other women feel the same. I also remember Jim emphasizing the fact how slim she was after giving birth the first time. So, I'm sure she's posting that on purpse.
 
lilsky666 said:
what’s with his strange humour nowadays? Was never a huge fan of him back in the day but when he was with tanya and part of the brit crew he seemed like a wet sponge, quite boring but I guess likeable? Like an upbeat sense of humour. Since being with sarah and having kids he now seems to have this very strange falls-flat sense of humour. Like someone else on here said, I think he thinks he’s being mysterious/sarcastic like some male celebrity’s are able to pull off but with him the jokes fall flat and it’s just very odd. ‘I haven’t been posting because i’ve been keeping my children alive’ ??! he’s so weird. I never remember him being this weird with tanya?!
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I think he’s still bitter about his break up with Tanya tbh. He was with her for around a decade, and then he settled down with Sarah very soon after. I don’t think he ever had enough time as a single man to process the break up properly and get over it.
It wouldn’t surprise me if in his head he’s competing with Tanya. He probably thinks he’s winning because he’s got 2 kids now and he’s married. I don’t see any love or affection from him towards Sarah. He wanted to be married with kids, and she was there at the right time. Sarah seems a nice girl to be fair. But I get really bad vibes from Jim, especially since he has been with Sarah.
The constant weird jokes, sarcasm and self-obsession suggest he’s not very happy. It’s not natural behaviour.
 
MiraZol said:
Afair, Sarah thew a shade at mothers who bragged about their kids' progress for making her feel insecure about Margo's development. So, she must know that her showing off how quickly she bounced back after giving birth the second time might make other women feel the same. I also remember Jim emphasizing the fact how slim she was after giving birth the first time. So, I'm sure she's posting that on purpse.
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With the way Jim negs and ignores her she’s probably feeling deeply insecure. She looks great but those jeans look like they’re cutting off circulation to some vital areas. She’s squeezed herself into them.
 
I was back to a flat stomach a week after giving birth to be fair. I have a completely retroverted uterus so it’s tipped back the wrong way entirely. I had a pretty averaged sized baby bump but once baby was out, my stomach kinda just disappeared! Happened both times! It does cause me the odd issue in general life but in terms of my post-pregnancy stomach, it was quite useful 🙈
 
He’s bitter he’s no longer with Tanya no doubt. I agree with others - he rushed into making a family with the first woman he met since Taaarn to spite her. Deep down, with how bitter he seems with/towards sarah, I think he misses the fame and ‘power’ that came with being the infamous Jim/Tanya ‘power couple’. No one cares about sarah and what she’s wearing on a tuesday afternoon but everyone liked him and tanya and they had a LOT of fame and deep down he’s bitter about it.
 
lilsky666 said:
He’s bitter he’s no longer with Tanya no doubt. I agree with others - he rushed into making a family with the first woman he met since Taaarn to spite her. Deep down, with how bitter he seems with/towards sarah, I think he misses the fame and ‘power’ that came with being the infamous Jim/Tanya ‘power couple’. No one cares about sarah and what she’s wearing on a tuesday afternoon but everyone liked him and tanya and they had a LOT of fame and deep down he’s bitter about it.
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Plus his self obsession has gone through the roof since Tanya dumped him. The gym sessions, the outfits of the day - all trying to prove something.
Sarah seems to irritate him poor girl. Mind you so did Tanya. Tanya possibly handled it better by laughing 'Jiiiim!', whereas Sarah seems a bit more serious, possibly because she has the added pressure of nurturing his bruised ego from Tanya.
 
Jim had an exhausting day practicing his doodling.

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QueenBW said:
Exactly. How the hell... is exactly it. I haven't had kids but even my forever-thin friends who went back to being thin fairly soon after giving birth didn't bounce back THIS fast and to THIS level. Like you can see ab definition in the photos... And the baby was born mere couple of weeks ago, right?

Starting to wonder if she's using old photos.

And if this comes off as bitter, I'm okay with it. Maybe I am cause I work out consistently and take care of what I eat and I certainly don't look like that.
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She absolutely does this! Does anyone else remember after she had the first baby she deleted old photos (one of her sitting in a doorway in crop top and white jeans?) and reposting it. Then she deleted comments from other mum's asking how she bunched back so quickly, instead of just being honest and saying it was a throw back. That was one of the first things that made me reconsider her. I'd always thought she seemed fine, but that was so sneaky and mean. She also lost all credibility with the whole "sharing to help other parents" thing. It seems JUST about vanity.
 
At the end of the day she's a trophy wife. She has no career or achievements of her own to support herself. She went looking for a rich man on Raya with the intention of never working a day in her life and getting by on her appearance. OK I'll be generous by trade she's a model... which is also completely dependent on appearance. So yes all she is interested in (due to her own choice/ decisions in life) is her appearance. There's nothing more to her. So yeah after pregnancy she is keen to emphasise she's physically superior to most women and fits in her new *gifted* sparkly jeans (because she is so beautiful she gets free things don't you know).

What a sad little life Sarah!
 
i'd say i "bounced back" (i really hate this phrase) quickly after my birth through no effort of my own. it just so happened that my uterus shrank back quite quickly (i'd say within 2 weeks?). my stretch marks also appeared at the side of my hips so if i wore sarah's outfit, they wouldn't be visible. pretty sure sarah may also be flexing hard in those pics + adjusted the lighting to give the appearance of abs too.
 
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