I just want to make a point on the infertilitysucksni and surrogate situation.
The surrogate was awkward from day 1.
The parents done anything and everything to please the girl but she just kept making more and more demands and deliberately going against their wishes ( things that had been discussed and agreed at the start ). When the parents brought anything up in discussion, the surrogate threw a tantrum when she didn't get her own way. She made things hard and awkward. Although to anyone outside of the agreement, she played the victim, and anyone on her Instagram page felt sorry for her. The parents ended up walking on egg shells and trying not to poke the bear.
She made threats of not handing the baby over to them.
She well and truly messed with their heads and made everything so tough for the duration of the pregnancy.
On the surrogacy forums that I'm on, one with surrogates only, and the other main page, I seen her slate the parents from a height and they were never able to defend themselves.
The natural surprise pregnancy of the mum had absolutely no impact on how the surrogate was treated. The bridges were burned before the mum found out about her natural pregnancy.
In the end the baby was handed over and came home with his parents, but she caused alot of stress and trauma to the parents.
This is deffs a situation where you shouldn't believe everything you see on the internet.