Louber
Chatty Member
All the insta huns coming on with bumps saying your time will come not sure why this is annoying me so much…. Maybe I’m being over sensitive……
I do find that really irritating and insensitive too and I am absolutely in no way on a fertility journey. I'm sorry to be blunt but sadly a lot of people's time doesn't actually come and it's awful it's one thing I would never say to any woman struggling. I understand it's meant in a supportive way but you actually don't know that a person will get their long awaited baby.
Edited to add: the fear is real for people with infertility that they will never have a baby, telling them their time will come is dismissing it in my opinion
I just want to make a point on the infertilitysucksni and surrogate situation.
The surrogate was awkward from day 1.
The parents done anything and everything to please the girl but she just kept making more and more demands and deliberately going against their wishes ( things that had been discussed and agreed at the start ). When the parents brought anything up in discussion, the surrogate threw a tantrum when she didn't get her own way. She made things hard and awkward. Although to anyone outside of the agreement, she played the victim, and anyone on her Instagram page felt sorry for her. The parents ended up walking on egg shells and trying not to poke the bear.
She made threats of not handing the baby over to them.
She well and truly messed with their heads and made everything so tough for the duration of the pregnancy.
On the surrogacy forums that I'm on, one with surrogates only, and the other main page, I seen her slate the parents from a height and they were never able to defend themselves.
The natural surprise pregnancy of the mum had absolutely no impact on how the surrogate was treated. The bridges were burned before the mum found out about her natural pregnancy.
In the end the baby was handed over and came home with his parents, but she caused alot of stress and trauma to the parents.
This is deffs a situation where you shouldn't believe everything you see on the internet.
Ya like it's just not very believable that after jumping through hoops to get as far as having a pregnant surrogate, that the intended parents would then treat her badly. This surrogates story kind of smells of bullshit imagine inflicting that kind of stress and upset on those poor parents
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