Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #174 Even her divorce lawyer left her.

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I don’t wanna piss on anyone’s chips here, but I too got a bit of UL liking action on some of my posts last thread. I’m not sure I fully understand the ~context~, although I do have some suspicions. Can anyone advise me how to get my name on the Turd payroll? Is there a HR person I speak to now? Happy to receive payment in wine, although will accept cheesestrings. Ta x
 
I don’t wanna piss on anyone’s chips here, but I too got a bit of UL liking action on some of my posts last thread. I’m not sure I fully understand the ~context~, although I do have some suspicions. Can anyone advise me how to get my name on the Turd payroll? Is there a HR person I speak to now? Happy to receive payment in wine, although will accept cheesestrings. Ta x

Yep - send me your bank details, passport and all your passwords / PIN numbers and I’ll make sure you get paid.

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I’ve been reading about legal remedies for parental alienation in California. The best information I could find is that the court will determine the remedy based on the severity of the alienation. For mild to moderate cases, both parents will retain some degree of custody/visitation, and reunification therapy will be court ordered. However for severe cases of PA, this is when the court will consider entirely removing the child or children from the alienator and placing them with the alienated parent, along with intensive reunification therapy. The theory here being that re-exposure to the alienating parent will continually undo any progress made, so that the need to reverse the PA outweighs the usual presumption that it’s in the child’s best interest for both parents to have custody.

I think with the new false allegations of physical abuse, mAlice has put the nail in her own coffin. She’s just handed Ioan the evidence he needs to prove severe PA. I think he should ask for sole custody with reunification therapy. The biggest challenge with that will be that apparently it takes up to a year to get all of the therapist’s evaluations and reports done. So he needs to push for immediate action based on the fact that she’s doing irreparable harm to his relationship with his children.

There are programs in CA specifically designed to reunify children with an alienated parent. It’s true that PA is sometimes alleged by abusers in order to negate legitimate abuse concerns that the child or other parent has, but in this case Alice is 100% the classic alienator.
The thing is I don't think Ioan wants 100% regardless if it is to rectify PA. I don't think he can work as an actor, on set, with long hours (and often outside the state) and have the children 100%. He is not high enough up the food chain to have private tutors on set for the girls. I really think it is the end of the road for him and Ella, but he will keep trying via therapy etc. With Elsie there is a chance that 50% may still work.
 
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I don’t wanna piss on anyone’s chips here, but I too got a bit of UL liking action on some of my posts last thread. I’m not sure I fully understand the ~context~, although I do have some suspicions. Can anyone advise me how to get my name on the Turd payroll? Is there a HR person I speak to now? Happy to receive payment in wine, although will accept cheesestrings. Ta x
Hmmmm…Well, I’ve just been to the Turd cupboard as I was peckish and found these! I expect you got to the cupboard before me @barre19 😠😂😂

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I was just reading the wiki. I’m sure this has been said but that situation with the fan club..! That would have all been Alice, not them. I knew someone who’s girlf at the time was having a terrible time with the previous ex, they broke into their house and trashed it, sent them hatemail etc. Only it wasn’t the ex at all - the current one was making the whole thing up and even trashed their own stuff to try and make sure he wouldn’t speak to the ex anymore because she was so insanely jealous - even though they’d broken up because she’d decided that she didn’t want to date men any more!!!
 
The thing is I don't think Ioan wants 100% regardless if it is to rectify PA. I don't think he can't work as an actor, on set, with long hours (and often outside the state) and have the children 100%. He is not high enough up the food chain to have private tutors on set for the girls. I really think it is the end of the road for him and Ella, but he will keep trying via therapy etc. With Elsie there is a chance that 50% may still work.

As the article stated with severe PA, if you just keep giving them back to the alienating parent, you might as well just give them 100% custody. It's not about what he wants anyway. I hope CPS and the Court do something.

The kids can go to public school and maybe Gloria can help out.

Also while Ella is mini-mAlice at the moment, she will learn the hard way that her mom is not a good role model. Then bridges can be built.

If Elsie is not rescued, she will be another mini-mAlice when she hits her teens sadly. There's too much pressure for her not to cave.

Like I said many times, 50/50 will never work with AE, as it's all or nothing, but IG will have been told to ask for that by his Legal people. Then the Judge decides.
 
The thing is I don't think Ioan wants 100% regardless if it is to rectify PA. I don't think he can work as an actor, on set, with long hours (and often outside the state) and have the children 100%. He is not high enough up the food chain to have private tutors on set for the girls. I really think it is the end of the road for him and Ella, but he will keep trying via therapy etc. With Elsie there is a chance that 50% may still work.
Many parents end up having their children 100% of the time and have to work around it. He can do voiceover work from home or god forbid retrain and do a different job like millions of people have to do when it’s for the best for their children. I’m talking from personal experience as a single parent to a special needs child. My career has taken a backseat and I’m working remotely doing a call centre job. He’ll have to make it work.
 
The girls are living in an awful situation. It’s fight or flight and they are parentified by Alice. Ella is essentially her primary caregiver. Maybe she thinks this latest thing will give her an easier life, maybe she is just like Alice. This latest stunt has crossed the line, I’m worried how this will come to an end.
 
Given that mAlice so wisely fired her latest attorney before this idiotic gambit, she probably had no clue that by filing for a TRO/PRO, she’d invite the level of scrutiny from CPS that she’ll now be subjected to. She’s probably desperately trying to backpedal and figure out how to make the whole thing go away. Oops! Too late for that. She’s now set a process in motion in which she doesn’t control the outcome. The CPS investigators, Court assigned therapists, and the court will control the outcome. I think that terrifies her. In a long line of dumb moves she’s made, this may be the dumbest yet.

It's so funny that she was hysterical for weeks over the Welfare check. Just wait until what's coming, mAlice, hang tight!
 
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