Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #153 Hagatha Crusty - Murder on the Panda Express!

[M33L4]

I love your post. It’s so true, that house is the saddest place I can imagine right now, for 2 children. I mean I know there are worse scenarios, but compared to what they had and what they have been willfully deprived of by their narc addict of a mother….
BIB As many greater posters have said, he put on his own oxygen mask first … now he must be attending to the girls. Custody trial looms and I hope we see some big changes.
duck that Fishwife

You know it’s frustrating as an outsider to see what I think is inaction sometimes. But, he is having regular contact and although we know it’s a hell-scape for them just now, they have sanctuary and solace with their daddy. They’re slowly un-doing all the bad she has done and that will take time. He’s only been seeing them for a few months now and those children will be weary and tired. We know she interrogates them when they come back, we can probably surmise she’s interrupting the FaceTimes too. She constantly tells on herself. She wasn’t made to drive them to the therapist (that she choose btw! ) for nothing. It takes time and time is a healer, except for big fish-face Al. She can continue literally showing her ass on Twitter, at least she’s being held accountable on here. Her time will come, she will be out on her arse and the children will eventually go no contact. They’re undoing years of enmeshment and parentification, and possibly emotional incest. Just now the children will be confused that the mummy they sometimes see is fun and loud and obnoxious, in time they will see the truth. She’s a bad mother with addiction issues.

Agent 777 reporting for duty - I can confirm that’s a negative … subject Charlie-Uniform-November-Tango has not been physically threatened. Can confirm we seek location of code name ‘Scottish Legend’ for extraction from current location … to buy him a great big blardy drink of choice. Over …

Ya spooky (seven year)Biatch 777 is my car numberplate

 

[Ally Pally]

I mean this sincerely, (I do!!) has anyone actually seen anyone threaten her? That Scottish legend told her to put the drink down and go to bed. She was going off about Ioan, again and she deleted the tweet he replied to.

No one to my knowledge has ever made any threats. I think it's pretty obvious that Alice is desperate to portray herself as under siege from Ioan and Bianca. If she was serious about finding out who's behind whatever accounts she's accusing she wouldn't be shouting about it from her echo chamber.
With Alice it's all hot air with no substance to back up her claims. These people offering to help her find her tormentors are going to come up empty handed because Alice knows there's no meat on the bones of what she's accusing people of.
Maybe she does feel threatened by her own words repeated back to her though

 

[sevenyearbiatch]

You know it’s frustrating as an outsider to see what I think is inaction sometimes. But, he is having regular contact and although we know it’s a hell-scape for them just now, they have sanctuary and solace with their daddy. They’re slowly un-doing all the bad she has done and that will take time. He’s only been seeing them for a few months now and those children will be weary and tired. We know she interrogates them when they come back, we can probably surmise she’s interrupting the FaceTimes too. She constantly tells on herself. She wasn’t made to drive them to the therapist (that she choose btw! ) for nothing. It takes time and time is a healer, except for big fish-face Al. She can continue literally showing her ass on Twitter, at least she’s being held accountable on here. Her time will come, she will be out on her arse and the children will eventually go no contact. They’re undoing years of enmeshment and parentification, and possibly emotional incest. Just now the children will be confused that the mummy they sometimes see is fun and loud and obnoxious, in time they will see the truth. She’s a bad mother with addiction issues.


Ya spooky (seven year)Biatch 777 is my car numberplate

Lol as The Pixies once said’
If man is 5 (man is 5. Man is 5)
then the devil is 6 (devil is 6. Devil is 6)
And if the devil is 6 then God is 7, (God is 7, God is 7)
This monkey’s gone to heaven’

 

[Piglet&Pooh]

Has Alice actually had a night off?

Probably received the lawyers' letters from her multiple RO breaches over the weekend

 

[Ally Pally]

Probably received the lawyers' letters from her multiple RO breaches over the weekend

Ah yes she often gets a "they're trying to kill me or a they want me to die" kind of hysteria in at some point. I've often wondered if this is in response to lawyers letters.

 

[House of Tea]

Ah yes she often gets a "they're trying to kill me or a they want me to die" kind of hysteria in at some point. I've often wondered if this is in response to lawyers letters.

Basically someone told her no.

 

[Autisteuse]

Probably received the lawyers' letters from her multiple RO breaches over the weekend

Oh, I do hope so. I hope that the fines are piling up thick and fast - and that she has to pay them all from her 30% share of the house (no insider information, Malice - it’s all in the court documents. You know, the ones you refuse to read. If you *did* read them, you’d soon find out where all this ‘insider info’ comes from. But that would put a crimp in your drama and persecution fetish, wouldn’t it?). She’s such a self-absorbed child; the narcissist three-year-old who, rather than being sensible, looking for houses, preparing for Christmas, packing up boxes and chattels, sticks her fingers in her ears and yells ‘la-la-la, can’t hear you - and by the way, look at all these people being mean to me on the internet!’ I really hope that IG can have the children for Christmas, and that their grandparents are able to come over from Wales. For once, those kids need to be put first - rather than used as emotional supply for their drunken hellion of a ‘mother’*. Her insistence that they tell her that they ADORE her is an own-goal: she obviously demands endless validation from them, when they should be receiving it themselves. You know. Being kids and all.

*My predictive text autocorrected ‘mother’ to ‘monster’ - how apt. How fitting.

 

[MrsDimSum]

I like Bubba’s booties and onesie, it’s Ioan’s choice of trousers that kills me

It’s a bit much when the dog is better dressed than you

 

[WTFDidIJustSee]

I was actually homeless this year, with my three kids in tow, due to a Scumlord who’s house was in major disrepair, wouldn’t fix anything and so I reported her ass. She decided to boot us out rather than spend a penny on the house she owned mortgage free as she inherited it. She used to wang on about that and how attached to it she was as she grew up there, and would often break tenancy laws by turning up every month to inspect and screech at me for things like dust being on MY coffee table. Major cognitive dissonance/Narc behaviour.

Couldnt even get a viewing on other houses because as soon as I said single parent, they weren’t interested. I work. I have a high earning home owner Guarantor. My income is c.45K (around 16K are benefits - 10K of that is disability benefits for one of my children as they are classed as severely disabled). My credit score is fine - not great as my abusive ex trashed it.

To say I fought tooth and nail is an understatement. I even had a new signed and dated tenancy agreement when the landlord decided he didn’t want to rent to me - I have an ongoing complaint with the property ombudsman against the EA and I will win because it’s a legally binding document once signed by both parties (it was).

Luckily for us, a friend took us in the day the bailiffs were due to come and then an acquaintance of hers rented one of her houses to us.

My kids had to move schools as it’s a different county and I do a long commute to work.

I mention this because

- mAlice has had plenty of ways to avoid this trauma happening to her children and not only has she not done any of them, she has/is actively making it worse

- my kids are actually not traumatised by it (I was terrified at the prospect of this) because of how I conducted myself before, during and after the crisis

If you cannot motivate yourself to do better, be better for your kids, you have no business being a parent.

 

[Feather fans]

No one to my knowledge has ever made any threats. I think it's pretty obvious that Alice is desperate to portray herself as under siege from Ioan and Bianca. If she was serious about finding out who's behind whatever accounts she's accusing she wouldn't be shouting about it from her echo chamber.
With Alice it's all hot air with no substance to back up her claims. These people offering to help her find her tormentors are going to come up empty handed because Alice knows there's no meat on the bones of what she's accusing people of.
Maybe she does feel threatened by her own words repeated back to her though

Threatened by own words repeated to her reminded me of this kind of moment - imagine if true!!!

 

[StoneMountain]

It’s a bit much when the dog is better dressed than you

yes... but... Ioan isn't spending/wasting $$ he doesn't have on himself. He's already stated in the court docs (re: house sale) that he is "simply unable to maintain the status quo". He doesn't need to continually update his wardrobe at this time. And, if he moves again in the foreseeable future, new clothes are something less to pack.

 

[Autisteuse]

I was actually homeless this year, with my three kids in tow, due to a Scumlord who’s house was in major disrepair, wouldn’t fix anything and so I reported her ass. She decided to boot us out rather than spend a penny on the house she owned mortgage free as she inherited it. She used to wang on about that and how attached to it she was as she grew up there, and would often break tenancy laws by turning up every month to inspect and screech at me for things like dust being on MY coffee table. Major cognitive dissonance/Narc behaviour.

Couldnt even get a viewing on other houses because as soon as I said single parent, they weren’t interested. I work. I have a high earning home owner Guarantor. My income is c.45K (around 16K are benefits - 10K of that is disability benefits for one of my children as they are classed as severely disabled). My credit score is fine - not great as my abusive ex trashed it.

To say I fought tooth and nail is an understatement. I even had a new signed and dated tenancy agreement when the landlord decided he didn’t want to rent to me - I have an ongoing complaint with the property ombudsman against the EA and I will win because it’s a legally binding document once signed by both parties (it was).

Luckily for us, a friend took us in the day the bailiffs were due to come and then an acquaintance of hers rented one of her houses to us.

My kids had to move schools as it’s a different county and I do a long commute to work.

I mention this because

- mAlice has had plenty of ways to avoid this trauma happening to her children and not only has she not done any of them, she has/is actively making it worse

- my kids are actually not traumatised by it (I was terrified at the prospect of this) because of how I conducted myself before, during and after the crisis

If you cannot motivate yourself to do better, be better for your kids, you have no business being a parent.

You’re an absolute inspiration, a legend. This is what real parenting and responsibility looks like, Malice. Take. Note.

 

[M33L4]

I was actually homeless this year, with my three kids in tow, due to a Scumlord who’s house was in major disrepair, wouldn’t fix anything and so I reported her ass. She decided to boot us out rather than spend a penny on the house she owned mortgage free as she inherited it. She used to wang on about that and how attached to it she was as she grew up there, and would often break tenancy laws by turning up every month to inspect and screech at me for things like dust being on MY coffee table. Major cognitive dissonance/Narc behaviour.

Couldnt even get a viewing on other houses because as soon as I said single parent, they weren’t interested. I work. I have a high earning home owner Guarantor. My income is c.45K (around 16K are benefits - 10K of that is disability benefits for one of my children as they are classed as severely disabled). My credit score is fine - not great as my abusive ex trashed it.

To say I fought tooth and nail is an understatement. I even had a new signed and dated tenancy agreement when the landlord decided he didn’t want to rent to me - I have an ongoing complaint with the property ombudsman against the EA and I will win because it’s a legally binding document once signed by both parties (it was).

Luckily for us, a friend took us in the day the bailiffs were due to come and then an acquaintance of hers rented one of her houses to us.

My kids had to move schools as it’s a different county and I do a long commute to work.

I mention this because

- mAlice has had plenty of ways to avoid this trauma happening to her children and not only has she not done any of them, she has/is actively making it worse

- my kids are actually not traumatised by it (I was terrified at the prospect of this) because of how I conducted myself before, during and after the crisis

If you cannot motivate yourself to do better, be better for your kids, you have no business being a parent.

I’m sorry that all happened. You taught your kids resilience and strength. I hope things work out for you

 

[Bridgeofsighs]

So she's gone from raging to maudlin and self-pitying. It really boils her piss that the kids (and Bianca) have Baby Angel in their lives and she doesn't. Unless you count letters from his lawyer lol

Lying close to you feeling your heart beating
And I'm wondering what you're dreaming
Wondering if it's me you're seeing
Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together
And I just wanna stay with you
In this moment forever, forever and ever

I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing

Maybe, just maybe, you shouldn't have been an abusive fishwife to your Baby Angel mAlice...

 

[sh1tsandgiggles]

“Baby Angel” makes me cringe so hard





edt: just to clarify.. Ioan doesn’t make me cringe, it’s the phrase

 

[M33L4]

@welp I don’t suppose you have a screenshot of the Scottish chaps reply? What was he replying to that she lost it?

 

[Piglet&Pooh]

Although the hate abuser spews is hard to read - Ioan's team is playing the long game focussed on finalizing the divorce and custody. His legal team will be documenting the fact that mAlice cannot co-parent, is unable to control herself in the best interests of the girls, is spending her time ranting to total strangers on the internet rather than working, paying bills, cooking, cleaning or supporting her kids' education (neglect?) and she demonstrates her refusal to abide by court orders, both the RO by threatening and stalking I&B online but also where she admits to interfering with the kids' phone conversations with I and the therapist where she has revealed she listens in

I think the custody hearing is going to be tough for her

 

[welp]

@welp I don’t suppose you have a screenshot of the Scottish chaps reply? What was he replying to that she lost it?

it were the pictures she was sharing of Ioan along with threats towards Bianca

Edit: actually no, those were directly after that, need to check later

Edit#2: or maybe it was, he is actually referencing that a few minutes later

either way trying to play the victim because people call you out on breaking a RO will look great to police/court

 

[Bridgeofsighs]

“Baby Angel” makes me cringe so hard

If Ioan is a Baby Angel (cringe) then Alice is a She Devil to keep the metaphor going.

Also, I think it's obvious that she is using the kids in an emotionally incestuous way since the 'second Daddy' she promised them over 2 years ago failed to materialise. They have to constantly tell her how much they ADORE her. What kid in a normal household does that? Only a groomed kid would say such a thing.

 

[House of Tea]

She had no intention of getting them a second daddy. That was a threat to pull her ex back into line. She knew he was drifting away. You can tell when someone is checking out without any words said. His demeanour and his lack of willingness to placate riled her, and panicked her. And with good reason, he was mentally preparing to leave.