To be honest if neither of them are earning money in the profession they chose then maybe they should both thinking about getting a job ANY job to help them sort the situation out. Any income is better than no income and this isn't a slur at Ioan or anything like that but no point telling her to go work in Walmart if the same doesn't apply to him.
There are two kids to support, bills to be paid and yes Alice has fetched on this situation herself with the financial abuse but it isn't going to sort itself out.
Also if she is blaming him for her not having a career because she is full time mum why doesn't she send the kids to Ioan to look after while she tries to resurrect her acting career (I know she is
tit and unemployable but if she is using the kids as an excuse not to work it would be the easiest fix)
She is an absolute abomination, I wish her nothing but misery. Ioan and the girls on the other hand I wish them the absolute best but I do think if acting isn't working out for either of them they could get normal jobs like majority of other people do.
Imagine going into Walmart and the walrus is sat behind the checkout