InTheFrow #12 Tacky fountain in the yard having fashion sense is hard

[barbiegirl2000]

I havent watch the vlog cause i cant be bothered but i think Alex got his driving licence and is getting a car. Thats what i got from the comments.

So they both need their own cars? Why they don’t go anywhere.

 

[poopettemetis]

The vlog was also just a bevy of new gifted tit you just have to buy:

- Spend £100 at Dior online after her live masterclass and get a very special gift with purchase that Dior never does
- New lingerie
- Bare Minerals foundation
- Dyson blue air wrap thing
- Bargain bin Herve Leger dresses
- Cashmere lounge set
- Zebra pjs from a brand she has multiple pouches from
- The TV y’all IS GIFTED from Sky TV (trying to buy one is like trying to buy gold dust or whatever)
- The gifted food box
- Vieve makeup
- Fable & Main (she’s never used the products, but was still invited to the DiVali party. I know it’s Diwali)
- Guerlain lipsticks

I think I’m missing one or two things. And Alex passed his driving test. He didn’t try sooner because of his anxiety, but apparently his anxiety doesn’t stop him when he’s doing car ads

 

[kale-supremacist]

She's always upping and exaggerating the smallest of his achievements. Does the man lack so much self assurance that he needs to be pat on the back for the smallest thing? Cooking , cleaning, taking pictures (which he barely does). How much validation does he need? How exhausting to continuously having to clap and cheer for a grown ass man when you're carrying the household on your back? And all she gets in return is a bitter husband who can't even fake a smile for her. " women supporting women ", what about partners who lift each other ? What about emotional support ? I don't know why it's making me so mad, but I can't believe she's always celebrating him when he's always belittling her. Frow is the one influencer I could never stand but I do feel bad for her.

(I, myself, suffer from debilitating anxiety so I'm not bashing him on that. I just got my license and just never drove since then).

 

[supershark]

It is kind of embarrassing to make such a big deal celebrating something most people achieve at 16 — for a grown ass man.

 

[poopettemetis]

It is kind of embarrassing to make such a big deal celebrating something most people achieve at 16 — for a grown ass man.

I bet she’s more excited about the fact that she doesn’t have to chauffeur him to tattoo appointments anymore.

 

[Crazyaboutcats]

I hate commenting on weight but she looks smaller in her stories, she must feel she needs to compete to the really thin models when she doesnt shes beautiful, so sad to see

Also hes not interested in her blogger lifestyle he wants kids family etc not tagging along to nail appointments or being her camera man

 

[QueenDecember]

Not to steal her thunder but surely she knows dior.com does those beauty masterclasses literally all the time. At least once a month? With GWPs and/or a promo code. It’s not a rare or exclusive occurrence at all

But also — came to say I agree with everyone. Alex is so not into her. And to be frank I’m not either Why does she continue to eat/talk with her mouth full?? It’s so unpleasant

 

[jaymie]

Divorce woman with her new toy boy. Yikes that fringe doesn’t suit her

So they both need their own cars? Why they don’t go anywhere.

Ahaha own car = opportunity to meet female of his age, sorry I mean female.

 

[Consumerism_fatigue]

Not to steal her thunder but surely she knows dior.com does those beauty masterclasses literally all the time. At least once a month? With GWPs and/or a promo code. It’s not a rare or exclusive occurrence at all

But also — came to say I agree with everyone. Alex is so not into her. And to be frank I’m not either Why does she continue to eat/talk with her mouth full?? It’s so unpleasant

Oh damn I really see what you all mean about him looking like her son these days That's... unfortunate.

 

[coconochanel]

I think she celebrated him passing his test as he mentioned he hadn't done it for years because of his anxiety. Also her fringe would look better if she styled it it right she curls it towards her face she needs to curl it away.

 

[AtTheStageDoor]

Still thinking about the 'festivity' of Tartan and have another theory to add to gifted Scottish Shortbread (for people in UK anyway) and it's how often the queen wears tartan for her Christmas day address with a blouse or cashmir jumper and her coat and/or silk scarf she wears to church. For any of you unaware, the entire British royal family spend Christmas in the Scottish Highlands at Balmoral castle and attend the local church there. Lots of the Queen's grandchildren were christened at that chapel too

It is kind of embarrassing to make such a big deal celebrating something most people achieve at 16 — for a grown ass man.

Yes this! Thank you for saying. My flatmates thought I failed my test because I didn't call or text them to tell them I passed... I waited until they got home because at 21, I too thought it was no big deal because it was 3-4years ago my mates had passed.
So this much fuss at 33, regardless of reason for the delay, seems childishly immature!

I'm feeling sorry for Alex. He has been stranded in that house while Vic plays dressup and I get the feeling he proposed when he did because he wanted a kid. His sister's little one (Flynn is it?) must be nearly 5now and they weren't part of his growing up coz of distance and then the pandemic... I think Vic thought being an Uncle would satisfy him for a bit longer but it hasn't worked out like that. Now Vicky is finally having the confidence to say she isn't sure if she even wants kids, Alex would-be justified in feeling cheated out of them because before now she has always said she just wasn't ready yet.

I'm the first one to say women don't have to have children to live a life meeting their potential, I'm also the first to advocate that marriage and Parenthood are not purpose and outcome and can exist perfectly happily without the other...but the fact that Alex brother is going to be dad and Vic wasn't made broody by that seems to have really made Alex husband stop being so affectionate, even tolerant on camera.

 

[deadgirlinside]

If they are unhappy with each other, then they should talk things out with a marriage counselor and for the two of them to go to therapy, before filing for divorce.

But then again, their own selfish choices led them here. Before, Victoria calls in the 'shots' in this relationship, but when Alex whines about something, she folds. That's what led them in Deanshanger, for them to 'start a family'. It baffles me how these two individuals had never talked the 'big things' before he 'proposed' to her (Amelia and her mom picked her ring). Alex wanting to have kids and got his driver's license (bleeping finally) is a sign of maturity after all these years.

I was looking at it this way: CoVid fucked up her career, and it forced this two to rethink and reevaluate their life. For Alex, he really wants kids, but Victoria just whined and whined about everything.

Alex should man up and make something out of himself. But he relies on Victoria so much that I'm just confused as hell. He wants her to fawn over him about the smallest things, achievements and what not. When she's done ogling him, he smiles a little and proceeds to ignore her. That's toxic manipulation right there, but they do it both ways, such as Victoria not giving him a chance to have kids.

Their relationship is so high-school.

 

[Easy Bake]

Poor Alex, he's dying to get his hands on the sweets in what looks like an amazing bakery box. It's not like Vic will be eating any off it. She's thinner than ever and it's sad because she looked good before and was never a weight loss candidate. As someone mentioned, she is not expected to be as thin as the models.

 

[AmaliaLana]

Considering her $$$ is going to be paying for his car, you’d think he could at least try and fake it

What car? Since when does he have a driving licence???????????????????????????????????????????????????

Anyone know what they’re celebrating?

When did they get Boe? Maybe they celebrate that?

She is celebrating Alex passing his driving test.

Omg, THAT HAPPENED. The end is neigh. Never saw that coming. Now he is free to drive where he wants to, I am waiting for his Tinder profile to pop up soon.

I, myself, suffer from debilitating anxiety so I'm not bashing him on that. I just got my license and just never drove since then

Same.

Ahaha own car = opportunity to meet female of his age, sorry I mean female.

Yup.

I think she celebrated him passing his test as he mentioned he hadn't done it for years because of his anxiety. Also her fringe would look better if she styled it it right she curls it towards her face she needs to curl it away.

Imagine having all those hair tools but still your hair looks like a hot mess.

that seems to have really made Alex husband stop being so affectionate, even tolerant on camera.

Then he should consider to break up with her instead of showing the cold shoulder and being bitter. Alex strikes me as that guy, that only breaks up, when he has a new one to leach off from. The driving licence and the car are the first step in that direction.

 

[Crazyaboutcats]

Anyone else think now he has a car and a bit more independence in that sense he's going to cheat or look elsewhere?!

 

[wakeup]

I've never known someone so controlling over some cookies. Let the guy eat them, ffs

 

[deadgirlinside]

Anyone else think now he has a car and a bit more independence in that sense he's going to cheat or look elsewhere?!

He's gonna cheat using the money she gives him Unless he works.

 

[Bonjour92]

I find Alex so incredibly unattractive ugh. I can’t imagine being with a man who I provide for and have to drive everywhere bc he can’t get his driver’s license..seriously? Ew. Also he says he didn’t get it bc of anxiety but then proceeds to say that he lived in a city so getting a license was “pointless” bc he wouldn’t have gotten a car anyway. Well yeah of course it’s pointless if your wife drives you everywhere! Then he says he started trying to get lessons when they moved to their current place but his instructor was “the most narcissistic person he ever met in his life”. Basically it’s everyone’s fault besides his that he only got his license at this age he’s a loser and he sounded so angry talking about it that I can really not imagine him and Vic being in a loving relationship. They’re like a mother and her angry teenage son.

 

[poopettemetis]

The hanger ribbons off the side of the Herrera dress in her newest Reel are trés chic.

For a woman who spends her entire day in front of a mirror, she didn’t see that!?!

What I find interesting re: their relationship is that, of course, we’re all free to change our minds on the desire to have children. Who knows if she ever wanted them in the first place. For all we know, she led him on to get a ring on her finger (I know, that’s mean). But even if he did realize that having a child with someone who wanted one was more important than staying married to his gravy train, would she let him divorce her? She’s so obsessed with the perfect life and the perfect husband and the perfect house, a divorce would tarnish all that in her mind. And I don’t think she has the emotional intelligence to re-brand herself as this empowered 30+ year old divorcee, but that’s just my opinion.

 

[Allexie01]

It is kind of embarrassing to make such a big deal celebrating something most people achieve at 16 — for a grown ass man.

Next goal....joined up writing perhaps?