Yep my youngest walked at 17 months. We were under paediatrics for her walking, they said after 18 months is when they become concerned
HomewithShan #7 She got G some free magnesium. Well done shan, you're so great. Can we be mum friends
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My daughter was 22 months and still nobody was concerned
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Puffin_island
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She's probably raging internally she is walking because what condition can she a label her children with next to get attention. I bet we'll suddenly get reminded G is possible SEN again.
I think main concern for mine was lack of progress as she'd been cruising since 9 months. She wasn't talking either, started around 2My daughter was 22 months and still nobody was concerned
Emsie
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The drip feed on this has started. He NEEDS to go out every day. It's just 4 year olds. Strangely they need fresh air and stimulation. Try as you might they just won't sit in one place.
I strongly believe, given G has been in a childcare provision since he was a baby then any sen would be picked up by now and he'd be on sort of pathway / plan even without a diagnosis. My now 6 year old was on a pathway and plan at 2.5 with his needs and solutions recorded and we were not even sure asd was the way we were gonna go.
If it's adhd it tends to be picked up later because it's normal for toddlers/preschoolers to have lots of energy, not sit still, short attention etc. Earliest they'll diagnose here is 7 but most are older as not picked up until they're struggling in school, struggling to sit, shouting out etc.
Emsie
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There are 3 diagnosed adhd kids in my sons class. I guess it's picked up earlier here?
whatshernameagain_93
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It makes it sound like she's disgusted by her own child/child's bed
AGirlinHerHead
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I doubt he has ADHD. She’s so keen to label her children. Halle’s gross motor is absolutely normal. George is an energetic child with few boundaries and chaotic parenting.
Puffin_island
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If she spent time with other mums and kids (that aren't also self absorbed "influencers") she'd realise her children are pretty much normal for their age. But then she'd also realise she is a crap parent, though probably not because she's so stuck up her own arse to self reflect.
Emsie
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The deinfluencing christmas reel... she's such a grinch.
Most of us know we don't have to do these things but it's worth it for the little happy faces. I'd do anything to make my kids happy. Shan is such a bare minimum mum! Unpopular opinion but I do think you have to put some effort in to make christmas magic.
Most of us know we don't have to do these things but it's worth it for the little happy faces. I'd do anything to make my kids happy. Shan is such a bare minimum mum! Unpopular opinion but I do think you have to put some effort in to make christmas magic.
It's also a carbon copy of literally every other de-influencing christmas video, down to the order of the items.
Starry_eyed_pie
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You know there's no way she's be 'de-influencing' if she was being paid to advertise something!
Exactly! The only reason she isn’t doing Christmas boxes is because she isn’t being gifted items, same with new Christmas decorations.
Puffin_island
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You're 100% right! It doesn't seem she's been given anything to flog other than some crappy make up so she's jumping on the "de-influencing" bandwagon.
Emsie
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She says de-influencing but she was on the aldi wooden toy hype as much as the others.
(I have a strong belief that the aldi toy hype is a social media campaign. Aldi are great at social media. They've created this hype and we all lap it up) but she wasn't de-influencing then was she. Or on prime day or black Friday or whatever.
(I have a strong belief that the aldi toy hype is a social media campaign. Aldi are great at social media. They've created this hype and we all lap it up) but she wasn't de-influencing then was she. Or on prime day or black Friday or whatever.
Thinkevilthoughts
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She’s de-influencing because she’s a tight ass and she also thinks it will build up likes and engagement by being ‘different’
I know it is hard work and I know we get burned out, but no amount of money would tempt me to pick up a camera and film myself ranting about my kids constantly. I can't think of a recent time she filmed or posted about anything positive. The deinfluencing thing, I can get behind to an extent because I think it's easy to go a bit mad, but we do have a natural inclination to treat our children and the presents are part of the Christmas magic, plus they don't even have to be expensive especially at this age. Her household income is also more than a lot of her viewers' probably get so it's not even relatable to act like this. I just don't see any nurturing instinct in Shan at all, it takes me back to when she would literally sit her eldest with a bottle propped in his mouth when he was a baby so she didn't have to hold him, it is not normal to not want to hold your child. She was disgusted at realising she fell asleep in his bed recently when he obviously needed comfort to fall asleep... you're literally never gonna get these days back when they grow up, please get some perspective.