gossipgirl59
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Because she only shows 10% of her life!!
Erim Kaur #10 Greenwashing her brand and whitewashing her skin, flashing her mage and her bathroom is beyond grim c
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I agree too. Just because you’re born in a family that practices or is of a certain faith, it doesn’t make you of that faith too by default.
Wearing a kara and saying you’re a Sikh doesn’t make you a Sikh - I’m sure she knows that but she brushes over it and still uses it to her advantage. The majority of people choose to not show how much they practise their faith online but you can often somewhat tell by the way someone carries themselves. This is not true in every case of course.
Along with a vast number of teachings and guidance, in Sikhi, our first Guru teaches us to
- earn an honest living
- share what we have been blessed with, notably with those in need
- meditate on the name of God
I can’t sit here and make an indication of how much Erim accepts and follows Sikhi - especially as sis only shares 10% of her life lol. But no religion teaches us to lie, gaslight, be egotistical and a bad person. The way she runs her scam of a business doesn’t exude honesty and giving broken scraps of cookies or unwanted leftovers to the homeless isn’t really helping those in need. I’m sure all of us here would never want someone who is homeless to feel hurt or unworthy by giving them broken pieces of a cookie instead of a pack of complete cookies or a warm meal. Erik doesn’t see it like this as all she thinks about is posting about how she’s soooo giving and generous. Tunnel vision!
She must think that she appears to follow a religion but it’s so watered down and wishy washy.
Wearing a kara and saying you’re a Sikh doesn’t make you a Sikh - I’m sure she knows that but she brushes over it and still uses it to her advantage. The majority of people choose to not show how much they practise their faith online but you can often somewhat tell by the way someone carries themselves. This is not true in every case of course.
Along with a vast number of teachings and guidance, in Sikhi, our first Guru teaches us to
- earn an honest living
- share what we have been blessed with, notably with those in need
- meditate on the name of God
I can’t sit here and make an indication of how much Erim accepts and follows Sikhi - especially as sis only shares 10% of her life lol. But no religion teaches us to lie, gaslight, be egotistical and a bad person. The way she runs her scam of a business doesn’t exude honesty and giving broken scraps of cookies or unwanted leftovers to the homeless isn’t really helping those in need. I’m sure all of us here would never want someone who is homeless to feel hurt or unworthy by giving them broken pieces of a cookie instead of a pack of complete cookies or a warm meal. Erik doesn’t see it like this as all she thinks about is posting about how she’s soooo giving and generous. Tunnel vision!
She must think that she appears to follow a religion but it’s so watered down and wishy washy.
classytikkamasala
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rumour has it her bro hates her
As well as the family dog!rumour has it her bro hates her
You know that you’re bad vibes to the boneeee when a dog can’t stand you 
gossipgirl59
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Oh my god, her bald patch at the front! It’s worse than I thought. Why’s it red?? Also, her hairline is badly receding
classytikkamasala
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the ghost foundation still strong i see
Wait so she said she got the broken cookies for free and that she would give them to someone homeless but then proceeded to keep a piece for herself if I’m not mistaken? Is she okay in the head?! You can’t even give things that you got for free FOR the homeless to them
Giving broken cookies was not the best idea but keeping some for yourself is another type of low And to put the 
emoji there too, shameless! Absolutely shameless.On a sidenote, one of you lovelies posted a while ago that they use https://in-stories.online/Erim to view Egrims stories without boosting her story views. Brilliant idea!
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GossipErimAunty2022
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Omg she looks terrible with her hair…..every corner of her hair is loosing hair ( I really think she is battling a medical issue) she needs to eat and protein in her diet
postpartum already came thru
I'm getting really fed up of this Victoria's Secret bra of hers that she weirdly loves to show off. She's like a teenage girl who's got her first bra and wants to let everyone know by showing the straps any way she can!
This dress required a strapless bra/no bra, it just really ruins a look by adding the bra straps.
Also that recent reel.. wtf I'm sorry what in the GCSE Drama? Like, why pull that face like she's trying to think sooo hard about what happened at age 7?
This dress required a strapless bra/no bra, it just really ruins a look by adding the bra straps.
Also that recent reel.. wtf I'm sorry what in the GCSE Drama? Like, why pull that face like she's trying to think sooo hard about what happened at age 7?
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he really does have erim's features, this is all making sense. He defiantly looks like a Hazara ethnic (that are in Pakistan's Baluchistan and also Afghanistan)
fareed malick, high gate uae
his sister Farida Almas Malick Lally
definitely looks like a Hazara*
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She adding the tags of what type of cancer her mum had…,, Erim hi (; if your reading this get over the sympathy bandwagon
wafflesnwings
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First of all...can she not read basic product instructions? No one puts face mask in their eyebrows - silly cow you avoid the entire eye area!
Also: what the hell is wrong with her? Again with the superficial, stupid and tone deaf "content" about her mother. I knew we'd see a surge in this and in the most tacky and attention-seeking manner from the pick-me princess. She is stupid and that post is another chance to show off for the male gaze. Instead of the hashtags and the most pathetic TW I have ever seen, put a bloody link to cancer research groups, community support groups, a link for women to check themselves for signs of breast cancer or a live link to where they can donate.
No normal and rational person talks about parental loss like this. Put the filters away, go to therapy, see a doctor and sort your receding hairline out (and major skin irritation which I bet has come from all of her untested products because no amount of hair gummies can help sort that mess of a hair out). Such a disrespectful and petulant creature!
Her brother looks extremely similar to him as well - which is natural - and from what I see he seems like a very normal, down to earth young man who's getting on with his own businesses. It's Irum who's being the attention-seeking pillock and is clearly being enabled by her father. What a mess!
Hi @wafflesnwings yes I know it’s extremely distressing because I’ve gone through it sadly when I was in a relationship years ago. Horrendous feeling and it takes a long time to overcome. However, I may sound really cold right now but I have no empathy for Erim. She brings these situations to herself. The whole reason she posts thirst traps is to attract guys who ultimately just want to have sex with her. I had to go through that because of deep complications in my long term relationship. But Erim just whores herself out 24/7 something disastrous is bound to happen if you’re not being careful. She attracts all this to herselfAh I see. I think had I not met her in person all those years ago at that event I wouldn't have known she was Punjabi - let alone Sikh - and she definitely doesn't look like any Pashtun I've met (and there's a LOT of Afghans from all ethnic groups where I am). She doesn't know any of the wider cultural nuances - even my cousins who are half white and half Afghan still have that cultural familiarity in dress, language, music, food etc.
I think it's sad that she distances herself so much from what is a very vibrant and strong heritage, and similarly, is so out of touch with the society and culture. It must make for a very lonely existence. @classytikkamasala is right in saying she wears more Pakistani clothing than what Tristin is wearing (that's what I've always seen Punjabi clothing look like - on a side note she is so radiantly beautiful!)
I always felt people are on their own journeys when it comes to culture and faith, but with Irum I genuinely think she's lost and there isn't a way back now. I did used to feel sorry for her, but then her narcissism, compulsive lying, manipulative behaviour and sheer hubris makes any concern rapidly disappear. I think she'd benefit heaps from therapy and getting off social media.
My goodness..I really hope for her own sake that she hasn't had to endure such a thing @truth33 - it's a very very difficult decision and emotionally distressing choice to make/experience.
LOL I know right @gossipgirl59 - I sat there like: "who knew...instead of earning my Ph.D, all I had to do was wear a pair of glasses!?" She hasn't just innovated the hair washing experience, but the entire education system. Welcome to the Erim Academy: all you need is a pair of glasses
She makes such a mockery of education...it's astounding...
Hey, I am Sikh. And me and my family, do try to follow the religion as best as we can, although I don’t follow it religiously myself however, I do go to the go to the Gurdwara every weekend and pray everyday. With Evil eye/Nazar we as a culture, do believe in it. there are some references in our holy Scriptures regarding jealousy and people and how to act upon that, well there is guidance around it. But as I said as a culture, we do believe in evil eye and a lot of my cousins, our relatives, friends, who are Sikh do believe it exists. And we also do certain rituals to cancel out evil eye. We also have the evil eye symbol in our home.
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wafflesnwings
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Oh no. Oh my goodness I am so sorry, so so sorry this has happened to you. I wish I could give you such a big hug (but one through here will have to do - hugs hugs hugs!). I really hope you are in a better space, away from that relationship and becoming more centred in yourself.
I understand the coldness - she just lies so much and it's very strange. In her quest to have more sympathy, she actually ends up repelling it through her aggression and superfluous/babyish behaviours. I'd have never thought to connect my mother's death with a filter or opening a designer handbag - no sane person does.
I think her self-esteem comes from making soft-porn content and appeasing/gaining the approval of these men (I cannot begin to state how many men - even the liberal-minded ones - subconsciously hate women, if Erim realised it, she wouldn't ever post thirst traps). So many of these men in her comments are strangers and I don't see why she craves their attention/approval/validation. She is the furthest thing from a girls' girl. She's actually extremely misogynistic and patriarchal. No young woman - or woman of any age - should look at her and think she's a stable role model.
She doesn't take care of herself and her general health (can't even eat properly and consistently, wear the right foundation colour etc.). I think because she thinks she is young, she can mistreat her body and not take care of any area of her health. But it will have severe long-term implications for her. Look at Victoria Beckham - restricts eating for most of her life and she looks like she has early on-set osteoporosis, very limp hair and papery skin
Awww @wafflesnwings thank you so so much. I actually felt your hug vibes reading that
I’m away from the relationship yes, but it wasn’t my ex’s fault either. It was sad state of circumstances involving family and it was around 10 years ago and it really deeply effects a person in many different ways I’ve realised now looking back. It took a lot of inner work, therapy, life coaching, healing and prayers to come through the other end and I’ve done just that and I’m now in a very happy place in my life with love in it so I’m grateful for my current life.
with all the life experience I’ve had and difficult times I look at Erim who suffered a tragic loss with her mums death, but is extremely privileged and seems to have been brought up in a loving and safe environment with her Dad ahd grandparents but she’s a horrible mean girl on purpose. That’s the part that I find repulsive about her. Because I also went through sever complex childhood trauma and the patters continued into adulthood so I know what it’s like to overcome EXTREME adversity in life and in ALL areas of my life I’ve been hit with L’s consistently for years and years so I know what it looks and feels like to want to completely give up and then Have to dig deep and come back from it all - and comeback from it all I have and in a major way I’m back on top thankfully with the Grace of God.
but this girl has nothing good to give out, not an ounce, not even a tiny speck of good comes out of her. Everything she posts is for the male gaze, she’s nasty to people, she thinks she’s better than every female out their And is the biggest pick me I’ve ever had the misfortune of coming across.
wafflesnwings
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It must have been so painful to endure. Family can be loving, but also quite...straitjacket-like at times. I'm so happy you are in a more joyful space with love in it; I hope that these things always surround and follow you wherever life takes you! The healing really is a journey and it takes as long as it needs to. I really am happy you have come out of the other side. Such experiences can shape us and there is an element of choice in how we want to treat others based on what we go through. We can choose to go to therapy, do the inner work and heal ourselves (just like you did; it takes so much courage). We can also choose to be in complete denial and meet the world from a place of anger, resentment and bitterness (like Erim does).Awww @wafflesnwings thank you so so much. I actually felt your hug vibes reading that
I’m away from the relationship yes, but it wasn’t my ex’s fault either. It was sad state of circumstances involving family and it was around 10 years ago and it really deeply effects a person in many different ways I’ve realised now looking back. It took a lot of inner work, therapy, life coaching, healing and prayers to come through the other end and I’ve done just that and I’m now in a very happy place in my life with love in it so I’m grateful for my current life.
with all the life experience I’ve had and difficult times I look at Erim who suffered a tragic loss with her mums death, but is extremely privileged and seems to have been brought up in a loving and safe environment with her Dad ahd grandparents but she’s a horrible mean girl on purpose. That’s the part that I find repulsive about her. Because I also went through sever complex childhood trauma and the patters continued into adulthood so I know what it’s like to overcome EXTREME adversity in life and in ALL areas of my life I’ve been hit with L’s consistently for years and years so I know what it looks and feels like to want to completely give up and then Have to dig deep and come back from it all - and comeback from it all I have and in a major way I’m back on top thankfully with the Grace of God.
but this girl has nothing good to give out, not an ounce, not even a tiny speck of good comes out of her. Everything she posts is for the male gaze, she’s nasty to people, she thinks she’s better than every female out their And is the biggest pick me I’ve ever had the misfortune of coming across.
I can relate so much to what you've shared, and thank you for that. You have such resilience to come back from every setback and continue.
My mother's death was caused by a mental health illness, at a time where we didn't have communal/nationwide conversations or programmes telling us that mental health is health. It was very painful to move through, but my father did his best with me and my sister. He always tells us we can choose our responses. We chose not to become angry or bitter, but do feel profound sadness as siblings and it's a big reason why I went into science as a career. I didn't think I'd end up in the cosmetic chemistry part, but I wanted to understand the human mind, our emotions and what can be done to comfort/support us when we are in such deep distress. It's why Erim's chosen associative behaviour with her mother, her passing and her memory is so bizarre and irrational to me.
She really doesn't and it's sad to see someone constantly spewing negativity, anger and hate. She must be exhausted all the time. Believe me I wish I'd never met her and her father. They were very nasty and snobby people back then - nothing has changed there. She was a very toffee-nosed madam with a bad attitude and chip on her shoulder - despite being born into affluence, love and the security of her father. I am, however, glad that she is getting her comeuppance all these years later, as more people see through her facade, her lies, narc behaviour and all her untested products that are a genuine danger to human health
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Guys... if you look at her comments on that tiktok ( EVERY single person) doesn't follow more than 20 people.. they are all bots!! and doing tags of random usenames... i am 100% she is buying followers!!
but do people really see it? Cause if she did she would be canceled by now....
I will continue to say this until it can be proven 1) these names >> they do not look like genuine people trying to follow her 2) she never has normal people commenting on her shittttttt its always all these werid names ( shouldn't other influences see her) etc 3) Everyone has only 20+ or little following and 0 likes ( why do they have the same number of followers) with 0 likes. I will continue to say she has bought followers.
but do people really see it? Cause if she did she would be canceled by now....
I will continue to say this until it can be proven 1) these names >> they do not look like genuine people trying to follow her 2) she never has normal people commenting on her shittttttt its always all these werid names ( shouldn't other influences see her) etc 3) Everyone has only 20+ or little following and 0 likes ( why do they have the same number of followers) with 0 likes. I will continue to say she has bought followers.
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