Erim Kaur #10 Greenwashing her brand and whitewashing her skin, flashing her mage and her bathroom is beyond grim c

[hellomynameis_]

I personally think she is Muslim!!!! Based on this I think she genuinely is at that’s why (Dubai) and her side hustle…and her never being to India and always down playing it etc! And this would make sense… also if you are Punjabi you would listen to the music and all more ( she also doesn’t refer to the dishes properly) I low key think she is Muslim tbh and just doesn’t want to loose her audience so she pretends she’s not

i personally think she could be Muslim too or appreciates aspects of Islam due to the connection to her mother being Muslim. it makes a lot of sense that she does that but the Narc in her probably fails to resonate, understand and follow the teachings of both Islam & Sikhi and so she therefore follows very ‘watered-down’ versions of both religions to whichever suits her best.

 

[hellomynameis_]

hey guys i just wanted to come on here quickly as i saw one of erim’s stories and i’m confused/weirded out by it. it’s the one up today, where she’s showing a bracelet with a Surah from the Quran (i’m Muslim so that’s how i recognised this) and she said she found it in the boot of her car and wants one of her friends to claim it. firstly, why is she posting it on her MAIN story if she’s asking for her friends to claim it? secondly, why was there MUSIC on the background which is HIGHLY disrespectful? SURELY she should know this if she has Muslim friends that the writing on the bracelet is from the Quran, something which we hold sacred. i also find something else really odd but i could just be overthinking. the bracelet looks extremely similar to a Karra which Sikhs wear (a steel bangle which is same in colour) and Erim wears one too. i remember it being mentioned on here that her mum was Muslim. could this be Erim’s bracelet that she’s pretending is one of her friends? is she trying to deny / wash off any trace of any links to her potentially having Muslim relatives / her mum being Muslim? i know she is a Narc and i’ve studied Narc behaviour .. it just seems very oddly fitting? anyways, this may just be me overthinking everything but something about that story was just extremely odd and i’m surprised her Muslim followers haven’t caught up to it?

and to add additionally, no Muslim would ever leave their bracelet with a verse from the Quran in the boot of our friend’s car unless it’s purely accidental. we take extra care of anything that contains holy words. it doesn’t make sense to me.

 

[classytikkamasala]

honestly i think she flip flops depending on the circle she's with atm. we have already seen her flip flop with her ethnic roots. i wouldn't be surprised that she has done that with sikhi/islam prior to adding kaur to her instagram name in 2019. i remember in the earlier threads someone stated that they and their circle of friends who followed erim also thought she was muslim before she added kaur to her name because of:
- how she would claim different ethnic roots that were arab (persian/iranian)
- how she was always hanging at places where cultures with majority muslim youth hang out in (the specific restaurants she would go to, hookah lounges, etc.)
- wearing pakistani style clothing whenever she wore asian clothing and referred to asian clothing
- she also collabed with mostly muslim vendors/businesses at the time (who remembers when she made gurbani necklaces that were a total flop and she got tons of backlash for? rumour has it she cried on set at a photoshoot and played victim mentality of "why are people HATING on me" instead of taking the criticism that gurbani should not be on jewellery form the sikh community)
- making a lot of modest-wear content that was specifically targeted towards hijabis & muslim girls from the style of the outfits she would post
- and just having a lot of muslim friends in her circle (individually this wouldn't mean anything at all, but along with her whole online persona at the time, it just added to the assumptions - or the image - she created for her audience)
i remember that person unfortunately got slated for that assumption in the earlier threads but i have heard many people had this assumption of erim before she tried getting the attention of a sikh audience.

i remember reading on the gg thread as well that her supposed family member/friend claims that erim was not connected to sikhi at all when she was under her mum's custody and grew up with a muslim background prior to her dad getting custody.

 

[truth33]

Youre right regarding her body needing to be checked out. I don't think she's even had a period in the last few months (could explain why she was researching the pull out method) every month this girl would make it known that she is on her period, but hasn't done for a while now. (Lolll incoming period announcement now....)

You know that morning, last week it was the day she went to the Arab wedding, well, that morning she posted she was on her way to a very painful meeting with her Godmother. She then posted a pic of Jo Malone shop/head office or something which is very close to a private abortion clinic in Central London which is where she was. She didn’t say anything else other than it was painful and not nice. Now, I could be completely wrong here and it was nothing but I think she got pregnant and was on her way to get rid of it. Could’ve been Aman Natt’s and maybe that’s why she went Dubai and he’s not interested in a baby with her but who knows. I could be completely wrong here but I wouldn’t put it past her and especially now you just said she hasn’t posted her period stories for a few months now. And the way she jumped up to tell us the pull out search was on her assistants phone. This girl is on another level - she’s desperate for validation and just having careless sex with men that just want her for the night. She’s not a good person at all.

ranavat is in sephora in the US so i would def be expecting them in uk sephora too! byerim has absolutely no chance.


as an american sikh i do think it's important for our culture to be as recognised as other cultures and not be lumped up with other asian cultures and religions. we are the 5th largest religion in the world, if people can learn to call a mosque a mosque, a synagogue a synagogue, then americans can certainly learn and acknowledge what a gurdwara is. however, erim's post about differentiating between diwali and bandi chhor divas was another shallow attempt at sikh-diaspora clout. she can never explain herself in her own words so she tries to link other resources to take off the pressure. her one brain cell is really trying to brain cell today.

another day of erim obsessing over her "trolls"
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jokes on u head erim, they said telecope not microscope, before you continue obsessing over these trolls u seem to not care about, get ur facts right!

Imagine this is how a 7 figure business owner speaks. I can’t imagine fable & mane owners talking like this, like a teenager OMG she’s such a nasty piece of work

i get where ur coming from but i think it's a bit of a non-issue. there is a large muslim community in south asia too and they do not celebrate diwali so why are sikhis villainised if they want to raise more awareness about bandi chhor divas instead? just pointing this out as these threads have a huge sikh audience as well and we do mainly celebrate bandi chhor divas which is celebrated on diwali but our celebrating bandi chhor divas does not take away from diwali and vice versa should not either

if anything she can use bandi chhor divas to celebrate in the ways that you suggest - giving back to her customers and her employees as seva is such a huge part of sikhi anyway. however she will not do any of that because she only mentions sikhi when it gets her clout

there is tons that erim does terribly online and we have sooo much to talk about on a daily basis because erim really does only have one working brain cell. but when it comes to sikh narratives and dialogues online, i just ask that we be mindful of what we are saying we expect sikhs to do in relation to hindu or indian customs and culture on these threads.


it is soooo distasteful whenever she makes stories like these

honestly her content is so terrible. as we all have been saying for several threads now, she tells us she only shows us 10% of her life but that's because that is the 10% that has any activity in her life at all. she makes all of these absolutely pointless stories.

i was about to start listing so many ideas of what she can make content on but then i realised she would have an excuse of trolls for every content idea. she can't make content regarding her hair anymore as everyone notices how thin and lifeless it is as well as her balding being soooo apparent now. she cant make content about anything related to sisterhood because she always makes it about herself and everybody has started to notice her facade of sisterhood and how inauthentic it feels. she can't make fashion content because she has the absolute worst 2016 style. she can't post about her day because when she does that she ends up complaining about EVERYTHING and who wants to spend their time on social media reading about someone complaining about absolutely nothing? her space, platform everything about her is just not a positive experience for any of her audience. and this is why she has completely run out of content ideas. nobody wants to see anything from her anymore. at this point she should give it up. she would be lucky if byerim gets bought out and she would get to delete social media and live a life off social media. honestly it seems that it is what she needs for her mental health anyway from how many "headaches" she gets (aka how often she gets exposed for lies)

I don’t think she can sell byerim because there’s nothing to sell lol apart from the Ali Baba packaging with really tit, dangerous, untested products. No business owner in their right mind would buy byerim lol. But as you said she should just give it all up but she won’t ever because she’s obsessed with the thirsty men and that validate her everyday so she’ll stay for that.

honestly if that story from her video is true i think it's mostly to do with her parents having a messy divorce and ending things badly prior to her mum's passing

any ideas on what this is about guys? another laundering front?

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Wasn’t she in Barcelona and Dubai “on business” signing papers on both trips over last few months? So, thus could he one of her Dad’s business’s in property it looks like. He’s obviously not wanting to be the director and it’s common to have family members as directors for tax evasion purposes. A lot of legit businesses do, do this. I know all this as my accountant sometimes advise this if you have multiple businesses/limited companies and also yes it’s common to launder money through limited companies like this.
Other cash businesses/big drug and arms dealers will pick legit businesses like this if the owners are connected to high level criminals like the one you’ve posted or byerim ltd to launder money through and the directors is those companies (ie this will be all her Dad) will get a good % of the amount they launder though. Sometimes, however money laundering doesn’t have to be just for high end organised crime gangs it can just be to put a lot of cash business money through a limited company and they use it for other companies payrolls etc. There’s so many ways people launder money these fats and it’s impossible for it to be proved.
I know all this because I have limited companies too and I have friends who launder money all the time through my accountants clients accounts and my accountants and solicitors help them with it all.

 

[Desi101]

I personally think she is Muslim!!!! Based on this I think she genuinely is at that’s why (Dubai) and her side hustle…and her never being to India and always down playing it etc! And this would make sense… also if you are Punjabi you would listen to the music and all more ( she also doesn’t refer to the dishes properly) I low key think she is Muslim tbh and just doesn’t want to loose her audience so she pretends she’s not

Her Desi clothing is also not traditionally Punjabi so it makes sense. When I first came across her profile (Erimstagram days), I thought she was a Muslim girl.

She's always got her khara on and used to wear a necklace with the name Almas on it as a pendant written in Arabic - perhaps in tribute to her mother, as well as her own middle name. I think she's very immersed in her father's culture and not as much with her mother's

Honestly, as a Punjabi, she isn't immersed in our culture at all. She's seen as more of a standard Desi girl. I wouldn't be able to tell she's a Punjabi if I saw her profile.

Her knowledge of the Sikh faith looks like its off Wikipedia and she lacks understanding of Punjabi culture and society. Most Sikhs in Punjab actually celebrate Diwali as a cultural festival with lamps and also understand the significance of Bandi Chhor Divas along with it.

There is a half Punjabi, half white influencer/model, Tristin Dhaliwal and she embraces her Punjabi clothing beautifully. Something we never saw Erim doing.

 

[gossipgirl59]

She really put glasses on and thought that would make us trust that her products are safe to use

Also, what friends?? Your dentist?

 

[wafflesnwings]

Ah I see. I think had I not met her in person all those years ago at that event I wouldn't have known she was Punjabi - let alone Sikh - and she definitely doesn't look like any Pashtun I've met (and there's a LOT of Afghans from all ethnic groups where I am). She doesn't know any of the wider cultural nuances - even my cousins who are half white and half Afghan still have that cultural familiarity in dress, language, music, food etc.
I think it's sad that she distances herself so much from what is a very vibrant and strong heritage, and similarly, is so out of touch with the society and culture. It must make for a very lonely existence. @classytikkamasala is right in saying she wears more Pakistani clothing than what Tristin is wearing (that's what I've always seen Punjabi clothing look like - on a side note she is so radiantly beautiful!)

I always felt people are on their own journeys when it comes to culture and faith, but with Irum I genuinely think she's lost and there isn't a way back now. I did used to feel sorry for her, but then her narcissism, compulsive lying, manipulative behaviour and sheer hubris makes any concern rapidly disappear. I think she'd benefit heaps from therapy and getting off social media.

My goodness..I really hope for her own sake that she hasn't had to endure such a thing @truth33 - it's a very very difficult decision and emotionally distressing choice to make/experience.

LOL I know right @gossipgirl59 - I sat there like: "who knew...instead of earning my Ph.D, all I had to do was wear a pair of glasses!?" She hasn't just innovated the hair washing experience, but the entire education system. Welcome to the Erim Academy: all you need is a pair of glasses
She makes such a mockery of education...it's astounding...

 

[kale-supremacist]

I don't want to offend anyone but Islam isn't inherited by birth. She cannot be "half muslim", that doesn't exist. She's either Muslim or not; and I highly doubt an undercover Muslim would post about waheguru and reference Sikhism. (Islam is one of the few religions where its unlawful to hide your faith for security - like christian used to hide in early days of Christiany in Roman Empire). Dubai is full of expats, not an Islamic hub.
All we have is that she's been raised by her dad's side, who are Sikh. I just think she's disconnected and doesn't have any authentic bond with her faith, and that's why she feels like she's cosplaying and larping to us.
Also Almaz means diamond, not sure what Almas means.

 

[hellomynameis_]

I don't want to offend anyone but Islam isn't inherited by birth. She cannot be "half muslim", that doesn't exist. She's either Muslim or not; and I highly doubt an undercover Muslim would post about waheguru and reference Sikhism. (Islam is one of the few religions where its unlawful to hide your faith for security - like christian used to hide in early days of Christiany in Roman Empire). Dubai is full of expats, not an Islamic hub.
All we have is that she's been raised by her dad's side, who are Sikh. I just think she's disconnected and doesn't have any authentic bond with her faith, and that's why she feels like she's cosplaying and larping to us.
Also Almaz means diamond, not sure what Almas means.

i agree with this and completely understand your point. i have never stated that she is “half Muslim half Sikh” or because her mum was Muslim, she must have inherited Islam too. She is Sikh. her dad is Sikh. Her mum was Muslim. my point is that although she follows Sikhi, she still incorporates wide Islamic beliefs into her lifestyle.

hanging out in shisha lounges (shisha is forbidden in Sikhi) where muslim specific youths hang out, her dad serving halal meat at his restaurant (please correct me if i am wrong but i read that Sikhs cannot eat halal meat or meat which has been ritually slaughtered), having majority muslim friends and wearing Pakistani clothing doesn’t really mean much. it just points out that Erim is extremely clueless about her own culture, the norms and values of her culture & the teachings of the religion she claims to have been born into and follows (Sikhi). however, the thing i find extremely weird is how much of islam she has incorporated into her version of Sikhi. for example, believing in nazar/evil eye is a widely Islamic thing, a huge Islamic belief, and we often “remove” the evil eye by saying Mashallah or certain verses of the Quran. Mashallah meaning = (All praise is due to Allah). I’ve seen some videos where erim attempts to remove the evil eye by saying “Waheguru Satnam.” Sikhi doesn’t follow the belief of evil eye, there is no concept of it. i’m not Sikh so please do correct me if i am wrong. although i do feel that her reason for wanting to wear modest clothing was due to her being a pick-me and “different” to other girls, she still attracted a large Muslim audience. her obsession with wanting to have Persian or Afghan roots strongly suggests she looks up to or wants to adhere to the muslim community too (both countries have a muslim majority population). i wouldn’t be surprised if she in some way has some sort of fascination with Islam (again, due to the connection it gives to her mother). i personally feel like she defo has some sort of connection to Islam, hence why she’s incorporated bits of it into her lifestyle. i don’t think the narc in her will ever be able to correctly follow either religions.

 

[gossipgirl59]

i agree with this and completely understand your point. i have never stated that she is “half Muslim half Sikh” or because her mum was Muslim, she must have inherited Islam too. She is Sikh. her dad is Sikh. Her mum was Muslim. my point is that although she follows Sikhi, she still incorporates wide Islamic beliefs into her lifestyle.

hanging out in shisha lounges (shisha is forbidden in Sikhi) where muslim specific youths hang out, her dad serving halal meat at his restaurant (please correct me if i am wrong but i read that Sikhs cannot eat halal meat or meat which has been ritually slaughtered), having majority muslim friends and wearing Pakistani clothing doesn’t really mean much. it just points out that Erim is extremely clueless about her own culture, the norms and values of her culture & the teachings of the religion she claims to have been born into and follows (Sikhi). however, the thing i find extremely weird is how much of islam she has incorporated into her version of Sikhi. for example, believing in nazar/evil eye is a widely Islamic thing, a huge Islamic belief, and we often “remove” the evil eye by saying Mashallah or certain verses of the Quran. Mashallah meaning = (All praise is due to Allah). I’ve seen some videos where erim attempts to remove the evil eye by saying “Waheguru Satnam.” Sikhi doesn’t follow the belief of evil eye, there is no concept of it. i’m not Sikh so please do correct me if i am wrong. although i do feel that her reason for wanting to wear modest clothing was due to her being a pick-me and “different” to other girls, she still attracted a large Muslim audience. her obsession with wanting to have Persian or Afghan roots strongly suggests she looks up to or wants to adhere to the muslim community too (both countries have a muslim majority population). i wouldn’t be surprised if she in some way has some sort of fascination with Islam (again, due to the connection it gives to her mother). i personally feel like she defo has some sort of connection to Islam, hence why she’s incorporated bits of it into her lifestyle. i don’t think the narc in her will ever be able to correctly follow either religions.

Remember she denied her mum being Muslim though. Do you think she lied about it? I wouldn’t be surprised

 

[hellomynameis_]

Remember she denied her mum being Muslim though. Do you think she lied about it? I wouldn’t be surprised

her mum’s name is registered as Farida Almas Lally. Lally is her dad’s surname. both Farida and Almas are very Islamic traditional names, i’m 80% / 90% sure that her mum was Muslim x

 

[Snoopy247]

Remember she denied her mum being Muslim though. Do you think she lied about it? I wouldn’t be surprised

You know if she really did lie about this, that is beyond disgusting. She should proud of her Mother.
I think her mum was Muslim, because didn't someone on here on a super early thread say her name was Fariha?!
Erim has major identity issues to lie about her heritage. If she can deal, then she shouldn't have said anything, to lie about it is absolutely disgusting. A part of me can't believe that someone would!

Alsooooo very interesting theory @truth33 about the abortion clinic! We will never know the truth but I do wonder. And I wonder what's going on with Aman natt now, maybe it's just dubai hookups but let's see lol!!!

Edit- just saw @Hellomynameis post about the name. Sorry. Farida not fariha. But that's just awful

 

[gossipgirl59]

I was about to comment on how funny it is that she claims she barely does ads but then I noticed, she put a face mask over her eyebrows who does that??? What is going on with her hairline area too?

See!! Only she calls herself a princess

This is definitely the only designer bag purchase she’s kept because she won’t stop showing it

 

[GossipErimAunty2022]

These were honestly alllll so deep!!!!!! The last couple. It’s definitely a lot going on in the girls life. I genuinely wish she would take care of these issues and I think that’s why she turns to social media because she wants to have some sympathy or an outlet with all the inner battles she is going through. I think that’s why some of her stories deff have the whole aggressive attitude it’s because she has so much in her personal life that she is dealing with.

I think if she is so much in love with her mom then I think all this makes sense ( a miss of understanding) I do think that sometimes like me are raised half Sikh and half Hindu ( but my mom converted) for my dad family issues. That growing up sometimes you want to understand that side of your mothers heritage but you are torn between the one you are raised it. So I can see how maybe her dad is v strict Sikh or (grandparents) cause she only ever goes with her grandmother maybe on her own but it’s always with her I noticed or talks about her bringing home the prasad but I could see why she could want to honor that part of her cause it reminds her of her mom. I don’t think she really honors the “Lally” cause she just keeps it at the Kaur so maybe it is an identity issue that she is dealing with.

Maybe plot twist her ( Godmother) is her real mother Or maybe another correlation exists like was her moms bestfriend or something who knows. But I do think that person could really help Erim if she opened up to her. But I think she is fighting a battle by herself and just making it worst and worst for herself cause her “mean girl” behavior isn’t cute tbh

I genuinely feel sorry for her. But about the period, she could have PCOS ( hence the hair fall, hence the ( low iron), the headaches, the missing periods) etc so she won’t know until she genuinely sees a doctor. I think that’s why she was getting tons of blood work before for her headaches is because she has something going on in the inside of her. Or it could be another medical issue. But I do also remember that girl on Twitter calling her out about sex and all with her ex and how she would force him to have it. So maybe that theory could also be true as well. But I hope she isn’t dealing with that cause I do think it’s such a sad topic ( and loosing her mom) and this would destroy her if she did go down that route.

also yes I agree when I first followed her all she would do is bridal shoots that were mainly Arabic and Paki relevant.

That post on “ad” made me laugh so bad as well.. like buddy every post you do is ad you have a solid 20-30 a day from brands, to restaurants, to facials, to PR so idk what you trying to do. You legit have so many a day. You never go to a restaurant or a place without an add.
Every dubai trip all the food places are always sponsored and etc. so idk what she’s on this morning.

&&& I do agree that’s the only bag left in her collection because she has sold every other piece.

 

[anon901]

Remember she denied her mum being Muslim though. Do you think she lied about it? I wouldn’t be surprised

if she was honest about her ethnicity and religion but wanted to be an influencer not using it for clout sympathy. she would not be exposed

but here we are three hearts

 

[kundicouncil]

I also have a dumb thing but why does she never talk about her brother, why does she never post about his birthdays, or getting lunch or dinner with him, all the PR she gets she always talks about gifting her dad, ( never her grandpa or her brother), any trip she goes on its always with her dad, its like her brother doesn't exist do we know why? ( is he not really from her mother etc) its just so weird to me that he is in none of the properties and never goes on any of the dubai trips etc. Just currious on why she excludes him ( if her thing is sisters without a mum but your own brother is too so shouldnt it also be for brothers without a mum as well)?

Also that money laundering thing is so interesting maybe her dad and Amman Natt are business partners etc

 

[newbie82]

her mum’s name is registered as Farida Almas Lally. Lally is her dad’s surname. both Farida and Almas are very Islamic traditional names, i’m 80% / 90% sure that her mum was Muslim x

I don't want to cause offense either but I don't think a name ties someone to a religion. I know plenty of people with muslim names but are not religious at all. Don't practice don't know much etc they've just inherited a name

i think she does whatever she can to gain more followers she lacks self respect

 

[blairwaldorf202]

Quite funny how after she posted she doesn’t do many ads 100% of her posts (albeit 3 stories) have all been “ad gifted”

 

[hellomynameis_]

I don't want to cause offense either but I don't think a name ties someone to a religion. I know plenty of people with muslim names but are not religious at all. Don't practice don't know much etc they've just inherited a name

i agree with you. like i stated above, i’m sure her mum was Muslim, never did i state whether she was a practicing Muslim or not. the problem here lies with ERIM continuously lying & being deceiving

 

[Jane1122]

I also have a dumb thing but why does she never talk about her brother, why does she never post about his birthdays, or getting lunch or dinner with him, all the PR she gets she always talks about gifting her dad, ( never her grandpa or her brother), any trip she goes on its always with her dad, its like her brother doesn't exist do we know why? ( is he not really from her mother etc) its just so weird to me that he is in none of the properties and never goes on any of the dubai trips etc. Just currious on why she excludes him ( if her thing is sisters without a mum but your own brother is too so shouldnt it also be for brothers without a mum as well)?

Also that money laundering thing is so interesting maybe her dad and Amman Natt are business partners etc

She used to talk about her baba (grandad) quite a bit before but tbf she hardly mentions her gran nowadays either compared to before. Regarding her bro, he doesn't like her nor gets along with her well which makes me wonder if that was the real reason she was so desperate to move out of her dads as well as obviously having a place to herself to have sex with whoever as before she would always be at hotels every weekend with her ex AJ as obviously she couldn't have sex with her at home with her bro and dad being there. But yeah I don't think her bro is too keen on her or anything to do with her influencing and byerim either. He likes to keep his head down and not on social media either.