Yawn, why would anyone take reassurance in their parenting from CarolineThing is snapping at C is the least concerning thing about how she treats him.
Posting about his most private moments, how difficult you find him and how you wish he was different, trying to pathologise every thing he does, while then also enabling it to continue, and then monetising content about it, is so monumentally more harmful than the odd moment of snapping in frustration, which all humans do from time to time.