Bex Wolfnsunflowers #11 Hopefully you'll have time to finish your book now, Bex!

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Traazers said:
"my partner" hahahah rebecca you're pathetic. I am cringing for you. Old man says stop and you say how high? I

this isn't a relationship nd it's not normal to allow a man to "encourage" stiop doing things.
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It's a bit sad. I thought Naandrew loved her fierce independence or something? And now she's loving being the little woman with her manly partner putting his foot down and telling her what to do. She obviously thinks it means he cares. If of course any of this is true.
Again comparisons with Jack who used to love it when, apparently, her then boyfriend would come round and order her to stop 'work' as she was overdoing it 😂
 
Jelly Bean said:
It's a bit sad. I thought Naandrew loved her fierce independence or something? And now she's loving being the little woman with her manly partner putting his foot down and telling her what to do. She obviously thinks it means he cares. If of course any of this is true.
Again comparisons with Jack who used to love it when, apparently, her then boyfriend would come round and order her to stop 'work' as she was overdoing it 😂
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I think Bex is just one of those people who are so delusionally attached to being the centre of attention that they'll twist anything in their life to mean whatever benefits them at the time.

And it's bang-your-head-against-the-wall frustrating to know anyone like that that because you're just a springboard for them to convince themselves of their own delusions, rather than actually caring about your thoughts or advice. If Naandrew tells her to stop vaping and she's decided that day it means he's fiercely protective of her health and he cares so much about her lungs, god forbid you disagree. And if next week it means Naandrew is a controlling and coercive abuser who is trying to change the very core of who she is, you're evil if you disagree on that.

The only running theme in her life is that 1) she's always the victim of something, 2) she's never ever wrong, and 3) nothing is ever her fault.
 
Jelly Bean said:
I don't think I screen shotted tweets from Bex and her homeschool buddies a few months ago congratulating themselves on not having to get up for school. Bex didn't even hide the fact she thought school parents were idiots being tied to the tyranny of school times while she stayed in bed.
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I might get flack for this but i don't even know why home schooling is a thing. Teachers have degrees and specific training in how to get info to stick and sink in. Why is any halfwit allowed to say no I'll do that myself? School teaches interpersonal skills they can't get elsewhere aswell as providing checks and balances to the influence of parents who might knowingly or unknowingly fall short in all sorts of ways. And you only have to look at the poor kids killed in lockdown when everyone suddenly had to home school to see what a gift it is to abusers to have them entirely at their mercy with no teachers noticing anything. I simply don't believe that even the efficient capable and good ones diligently do 9-3 five days a week consistently either. And friendships formed in school days tend to go the distance.
 
Foxvint said:
I might get flack for this but i don't even know why home schooling is a thing. Teachers have degrees and specific training in how to get info to stick and sink in. Why is any halfwit allowed to say no I'll do that myself? School teaches interpersonal skills they can't get elsewhere aswell as providing checks and balances to the influence of parents who might knowingly or unknowingly fall short in all sorts of ways. And you only have to look at the poor kids killed in lockdown when everyone suddenly had to home school to see what a gift it is to abusers to have them entirely at their mercy with no teachers noticing anything. I simply don't believe that even the efficient capable and good ones diligently do 9-3 five days a week consistently either. And friendships formed in school days tend to go the distance.
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Strong agree. I don't think it's conductive to society allow people to opt out of teaching their children how to participate in that society. Very Tory of me I know.
 
I think there is something to be said for the education system not working for every child, especially disabled ones. Spaces in specialist-provision environments are hard to come by. But I don’t think the answer to the problem is to allow anyone with no relevant quals or experience to just pull their child out of school and just do it themselves. No, I don’t know what a good solution to the problem is… but it ain’t that. There’s a reason that people have to do a good amount of studying to become a teacher.
 
I was home schooled from the age of 11 upwards due to being so severely bullied that I was having panic attacks daily and suffering from depression. I have autism myself and my school was awful and my mum just had enough of it, but she was very strict and I did my lessons from some proper gcse courses she paid for that sent me the syllabus type things I had to study and do coursework from. I did my gcses and went to uni etc, doing fine now. But I appreciate that's probably a rarity, back then it was really seen as weird and we had to have people come over and inspect my coursework from the council! 😂

But do you want the big news? I was at legoland last week with my kids and bex was there... With Naandrew AND her kid 😂 I nearly fell off the chair I was on!
 
It's not -that- expensive if booked in advance but still about £80 for tickets for her and kid, plus fuel, food, souvenirs.
 
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