So with my first child the birth was fairly traumatic. Full resus team. Whisked to nicu ans diagnosed with a serious heart condition.
Naturally when it came to my second I was terrified and convinced a section would he best. After chatting with a few consultants though we came up with a good plan for vaginal birth but extra ' safety net/rules' where creation would be reverted to. I was miffed at first being told no two births are the same by the consultant but they aren't wrong. In the end up my second birth went absolutely amazing ans was extremely healing. I am so so thankful that they didn't just accept my demands for a section based on my previous trauma and made me look at things from a different perspective. I felt amazing within 10 mins of having my baby, was driving and shopping 2 days later, able to do everything that would have been much more difficult with a section.
So I feel personally that she's too closed off in demanding a section and she may live to regret it as they are hard going especially with a toddler!