Beth Sandland #6 She married her teacher then her mum married the head of year

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So with my first child the birth was fairly traumatic. Full resus team. Whisked to nicu ans diagnosed with a serious heart condition.

Naturally when it came to my second I was terrified and convinced a section would he best. After chatting with a few consultants though we came up with a good plan for vaginal birth but extra ' safety net/rules' where creation would be reverted to. I was miffed at first being told no two births are the same by the consultant but they aren't wrong. In the end up my second birth went absolutely amazing ans was extremely healing. I am so so thankful that they didn't just accept my demands for a section based on my previous trauma and made me look at things from a different perspective. I felt amazing within 10 mins of having my baby, was driving and shopping 2 days later, able to do everything that would have been much more difficult with a section.

So I feel personally that she's too closed off in demanding a section and she may live to regret it as they are hard going especially with a toddler!
 
I get a vibe from Beth that she is the kind of person who thinks a c section is easy, I think she will be in for a big shock when she has to actually physically recover from one. It’s anything but easy.

Beth is the kind of person who thinks it's all nice and easy for her. Eg, telling everyone she didn't want to hear anything negative about childbirth and then crying afterwards that it was unexpectedly (for her) tit. She could have been more prepared if she wasn't such a dick about what she was choosing to listen to or not regarding childbirth.

She voluntarily went in with only half the knowledge.

She comes across a bit thick in my opinion. I find her law degree or whatever she was studying, a bit surprising considering she comes across quite stupid sometimes.
 
She's a jumped up 20-something year old who thinks she's a big shot on Instagram and married her teacher. I don't find anything she says intelligent at all 😂 my first birth was so hard but the second one was so much easier it healed all my fears of labour. My friend ended up having to have a c section around the same time (breech baby) and she found it very very hard. Although she didn't have a great vaginal birth previously either, she found the c section recovery a huge shock to the system
 
She’s taking six months off as the sole earner? duck me, where do they get all this money??! And you know they’ll go on at least 3 holidays in those six months. Must be nice being Beth’s teacher and just coasting through life now. He must have a trust fund?? Right?
Actually blows my mind that they can live the lifestyle they do on one “wage”.
 
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