BambiDoesBeauty

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I am glad to have found this thread.
I agree with you all about the botox. The shiny forehead gives it away.

I've been following her since last year and I'm noticing more and more how she always says the same stuff: She lives with her parents, her mom is her best friend, like was never in a girls chat group, he's just office hot.

I even once thought about whether this is just her marketing persona. So the mid-30 year old woman who never has a partner or friends. And in reality she lives a normal social life and she puts this internet persona out there because a lot of her followers feel relatable to this.
What do you think?
 
I agree about the boyfriend thing. Not had a boyfriend since you were 18 or whatever but regularly makes reference to dating experiences and at that age, you don’t ’date’ in the way she speaks about. The men also seem older by the way she describes them so was she dating 30 year olds at 17? 🥴 I don’t think she could get away with falsifying her life because surely someone who knew her in real life would have outed her by now?
 
I’ve unfollowed now as I got bored of the recycled posts about how she doesn’t conform to a normal 30 year old lifestyle, or else ads. I can’t remember the last skincare post she did that wasn’t an ad.
I really don’t get why you’d take “big sister” advice from someone who freely admits to a hermit like lifestyle, I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with living with your parents and not having relationships or driving but at the same time she’s not exactly the person I’d go to for life advice!
 
To me she just comes across like a massive posho who lives with her parents in their 5 bed house. Not like the girl next door persona of living in a box room in her mum and dad’s two up two down she tries to make out. She’s constantly travelling business class so obviously mummy and daddy have the cash. And you’re absolutely right about her recycling the same posts. So boring.
 
Imagine the “big sis advice” she’d give if it were a man in her position… fired from every job, has no friends but their own parents, lives at their house, spends all their time making repetitive videos of themselves because they don’t have a job, is completely immobile as they don’t drive and seem to have an aversion to public transport…hun you’re just a bit of a leach
 
Polkadotshorts said:
Imagine the “big sis advice” she’d give if it were a man in her position… fired from every job, has no friends but their own parents, lives at their house, spends all their time making repetitive videos of themselves because they don’t have a job, is completely immobile as they don’t drive and seem to have an aversion to public transport…hun you’re just a bit of a leach
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He would probably be called an incel. To be honest the description you’ve given sounds like every American school shooter 😂
 
She is maternally enmeshed in a big way. Best friends with her mum and dog, no other mates, romantic relationships, no colleagues - her only interaction with peers is online through 'followers' and she's very proud and defensive of this lifestyle. She doesn't have a single relationship (not just romantic) that is on an equal footing. No one should be 'best friends' with a parent because a mum creates you, quite literally. It's not an equal power dynamic because it makes you just an extension of a parent with no sense of self/identity of your own. They know all your vulnerabilities and how you think/feel because they installed them in you. And a dog as best friend...I mean that too is an unequal relationship because they are dependent on you for food and shelter - not like an independent minded human being. So all Bambi knows is master/leader/follower type arrangements, and it is sadly reflected in the romantic relationships she's briefly mentioned.

She talks about how young she looks in her 30s - well yes, she's never grown up and had adult responsibilities or stresses. She also said she doesn't have savings which means she never plans to enter the real world. It's the life I lived at 14. She kept popping up in sponsored posts but I can't take her advice seriously now because it would be like following a teenager for make up tips. I watched a few videos and there was nothing ground breaking that wasn't popular years ago. She's attractive and that's about it. She lives in a slightly delusional reality (from years of being isolated from peers) so I had to stop following her.
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I do also think it is her real persona. There's a lot of men who live like her, they get called 'mummys boy' and look to find a wife to replace the mum but are just useless as adults. No life skills. No idea what a healthy, equal friendship or relationship should look like. Bambi is a woman so can't find a man who'll replace mummy, that's why she just stays at home and interacts with strangers to feel less isolated.
 
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She is maternally enmeshed in a big way. Best friends with her mum and dog, no other mates, romantic relationships, no colleagues - her only interaction with peers is online through 'followers' and she's very proud and defensive of this lifestyle. She doesn't have a single relationship (not just romantic) that is on an equal footing. No one should be 'best friends' with a parent because a mum creates you, quite literally. It's not an equal power dynamic because it makes you just an extension of a parent with no sense of self/identity of your own. They know all your vulnerabilities and how you think/feel because they installed them in you. And a dog as best friend...I mean that too is an unequal relationship because they are dependent on you for food and shelter - not like an independent minded human being. So all Bambi knows is master/leader/follower type arrangements, and it is sadly reflected in the romantic relationships she's briefly mentioned.

She talks about how young she looks in her 30s - well yes, she's never grown up and had adult responsibilities or stresses. She also said she doesn't have savings which means she never plans to enter the real world. It's the life I lived at 14. She kept popping up in sponsored posts but I can't take her advice seriously now because it would be like following a teenager for make up tips. I watched a few videos and there was nothing ground breaking that wasn't popular years ago. She's attractive and that's about it. She lives in a slightly delusional reality (from years of being isolated from peers) so I had to stop following her.
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I do also think it is her real persona. There's a lot of men who live like her, they get called 'mummys boy' and look to find a wife to replace the mum but are just useless as adults. No life skills. No idea what a healthy, equal friendship or relationship should look like. Bambi is a woman so can't find a man who'll replace mummy, that's why she just stays at home and interacts with strangers to feel less isolated.
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You’re on the money.
 
I used to enjoy her videos. But like everyone here is saying. I started realizing it’s all ads and the same content recycled. I also hate how she does her bronzer/freckles becuase I think it just makes her look Ora he and dirty. And it annoys me she won’t groom her brows lol. I know it’s petty. She’s mentioned dating an actor or something in the past. But I don’t believe her. Idk I think she lies a lot. I can’t say anything about being best friends with her mom and dog. That’s me as well lol. Probably why I liked her at first lol.
 
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