Well no, the OP asked why she is bothered if it’s not her. That makes no sense. It’s obvious that anyone would be ‘bothered’ by being labelled a deranged stalker, even if they knew it wasn’t them.
No you don't get it! At no point has Gadd says its her. So if it's not, why does she care?
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I know what the OP asked. I just don't interpret it the same way you do.
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She's a gifted actress. I'd never seen her in anything before.
you interpreted it correctly! Thank you!