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NitrousOxide said:
Still can't see the bloody videos! Are you all accessing them via the FB app? I'm just on my mobile browser so maybe that's why not everything is visible. ☹️
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If you went to the 3 weeks dots beside the message icon and then clicked "[Insert her name]'s Profile Link", the real one has a dot between the first and second name, then another dot followed by the numbers 1466.

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I’m really shocked by how this has turned out, when it came out I thought that the real Martha must have passed away for him to release all of this. He really should have let an actor play him and not broadcasted it was a true story, it’s not really fair on someone who is clearly mentally ill to have to go through all of this. I really think he should have done more to protect her identity, especially when he’s protected ’Donny’. I know she stalked him and others but he seemed to have some sympathy and took responsibility for his part in encouraging ‘Martha’ in Baby Reindeer. He hasn’t tried to hide her identity at all though, he said she wouldn’t recognise herself but the real Martha is so similar he must have known she would be found easily. I liked the show and I felt a lot of sympathy for them both, now I really think Gadd is fame hungry and will throw anyone under the bus to get that. She needs to shut down her Facebook page and someone needs to step in and help her, I suspect she doesn’t have anyone as she has serious attachment issues. She needs professional help and it’s sad that she hasn’t been given it after the stalking incidents. I think she’s incredibly vulnerable and hate to think what will happen to her, she can’t give her side of the story and be believed so the best thing for her would be to shut everything down, I suspect she’s very lonely and partly enjoying the attention though but she needs someone to help her manage all of this so she gets something out of it too.
 
troutpout69 said:
Does she ever sleep! She seems to rant for hours at a time! She’s been harping on about the woman she stalked for days and days now! I love how she changes it to everyone is stalking her! Is she on a manic episode do you think?
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In one of her rambles she mentioned bipolar and manic episodes I think. Did make me wonder if she has a diagnosis. Not sure what she’s on about at the moment, who cares at all if Gadd and Laura Wray are members of the Labour party 🧐
 
Yellow_brick_road said:
I’m really shocked by how this has turned out, when it came out I thought that the real Martha must have passed away for him to release all of this. He really should have let an actor play him and not broadcasted it was a true story, it’s not really fair on someone who is clearly mentally ill to have to go through all of this. I really think he should have done more to protect her identity, especially when he’s protected ’Donny’. I know she stalked him and others but he seemed to have some sympathy and took responsibility for his part in encouraging ‘Martha’ in Baby Reindeer. He hasn’t tried to hide her identity at all though, he said she wouldn’t recognise herself but the real Martha is so similar he must have known she would be found easily. I liked the show and I felt a lot of sympathy for them both, now I really think Gadd is fame hungry and will throw anyone under the bus to get that. She needs to shut down her Facebook page and someone needs to step in and help her, I suspect she doesn’t have anyone as she has serious attachment issues. She needs professional help and it’s sad that she hasn’t been given it after the stalking incidents. I think she’s incredibly vulnerable and hate to think what will happen to her, she can’t give her side of the story and be believed so the best thing for her would be to shut everything down, I suspect she’s very lonely and partly enjoying the attention though but she needs someone to help her manage all of this so she gets something out of it too.
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Genuine question - if “Martha” was a man, would you refer to him as vulnerable and say it’s unfair for him to be going through this?

She’s absolutely vile and I really can’t understand why anyone feels sorry for her.
 
troutpout69 said:
Does she ever sleep! She seems to rant for hours at a time! She’s been harping on about the woman she stalked for days and days now! I love how she changes it to everyone is stalking her! Is she on a manic episode do you think?
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She does seem to be having a manic episode, hope the crash down into depression isn't painful for her and she is being professionally helped although that is difficult if she doesn't believe she has a problem and also it is risky for professionals.
 
She certainly isn’t going to quit any time soon as she’s loving the attention and the audience she has! In a way, they’ve both gained from BR! Gadd is famous and she’s getting stacks of attention and people following her every word!
 
Soloand Osokosi said:
It does seem to be an outlet for her. She is self destructing whilst at the same time seeming to be self protecting. I think she may have been an intelligent young woman but her racing thoughts and other mh problems have been her undoing. Very sad.
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I thought the very same, I would imagine behind it all she's extremely intelligent.

I said previous I've a family member in a high security MH unit and they had phoen removed in end because things like this, would go on mad ones and some one shared one with a caption and they went buts on the ward so now only aloud use landlines to contact any us.

Funnily it's not to far from her and perhaps its time someone from her MH team suggested it because this will end her in court and sectioned anyway if she keeps up about the one she was already done for stalking 🤭 like she gives zero fucks so I'd presume she has zero clue, totally delusional, netflix need to do a psych series of them disecting this but that's not really fair now we all know who she is, but it's weirdly fascinating, without sounding strange i think it's extremely educational for people to at least try understand MH illnesses amd how they vary but can ya use a live human as a "Jane doe" when everyone knows she ain't no Jane doe now 🙈

Does anyone else think she probably was told/contacted by Netflix, like she was in court for stalking the Wray one so it was always gona b found surely they'd of had to warn her/her legal team that represented her in that case. But who will ever really know 🤭
I'm trying not to laugh but I'm not in the best of places meself so I think im laughing at fact I'm not as sick as I thought, I may just be OK soon 😅
I haven't been back on her page in few hrs or caught up fully here but I see someone else say she's referring ta here...im fully convinced she's here. I'd bet me car on it 🚗 🤣
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judgejohndeed said:
In one of her rambles she mentioned bipolar and manic episodes I think. Did make me wonder if she has a diagnosis. Not sure what she’s on about at the moment, who cares at all if Gadd and Laura Wray are members of the Labour party 🧐
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She also said something about histrionics last week at start of it all and I thought this, she throws lot of "clinical" words in. She 100% will have a MH there is no way someone like her fell through the cracks, sure she harped on about the council and the removal company for days, id say she has a social worker but yad need someone with her 24hrs a day ta even try stop her or else put in somewhere but at what point do they say enough, if all these people she is writing about are legals, surely ta god they'll have something sent or , I don't know is that naive from watching tv 😅
 
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redball00n said:
Genuine question - if “Martha” was a man, would you refer to him as vulnerable and say it’s unfair for him to be going through this?

She’s absolutely vile and I really can’t understand why anyone feels sorry for her.
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Yes because of the obvious mental health issues. I’m not condoning what she did and I understand why he would feel angry and want some kind of revenge but to do it so publicly and without trying to protect the identity of someone he knows has serious mental health issues was unnecessary in my opinion. It would have been just as powerful to change details such as her job, locations her nationality etc but he didn’t, he kept old tweets on his account from her. Why did he hide Darrian so well but not Martha? He used her then to help his career and he’s doing it now. She isn’t able to give her side of the story or talk about what has made her the way she is but people (including me) sympathise with him and get to understand why he lets it go for so long and in the end becomes just as obsessed with her. Anyone else (such as the real Darrian) could shut down all of their social media, get legal advice and probably move to America when they get so much public backlash but she isn’t able to, I’m sure she intelligent but she’s also attention seeking and delusional that she could legally represent herself which is why I think she is vulnerable. I’m sure she will be contacted by all kinds of people offering to help but ready to take advantage of the situation.
 
I’m genuinely surprised anyone is reading these posts and thinks she’s remotely intelligent…she seems utterly thick to me, can hardly string a sentence together. The stuff she’s actually saying is just stupid as well. She’s definitely not half as smart as she seems to think she is, I was wondering if she has a learning disability/low IQ
 
judgejohndeed said:
I’m genuinely surprised anyone is reading these posts and thinks she’s remotely intelligent…she seems utterly thick to me, can hardly string a sentence together. The stuff she’s actually saying is just stupid as well. She’s definitely not half as smart as she seems to think she is, I was wondering if she has a learning disability/low IQ
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I was only going by the fact she graduated with a law degree I don’t think her posts sound intelligent and I did think it couldn’t be true but then she was hired by the lady she stalked at a law firm so she must have got the degree. I don’t know if she’s ever practiced law though.
 
Yellow_brick_road said:
I was only going by the fact she graduated with a law degree I don’t think her posts sound intelligent and I did think it couldn’t be true but then she was hired by the lady she stalked at a law firm so she must have got the degree. I don’t know if she’s ever practiced law though.
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Trust me, you can’t infer intelligence just from completing a law degree (not above and beyond any other degree at least). Also I noticed it’s not clear from Laura’s article whether she took her on as an actual trainee or support staff like a paralegal, legal assistant, legal secretary etc - none of which actually require a law degree
 
I can’t believe the manic nature with which her every move is now being followed by people who’d ordinarily assume themselves to be pretty rational and level headed. Genuinely does show that it doesn’t take much to have an interest go from passing to habitual and that habitual can lead to obsession pretty quickly. Once established she’s a fucken nutjob, why do you care what she has to say about anything? She’s reliably unreliable, racist, homophobic, and seems a down right punish. Filling your day trying to decipher the inane ramblings of the mentally disturbed seems an odd choice to me 😂
 
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