Autistic Interpretations #20 Val’s not a Mother nor is she a Nurse, she’s an online

[WallFly]

If Hannah is paid through Medicaid as a family caregiver it states you can’t have an online business so how does she get away with that ? Maybe that’s why she added Marlowe to DSGP ? Like you mentioned with so many adults not working in that house how do they not see it as unnecessary funding? So much fraud and they keep getting away with it . One day they are going to meet that one social worker who sees through their fraud and she’s going to take them to task. The one who no matter how much Val yells she only digs in deeper. The social worker who maybe's has a family member of special needs and clearly sees the way they abuse the system. Karma will pay a visit maybe not fast enough but it will.

This would apply to Val as well autistic interpretations is definitely a business ...so between Val, Hannah and Marlow ....whose the legal paid caregiver? Whose running online businesses ?? Whose the paid editor? ( Val claimed Hannah was the paid editor last spring when they bought the campers and new vehicles ?

So many lies.....but Uncle Sam will sort it out Im sure.
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Omg Jessica looks absolutely awful! She looks about 60 years old and even more disabled than she’s always looked. And the picking is NOT autism it’s an obsessive compulsive behavior. But Val refuses to believe it and keeps pushing that autism narrative even tho everyone is now questioning it.

Jessica does look horribly ill. The dry lips, dry brittle grey hair, Brown circles around her eyes, the capped tooth that's over a decade old and was temporay...yellow teeth....open sores...
It's a crime how Val puts Jessica on cam, looking the way she does. Jessica needs a physical , blood work, a dietician ..nutritionist .... And some serious vitamins we know she doesn't eat fruits veg,grains, etc....
Val won't get Jessica checked out just like she won't take her to the dentist, the hairdresser ...she's lazy....and she knows the doctor will enforce changes to better Jessica's health ...that Val will not follow. Then... That opens up a can of worms.

So Val hides away her sickly golden goose.

 

[Susan830]

Have been running errands all day so this is the first I saw the video of the morning.
I am just going to say ummm, ummmmu, ummmm!!! And they are not STREDDED...teach her the right words. And HH had the audacity to eat some of the hash browns. Doesn't she know they are all for princess
And now Dana gave her money! To!! Are they all f***ing nuts??? And chicken nugget casserole at Nathan's and she wants chicken and rice for dinner.
And VAL NO YOUR DAUGHTER DOES NOT WORK AND HAVE A JOB!!! You have her on like a trained monkey telling her what to say. Whole stupid video of that! Now she can't help cooking because she is making videos!!! And you might want to train the monkey not to argue with you!!! No one cares about her opinions. Doggie, food, eating out, phone calls with people who are as stupid as the Brooks family and begging for money! Did I get all of her obsessions Val??
We need to reach out to the people who should be monitoring Jess again. It's getting worse and worse and they need to know how they are exploiting her!

 

[Gramma of 4]

Have been running errands all day so this is the first I saw the video of the morning.
I am just going to say ummm, ummmmu, ummmm!!! And they are not STREDDED...teach her the right words. And HH had the audacity to eat some of the hash browns. Doesn't she know they are all for princess
And now Dana gave her money! To!! Are they all f***ing nuts??? And chicken nugget casserole at Nathan's and she wants chicken and rice for dinner.
And VAL NO YOUR DAUGHTER DOES NOT WORK AND HAVE A JOB!!! You have her on like a trained monkey telling her what to say. Whole stupid video of that! Now she can't help cooking because she is making videos!!! And you might want to train the monkey not to argue with you!!! No one cares about her opinions. Doggie, food, eating out, phone calls with people who are as stupid as the Brooks family and begging for money! Did I get all of her obsessions Val??
We need to reach out to the people who should be monitoring Jess again. It's getting worse and worse and they need to know how they are exploiting her!

Also in this video, we see Jessica rules the roost! She decides what's for dinner, she wants to run errands (for Val with her paid care giver) so Val will make up something, she decides what's for dessert, tells Val to stop distracting her, etc. She's nothing but a spoiled rotten whiney brat.

 

[Susan830]

Watching this mornings video...as a mother of an autistic adult child...I absolutely find it appalling .
Val thinks she's clever ....as she parks Jessica in front of the camera and guides the conversation while off cam..
1. Casually telling Jess to tell everyone what she did last night ...seems Jessica " worked" she did talk about her jobs and working every 3rd of fourth statement, as well as " saving money for Disney" HINT...HINT..subtle reminder to get those Disney gift cards sent.
2. Jess tell the camera why you love going to Disney so much.
3. Jess tell the camera what Marlow helps you with....( Making sure to get it out there Marlow does work with Jessica showering her,and not Val)
Which we know she is Vals Staff... Who records videos for Vals channel , walks Vals dog, takes the dog to the vet , dog sits, runs Vals errands, makes videos on a second channel with Hannah etc....( Hannah must be using the second channel as HER tax write off on her truck and camper )
4. Even claiming Zoe is Jessica's dog...( More write offs) when Zoe is 100% Vals dog.

All which the government pays for under the false pretences that Marlowe is Jessica's care giver, and all these purchases are tried to be passed off as tax deductions.

Keep in mind Marlow is NOT a professional in regards to anything autism.
Caregivers for autistics are usually the Parents, primary custodial families, and government agencies.
Parents 99% often take courses, classes, attend seminars to become educated in the "how to's" of caring for their autistic child ...and these courses are available through adult hood.

Val IS the primary caregiver ....and normally when parents are working they hire a caregiver to help as you would a babysitter.
So why full grown adult Jessica requires 2 other full-time caregivers other than her mother who she lives with 24/7 along with her Father and 30 yr. Old Hannah who moved back home to help with Jessica, is beyond sketchy....and hopefully this gets further investigated.

So Val is again reinforcing ( or trying to) the fact Jess works!
If standing in front of the camera, repeating uhm, uhm,uhm....and talking about her dead dog Abbie, arguing in her whiney voice...throwing her head back ( notice all the edited and jump cuts where Val removed Jessica losing her tit) and as Val.had stated before... " when Jess throws her head back ...she's MAD and means business! "
Jessica looked awful which Val uses to her advantage, she was manic , rude, disrespectful, and her usual unlikable, mean, nasty greedy,bossy self. Notice the comment Jess made about Hannah cooking HER "stredded" hash brown's ...she was mad..Val.cut it out.

Jessica is incapable of loving, giving, sharing, kindness, or cooperating unless bribed with food.
She simply raises her whiney voice and mommy gives her whatever she wants regardless of what everyone else wants, or needs, and even if it's unhealthy it doesn't matter ...Jessica makes all the decisions concerning everyone ..from who can eat what foods, what's for dinner lunch and breakfast, where Nonnie and grandad are permitted to eat.
It's insanity at its finest at the Brooks Asylum.

As I mentioned yesterday ... " am I helping or doing? "
Val.has not helped Jessica to succeed in the world, she's hidden her away, isolated her from reality and filled her head full of lies about her non-existent future.
And....Val cashes in and uses Jessica, talking full advantage of programs, finances and people

If that's not neglect, abuse, fraud and scamming...I don't know what is.

Not sure if it pertains to private home care giving but when I helped a friend at his group home where the government was the main payment, I had to be certified to work there. Even though I was working at the hospital full time I still needed their certification. I had to go several days to learn the government way of doing! Including passing out meds, how to difuse any situation, diets and several more I can't remember.
So why is Marlow not certified. And her laughing at Jess all the time is getting very disturbing.

 

[WallFly]

Not sure if it pertains to private home care giving but when I helped a friend at his group home where the government was the main payment, I had to be certified to work there. Even though I was working at the hospital full time I still needed their certification. I had to go several days to learn the government way of doing! Including passing out meds, how to difuse any situation, diets and several more I can't remember.
So why is Marlow not certified. And her laughing at Jess all the time is getting very disturbing.

There is no certification required for caregiver ...because caregivers are usually the Parents who have the responsibility of raising an autistic child..adult . I'm a full-time care giver because do work from home part time doing the books for our business and take care of our daughter my husband is considered to be a caregiver also because he lives under the same roof and shoulders the responsibility when he's home and not at work.

Caregiver is a loose term and can have various levels of meaning...but if you look up caregivers and autism ...you find a lot of it is whoever is raising the child...the parents.

There are other types of care givers, like health care givers who require training for administering meds, or have a " specialty" ...caregivers, are different then a respite worker who where I live are required to take a level one training course in order to work with the elderly or mentally/physically handicapped....they are used to step in giving the Parents who are the primary care givers a break.

Marlow is just a babysitter taking over Vals responsibility as a mother of the caregiver who lives full time with Jess. No certificate required. Just do as the mom tells you to do.

 

[Susan830]

There is no certification required for caregiver ...because caregivers are usually the Parents who have the responsibility of raising an autistic child..adult . I'm a full-time care giver because do work from home part time doing the books for our business and take care of our daughter my husband is considered to be a caregiver also because he lives under the same roof and shoulders the responsibility when he's home and not at work.

Caregiver is a loose term and can have various levels of meaning...but if you look up caregivers and autism ...you find a lot of it is whoever is raising the child...the parents.

There are other types of care givers, like health care givers who require training for administering meds, or have a " specialty" ...caregivers, are different then a respite worker who where I live are required to take a level one training course in order to work with the elderly or mentally/physically handicapped....they are used to step in giving the Parents who are the primary care givers a break.

Marlow is just a babysitter taking over Vals responsibility as a mother of the caregiver who lives full time with Jess. No certificate required. Just do as the mom tells you to do.

The people in the group home my friend ran were all mentally or physically handicapped. Must be why I had to get certified. I know it was a must because had I not been certified he could not get paid for me working there. It was strange...after getting knocked on my ass by someone very similar to Jess I quit! I usually could bob and weave pretty good to avoid it but unfortunately they were all VERY aggressive!

 

[WallFly]

@Susan830 sounds like you were more of a health caregiver. I'm not..I'm just my daughters caregiver..full time parent at home..although I have taken many different courses to learn to help her...for instance she was diagnosed non verbal autistic ...so the entire family learned ASL..and we are fluent ...then after our daughter started to verbally communicate ,I went to speech therapy learning along side her, it's ongoing....learning how to be involved in her care help her to grow, learn etc...

I will say this... Not once ever have a asked or hired a family member or friend to bathe, shower, toilet or dress my daughter .....not once. She deserves her dignity.... I will always help her with her hygiene I'm her mom and I love her and it's my privilege to help her, teach her and make sure she's comfortable and safe.
If/when the day comes Im unable or....no longer here...she will have a private nurse whether it be while she lives at home still or has moved into the adult housing for autism group home where she volunteers and has peers.

The fact Val gets Marlow to shower Jessica not only repulsed me but breaks my heart that as a MOTHER she simply can't be bothered! That's her child....I just don't get that.

 

[derr1117]

I worked in various department of mental health and DDD run group homes over 16 years. in the home’s in Massachusetts (where I’m originally from) all I needed was to be medication certified. Here in New Jersey, I needed more training and more certifications besides medication monitoring. I oversaw the day to day functions of 3 DDD (division of developmental disabilities) state run group homes. No easy task. Now I work with the homeless population as well as the incarcerated helping them get off the streets.

 

[HartofTexas]

Isn't there some kind of law that states they can't beg for money because they aren't a non profit page?? Or even a for profit page. I am sure you need a license for both of those. And shouldn't they be declaring this on taxes because this is income?? I am sure scammer Val has or does neither.
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I did a screenshot from the new AI scammer page (thank you ladies because couldnt find these pages you posted) and these are supposed to be things they can use for crafts with Jess!!! Hello these are all for HH and her friends when they make bracelets like teenagers!!! Why can't followers see through their scams. No way could Jess string bracelets....she is blind Val and HH or is that just a convenient thing to say when you need to lie and explain why she is a brat????
Looks like there is the Disney fund (for lodging, food and souviners), the camper fund, Amazon Wish lists and soon the pool for Jess fund!!!! WTH! How many of my fellow tattlers beg for things like that. My opinion for Val and Hypochondriac Hannah is go back to work you free loaders....no one owes you anything! Val you f***ed up and had Jess because you were drunk or stoned so you raise her and provide for her yourself! She is no one else's responsibility!!
Sorry for the rant....these folks need to be taken down.

Yes, there were several stipulations concerning selling, receiving money and gifts, does anyone remember?
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A few pictures for you. Carla, the host of the upcoming pizza night, slimmer and trimmer Hannah with “the doctor” aka porn boy and if you thought Hannah’s bangs and hair were awful, check out those bangs with the unknown male.
Also a couple of screenshots from the morning video. After my comments about the bandaid yesterday it’s off today and not a thick scab like I thought but the beginning of a hole. It’s red and looks pretty freshly picked. Val, get your daughter some help!

The guy in the photo is on some soap opera. . . . Maybe photo shopped herself in the picture? Another of their fantasy relationships???
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Have been running errands all day so this is the first I saw the video of the morning.
I am just going to say ummm, ummmmu, ummmm!!! And they are not STREDDED...teach her the right words. And HH had the audacity to eat some of the hash browns. Doesn't she know they are all for princess
And now Dana gave her money! To!! Are they all f***ing nuts??? And chicken nugget casserole at Nathan's and she wants chicken and rice for dinner.
And VAL NO YOUR DAUGHTER DOES NOT WORK AND HAVE A JOB!!! You have her on like a trained monkey telling her what to say. Whole stupid video of that! Now she can't help cooking because she is making videos!!! And you might want to train the monkey not to argue with you!!! No one cares about her opinions. Doggie, food, eating out, phone calls with people who are as stupid as the Brooks family and begging for money! Did I get all of her obsessions Val??
We need to reach out to the people who should be monitoring Jess again. It's getting worse and worse and they need to know how they are exploiting her!

Reporting to IRS and APS again

 

[Bransmom27]

@Susan830 sounds like you were more of a health caregiver. I'm not..I'm just my daughters caregiver..full time parent at home..although I have taken many different courses to learn to help her...for instance she was diagnosed non verbal autistic ...so the entire family learned ASL..and we are fluent ...then after our daughter started to verbally communicate ,I went to speech therapy learning along side her, it's ongoing....learning how to be involved in her care help her to grow, learn etc...

I will say this... Not once ever have a asked or hired a family member or friend to bathe, shower, toilet or dress my daughter .....not once. She deserves her dignity.... I will always help her with her hygiene I'm her mom and I love her and it's my privilege to help her, teach her and make sure she's comfortable and safe.
If/when the day comes Im unable or....no longer here...she will have a private nurse whether it be while she lives at home still or has moved into the adult housing for autism group home where she volunteers and has peers.

The fact Val gets Marlow to shower Jessica not only repulsed me but breaks my heart that as a MOTHER she simply can't be bothered! That's her child....I just don't get that.

@WallFly you are such a great mom! I can completely understand your dislike of Val and how she treats Jessica. I’m sure it’s extremely frustrating for you to watch the show that is the brooks.

 

[Susan830]

Just saw this on the new AI scam page posted by Amy. I have seen this before and Val uses any excuse in the book to try and explain away all the things Jess won't do. Watch it if you can. She blames everyone but herself!!!

 

[HartofTexas]

Just saw this on the new AI scam page posted by Amy. I have seen this before and Val uses any excuse in the book to try and explain away all the things Jess won't do. Watch it if you can. She blames everyone but herself!!!

Should be titled “how Jess has regressed”

 

[WallFly]

Just saw this on the new AI scam page posted by Amy. I have seen this before and Val uses any excuse in the book to try and explain away all the things Jess won't do. Watch it if you can. She blames everyone but herself!!!

Here's a dose of hard reality that being a parent of an autistic child with various other mental ailments such as IDD....have to acknowledge.

The outside world is a chaotic place for EVERYONE...and we ( average people)are raised knowing how to navigate , notice the good and bad, make wise, informed decisions, be aware of danger, your surroundings, learn and abide the rules set to be a functioning participant in our community ...in society as a whole.

Some of these things are easier than others for the average child growing up into adulthood..being autistic, or having other mental " issues" can make this 100 times more difficult, perhaps even more imortant.

So as the parent it is our responsibility to ensure our autistic child is getting ALL the help, all the resources all the medical advancements and TEACH them for how ever long it takes HOW TO COPE, HOW TO FOLLOW RULES, LISTEN...and understand the outside rules.

Because if we don't ...what happens when strangers , cashiers, children, dogs, delivery people, the general population who doesn't KNOW our child come across them ....in public and our child..who is now a full grown adult, yells at them, hits them ( a child even) because they touched their cart, or accidentally bumped them....

In the last few years ( longer I'm sure) do you know how many police officers had to intervene a conflict with an autistic adult in a public setting?
Do you know how many of those conflicts ended....in death ?

Val is so busy playing the victim and bad mouthing every teacher, therapist , in-house care giver , nurse, doctor, dentist, hairdresser, bus driver ..because they misunderstand Jessica....rather than teach jessica how to listen, cope, TRY to cooperate , and that there are rules...and boundaries and CONSEQUENCES...she blames the world for not making exceptions for jessica.
That is not doing Jessica ANY favours ....In fact it puts her in constant danger, makes her unapproachable ,unlikable and very scary.

If a child in the mall accidentally bumped Jessica ...and jessica hauled off screaming head thrown back and hitting a small child...it would not go well for Jessica .
Even Val said one of the reasons she's in a wheelchair at Disney is because of she gets accidently bumped she gets violent.
Jessica gets violent often when ever she doesn't get HER way....so how can you unleash that into the public?

It's not up to the world to come to a stop to make Jessica happy.... It's up to Val to teach, prepare and provide the professional help Jessica requires to safely embark on the world.
Val refuses to do this as the narcissist victim she believes she is. So hiding her bessy away and blaming the world is her answer while scamming people online for her Disney vacations.

 

[pokermom]

Here's a dose of hard reality that being a parent of an autistic child with various other mental ailments such as IDD....have to acknowledge.

The outside world is a chaotic place for EVERYONE...and we ( average people)are raised knowing how to navigate , notice the good and bad, make wise, informed decisions, be aware of danger, your surroundings, learn and abide the rules set to be a functioning participant in our community ...in society as a whole.

Some of these things are easier than others for the average child growing up into adulthood..being autistic, or having other mental " issues" can make this 100 times more difficult, perhaps even more imortant.

So as the parent it is our responsibility to ensure our autistic child is getting ALL the help, all the resources all the medical advancements and TEACH them for how ever long it takes HOW TO COPE, HOW TO FOLLOW RULES, LISTEN...and understand the outside rules.

Because if we don't ...what happens when strangers , cashiers, children, dogs, delivery people, the general population who doesn't KNOW our child come across them ....in public and our child..who is now a full grown adult, yells at them, hits them ( a child even) because they touched their cart, or accidentally bumped them....

In the last few years ( longer I'm sure) do you know how many police officers had to intervene a conflict with an autistic adult in a public setting?
Do you know how many of those conflicts ended....in death ?

Val is so busy playing the victim and bad mouthing every teacher, therapist , in-house care giver , nurse, doctor, dentist, hairdresser, bus driver ..because they misunderstand Jessica....rather than teach jessica how to listen, cope, TRY to cooperate , and that there are rules...and boundaries and CONSEQUENCES...she blames the world for not making exceptions for jessica.
That is not doing Jessica ANY favours ....In fact it puts her in constant danger, makes her unapproachable ,unlikable and very scary.

If a child in the mall accidentally bumped Jessica ...and jessica hauled off screaming head thrown back and hitting a small child...it would not go well for Jessica .
Even Val said one of the reasons she's in a wheelchair at Disney is because of she gets accidently bumped she gets violent.
Jessica gets violent often when ever she doesn't get HER way....so how can you unleash that into the public?

It's not up to the world to come to a stop to make Jessica happy.... It's up to Val to teach, prepare and provide the professional help Jessica requires to safely embark on the world.
Val refuses to do this as the narcissist victim she believes she is. So hiding her bessy away and blaming the world is her answer while scamming people online for her Disney vacations.

So well said Wallfly. I’d like to add a little. I think each parent of a special needs child has different hurdles. My son was almost 5 before he learned to walk. Being frustrated led to head banging. I can’t tell you how many times we’d sit for hours holding him facing away from us in a tight “hug” to keep him from hurting himself. Then came the violence against us. He would hit and scratch at the same time. It was at least a weekly occurrence for us to have bloody marks on our faces. At the time it seemed like there was no reasoning with him and I lived in fear we would have to place him in an institution. I said all that to say you can’t quit. You keep on. Somewhere inside each one of is that person you know and want them to be. I’m not sure at what point Val quit, but she did. Now she drinks and hides. There is no joyful life, just fear. Fear of not knowing when the dam will burst. (And it will). Institutions are full of Jessicas. Those who their parents either gave up, or never started in the first place. What a sad future for Jessica, through no fault of her own. Sorry for the long rambling.

 

[FairlyCertain]

It's not up to the world to come to a stop to make Jessica happy.... It's up to Val to teach, prepare and provide the professional help Jessica requires to safely embark on the world.
Val refuses to do this as the narcissist victim she believes she is. So hiding her bessy away and blaming the world is her answer while scamming people online for her Disney vacations.

These two paragraphs right here summarize the whole AI situation. Nailed it! I have dealt with a personality like Val. In fact, it was my mother. The sad thing is that Val will never, ever believe that this is how things are. Never. My mother went to her grave still believing what she believed although every last shred of evidence pointed to just the opposite. Not even psychiatry could help her see the truth. Val will never see what she has done.

 

[derr1117]

Here's a dose of hard reality that being a parent of an autistic child with various other mental ailments such as IDD....have to acknowledge.

The outside world is a chaotic place for EVERYONE...and we ( average people)are raised knowing how to navigate , notice the good and bad, make wise, informed decisions, be aware of danger, your surroundings, learn and abide the rules set to be a functioning participant in our community ...in society as a whole.

Some of these things are easier than others for the average child growing up into adulthood..being autistic, or having other mental " issues" can make this 100 times more difficult, perhaps even more imortant.

So as the parent it is our responsibility to ensure our autistic child is getting ALL the help, all the resources all the medical advancements and TEACH them for how ever long it takes HOW TO COPE, HOW TO FOLLOW RULES, LISTEN...and understand the outside rules.

Because if we don't ...what happens when strangers , cashiers, children, dogs, delivery people, the general population who doesn't KNOW our child come across them ....in public and our child..who is now a full grown adult, yells at them, hits them ( a child even) because they touched their cart, or accidentally bumped them....

In the last few years ( longer I'm sure) do you know how many police officers had to intervene a conflict with an autistic adult in a public setting?
Do you know how many of those conflicts ended....in death ?

Val is so busy playing the victim and bad mouthing every teacher, therapist , in-house care giver , nurse, doctor, dentist, hairdresser, bus driver ..because they misunderstand Jessica....rather than teach jessica how to listen, cope, TRY to cooperate , and that there are rules...and boundaries and CONSEQUENCES...she blames the world for not making exceptions for jessica.
That is not doing Jessica ANY favours ....In fact it puts her in constant danger, makes her unapproachable ,unlikable and very scary.

If a child in the mall accidentally bumped Jessica ...and jessica hauled off screaming head thrown back and hitting a small child...it would not go well for Jessica .
Even Val said one of the reasons she's in a wheelchair at Disney is because of she gets accidently bumped she gets violent.
Jessica gets violent often when ever she doesn't get HER way....so how can you unleash that into the public?

It's not up to the world to come to a stop to make Jessica happy.... It's up to Val to teach, prepare and provide the professional help Jessica requires to safely embark on the world.
Val refuses to do this as the narcissist victim she believes she is. So hiding her bessy away and blaming the world is her answer while scamming people online for her Disney vacations.

Now that I’m working inside my local police department, the officers and captains, lieutenants and even the chief are unaware of how to handle any situation involving a person with MH or MR issues. When the organization that I’ve worked for for almost 8 years (I’ve been in the field for over 30 yrs), started working alongside different PDs throughout south jersey, they placed people like myself ( there are usually 2 of us a male and female) inside the police station so that when there’s a call for a person who has MH or MR issues, it’s us that joins the officers at the scene to provide services to that individual. I’ve never come across a situation that’s lead to death but then again the police do shield me from that stuff. I have witnessed some severe situations tho.

 

[FairlyCertain]

PS: well, it looked like two paragraphs when I quoted it. but it’s just one.

 

[Susan830]

Not watching another room tour!!! Here is the bed, the bathroom.....She thinks this is good content???? HH strikes again!
Anyone know why my font changed just on here??? Help!

 

[HartofTexas]

Here's a dose of hard reality that being a parent of an autistic child with various other mental ailments such as IDD....have to acknowledge.

The outside world is a chaotic place for EVERYONE...and we ( average people)are raised knowing how to navigate , notice the good and bad, make wise, informed decisions, be aware of danger, your surroundings, learn and abide the rules set to be a functioning participant in our community ...in society as a whole.

Some of these things are easier than others for the average child growing up into adulthood..being autistic, or having other mental " issues" can make this 100 times more difficult, perhaps even more imortant.

So as the parent it is our responsibility to ensure our autistic child is getting ALL the help, all the resources all the medical advancements and TEACH them for how ever long it takes HOW TO COPE, HOW TO FOLLOW RULES, LISTEN...and understand the outside rules.

Because if we don't ...what happens when strangers , cashiers, children, dogs, delivery people, the general population who doesn't KNOW our child come across them ....in public and our child..who is now a full grown adult, yells at them, hits them ( a child even) because they touched their cart, or accidentally bumped them....

In the last few years ( longer I'm sure) do you know how many police officers had to intervene a conflict with an autistic adult in a public setting?
Do you know how many of those conflicts ended....in death ?

Val is so busy playing the victim and bad mouthing every teacher, therapist , in-house care giver , nurse, doctor, dentist, hairdresser, bus driver ..because they misunderstand Jessica....rather than teach jessica how to listen, cope, TRY to cooperate , and that there are rules...and boundaries and CONSEQUENCES...she blames the world for not making exceptions for jessica.
That is not doing Jessica ANY favours ....In fact it puts her in constant danger, makes her unapproachable ,unlikable and very scary.

If a child in the mall accidentally bumped Jessica ...and jessica hauled off screaming head thrown back and hitting a small child...it would not go well for Jessica .
Even Val said one of the reasons she's in a wheelchair at Disney is because of she gets accidently bumped she gets violent.
Jessica gets violent often when ever she doesn't get HER way....so how can you unleash that into the public?

It's not up to the world to come to a stop to make Jessica happy.... It's up to Val to teach, prepare and provide the professional help Jessica requires to safely embark on the world.
Val refuses to do this as the narcissist victim she believes she is. So hiding her bessy away and blaming the world is her answer while scamming people online for her Disney vacations.

100% - Val has “crippled”, “disabled”, ”neglected” Jess far more than any of the real or made up disabilities that Jess actually does have

 

[WallFly]

@pokermom ,@FairlyCertain and Amy from our favourite Face Book Group exposing Autistic Interpretations...thank you for the kindest of words.

I journal a lot as part of my own wellness journey it's a great outlet...I think it helps when posting here especially with something I live with like many of you. Of course Val does provide the best of the worst content, which makes it easy.

There's nothing more profound than being witness to vulnerable people being taken advantage of, used, abused ...and the Brooks Crooks do this on the daily.

I hope between our two groups we can in the very least spread awareness and warn others to not become another victim of the Brooks. Maybe even help Jessica ...