Autistic Interpretations #20 Val’s not a Mother nor is she a Nurse, she’s an online

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Sickening, but I think Val considers herself “one of the girls” so she doesn’t do anything that is teaching. She is rebelling and allows her children to do the same and makes excuses and blames someone else🤮
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I think so too. And I think that Val’s plan is to keep and increase the ailments Jess has, she or wNt care if she is healthy or not
Agree that she thinks she's one of the girls. In their weekly video, Val said "their friend and our friend Taylor" is coming over. A 30 year old is your friend Val? My 31year old daughter and I are best friends. We do a lot together. But I don't hang out with her and her friends. They are HER friends. I would feel uncomfortable being in my 50's hanging with a bunch on 30 year olds.
 
Here's something interesting ....

Our friend AllysonEcurb we know attacks anyone on Facebook who dare speak the truth or have an opinion ...

Here's a photo of AllysonBruce554 from YouTube doing the same thing but here's whats really interesting ...the post where she's defending Val is a post from 9 days ago, on a video that was a couple years ago... And it's not to Allyson..but she replies.
How would Allyson know if a stranger posted on a comment that wasn't hers.
The only way she would even know is if ( she had just come back from Italy and saw these comments on her real account ( Autistic Interpretations) and replied to it on her FAKE account set up to fight off all the " bad ones"!

We see you Hannah!!!!
 

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Here's something interesting ....

Our friend AllysonEcurb we know attacks anyone on Facebook who dare speak the truth or have an opinion ...

Here's a photo of AllysonBruce554 from YouTube doing the same thing but here's whats really interesting ...the post where she's defending Val is a post from 9 days ago, on a video that was a couple years ago... And it's not to Allyson..but she replies.
How would Allyson know if a stranger posted on a comment that wasn't hers.
The only way she would even know is if ( she had just come back from Italy and saw these comments on her real account ( Autistic Interpretations) and replied to it on her FAKE account set up to fight off all the " bad ones"!

We see you Hannah!!!!
Are these comments from IG? I looked for account on IG for @allysonbruce554 and there is nothing
i see the Allyson Bruce account on you tube, only 1 subscriber but it will not tell you who it is
 

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I think Val has been posting less because she realizes followers are seeing her incompetence more and more. The charade is becoming more visible everyday, she’s too busy fending off haters and deleting unfavourable comments, I bet it takes up most of her day, no time for decent content. She’s sulking in her room, reading comments, probably angry as hell, knowing there’s not a damm thing she can do about the negativity on platforms not her own.
 
I think Val has been posting less because she realizes followers are seeing her incompetence more and more. The charade is becoming more visible everyday, she’s too busy fending off haters and deleting unfavourable comments, I bet it takes up most of her day, no time for decent content. She’s sulking in her room, reading comments, probably angry as hell, knowing there’s not a damm thing she can do about the negativity on platforms not her own.

I agree 100%. Between this site, the new FACEBOOK Autistic Interpretations Scam page where more people read and Hannah taking over Vals second page..DSGP...which is really shinning the light on all the lies they tell, the inconsistencies in their time lines...and simply claiming to BE IN Italy ...while standing in the kitchen at home...made viewers feel like idiots ..Hannah should of been upfront from the beginning instead of trying to pass of premade videos of her and Marlow " camping" which I think was 200% BS.
Considering they only changed clothes once in that camping video ...and showed outside once for about 5 minutes I think they took the camper out for the day and just filmed 4 cooking videos claiming it was 4 different days... because we now know Hannah was already in Italy that week... Lies, lies, lies.

More and more people are seeing all the lies, scams, ebegging... And reading the comments about Madison, more lies, seeing he's living in Vals old house, people are commenting on how Hannah can afford a "camping vacation" then a clothing shopping spree followed by 10 days in Italy ...which cost thousands just for the return flight and room alone! Never mind restaurants, shopping, travel car rental? Uber? Sightseeing paying to visit various places, souvineers etc...

We all know Val loves to hide in her room drink her wine cuddle HER dog ( not Jesse's dog) and watch Netflix....

People are seeing the neglect. The abuse of funds being paid out amongst the Brooks and Marlow.
Not only do WE see you Val....but everyone else is starting too as well.
KARMA!!
 
I agree 100%. Between this site, the new FACEBOOK Autistic Interpretations Scam page where more people read and Hannah taking over Vals second page..DSGP...which is really shinning the light on all the lies they tell, the inconsistencies in their time lines...and simply claiming to BE IN Italy ...while standing in the kitchen at home...made viewers feel like idiots ..Hannah should of been upfront from the beginning instead of trying to pass of premade videos of her and Marlow " camping" which I think was 200% BS.
Considering they only changed clothes once in that camping video ...and showed outside once for about 5 minutes I think they took the camper out for the day and just filmed 4 cooking videos claiming it was 4 different days... because we now know Hannah was already in Italy that week... Lies, lies, lies.

More and more people are seeing all the lies, scams, ebegging... And reading the comments about Madison, more lies, seeing he's living in Vals old house, people are commenting on how Hannah can afford a "camping vacation" then a clothing shopping spree followed by 10 days in Italy ...which cost thousands just for the return flight and room alone! Never mind restaurants, shopping, travel car rental? Uber? Sightseeing paying to visit various places, souvineers etc...

We all know Val loves to hide in her room drink her wine cuddle HER dog ( not Jesse's dog) and watch Netflix....

People are seeing the neglect. The abuse of funds being paid out amongst the Brooks and Marlow.
Not only do WE see you Val....but everyone else is starting too as well.
KARMA!!
I believe that porn boy paid for this vacation just like he did for Norway last year. With the world's moral compass going down the hill quickly I think that they have tons of sick viewers willing to pay for their smut!! We all know Hypochondriac Hannah has no money.
She is not even making enough videos to keep her in spending money. I still have my suspicions that she is either working on getting disability or already has it. No person her age who is able-bodied should be laying around all day. Heck she was fine to walk all over Rome and all the times she goes out with Marlow and Taylor no problem. But if you check out her demeanor it has gone from normal to sad sack in the last year. It's like the more depressed she ACTS on video the more the government will see how sad and sick she is! She as big of a scammer as her mother.
People like HH are entitled little brats who think the world owes them everything! And in her generation (not lumping all into this) they don't want to work...I know of several of my friends kids who are pulling this same crap. My boys started being caddies at a golf course near us at 13. And both my guys now grown make close to the high 6 figures!! I know my folks would have never put up with this either. I started working at 15 and babysat before that...HH wants to be like Jess, dependant on mommy. And apparently Val does not see how she f***ed up all 3 of her kids. It's a crime and she needs to be stopped.
 
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Well looks like Val posted HER weekly video over on Hannah's Page because her page gets very little views or comments.....and people are not liking how Hannah lied about being in Italy when she was already home!.Hannah lost ALL.credibility by not being honest...no ones interested in her vacation with her mystery travel companion who refuses to show his face...but he's okay with being buck naked for the world to see with his butch wife's face buried up his backside!!
Guess Madison aka Serleocross only shows his face for cash!!

Anyways the weeks video is all about food and jumping through hoops to keep " your Bessy perked up! "
Thats all life is about for the Brooks and friends! Keeping Jessica hap! hap! happy!!!

Notice how incredibly happy Jessica was at the restaurant? No blank stares, no brooding, no arguing, no mumbling, no whining.....until.... She was served a dessert she didn't like ...and like a light switch her mood changed....because someone did not make and serve Bessy HER preferred chocolate cake.......
And we all know if Bessy ain't happy ain't noooooooobody happy.

This could really be seen during the gift opening ....Jessica was very happy until she heard gifts were for Val too...that's when again the light switch goes off.....and we see a hundred jump cuts and edits where they tried to edit out miserable whiney bitchy Jessica. We do however see her gaze off, uninterested, barely talking, mumbling ...slumped over and miserable....because she got no cards, no money or Disney cards and not all the gifts were hers.

Then of course Friday night pizza party with Marlows friend and we hear Val introduce her and miserable big mouth announcing Taylor's not HER friend....over and over Jess loves to argue when she is in a mood. This was probably after Jess was told Taylor was staying for dinner and immediately Greedy Guts started obsessing over HER pizza and HER skillet cookies which she insisted on arguing with mommy dearest over.
Everyone was dancing on egg shells desperately trying to keep their Bessy happy no matter the cost!! Letting her make her spit sounds over the food, argue with Val, telling Val what she is allowed on her pizza, announcing she will not touch the cheese, yelling at the dog......but my fav. Part was about 37:10 into the video where they were on the third pizza and Jess was stirring....Campbell spoke out of turn!!! And Val gave him the infamous Val Death Stare!!! And mouthed to him about his " tone"!!! He knows the rules in HIS house....everyone must cator to Jessica at ALL times!!! The only purpose is to keep our Bessy HAPPY!!!!!

Jessica CHOOSES to be miserable, mean, rude, nasty, argumentative when ever she doesn't get HER way....she CHOOSES to show and let everyone know when she's not pleased... But if God forbid Val talks in a tired tone or doesn't respond with a high pitched " youuuuuuuu know it!!!! " Jessica gets pissy!!!!
No one else is permitted to be tired, sick, sad,mad, scared....etc.... Only Jessica is allowed to have feelings and taken them out on everyone at anytime.
This is not autism .... Autistic people aren't deliberately conniving, mean, spiteful and hurtful. This is a learned behaviour and Jessica's tantrums ...which are intentional ..these aren't stims, this isn't an " expression disorder" as Val claims, it's a miserable 36 yr. Old brat who demands everyone do exactly as she wants at all times, and if she doesn't get HER way her mood changes in an instant! And we see all the jump cuts and ridiculous edits.
Remember....If Jessica ain't happy ain't NOOOOBODY allowed to be happy!

#thisisNOTautism
The week in my life video Jessica talks about going to lunch with her grandparents but the video on March 2nd said the grandparents were away on vacation. So like how far back is all this content? They just record when they feel like it and throw it out there like it’s current. I don’t think I have ever seen any content creator put so little effort in what they do. But then again you have these followers falling for it which is mind blowing.
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Thanks WallFly for enduring the weekly video because I won't watch those. I think Val posted it on HH's page so she could get double exposure because she is no longer posting as many videos. And HH either! They must make soooo much money they are taking an early retirement!!!🤣😂🤣
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I just watched the first couple minutes but couldn't stand them. First Jess introduced the video as the Weekly Wife! And wipes her nose twice followed by using her tongue to wipe the snot off under her nose! And her one eye is crossing alot!
Jump yo the restaurant and then after Val videos all the desserts she has to read all of them and explain them to Jess who then decides she will have the "declare" or the brownie. And that was not corrected which it could have been! Another lost teaching moment. At that moment I was done!
They must be reading our comments because I see they are at least putting a clear bandaid on her forehead vs the cartoon character ones . Maybe now they’ll clean the air fryer after seeing all the comments on their grungy kitchen.
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I agree 100%. Between this site, the new FACEBOOK Autistic Interpretations Scam page where more people read and Hannah taking over Vals second page..DSGP...which is really shinning the light on all the lies they tell, the inconsistencies in their time lines...and simply claiming to BE IN Italy ...while standing in the kitchen at home...made viewers feel like idiots ..Hannah should of been upfront from the beginning instead of trying to pass of premade videos of her and Marlow " camping" which I think was 200% BS.
Considering they only changed clothes once in that camping video ...and showed outside once for about 5 minutes I think they took the camper out for the day and just filmed 4 cooking videos claiming it was 4 different days... because we now know Hannah was already in Italy that week... Lies, lies, lies.

More and more people are seeing all the lies, scams, ebegging... And reading the comments about Madison, more lies, seeing he's living in Vals old house, people are commenting on how Hannah can afford a "camping vacation" then a clothing shopping spree followed by 10 days in Italy ...which cost thousands just for the return flight and room alone! Never mind restaurants, shopping, travel car rental? Uber? Sightseeing paying to visit various places, souvineers etc...

We all know Val loves to hide in her room drink her wine cuddle HER dog ( not Jesse's dog) and watch Netflix....

People are seeing the neglect. The abuse of funds being paid out amongst the Brooks and Marlow.
Not only do WE see you Val....but everyone else is starting too as well.
KARMA!!
Good catch on the camping because they tried to use the excuse Hannah was sick and it rained the entire time. The timelines are just ridiculous don’t they think people aren’t catching on ? They call what they do a job ? At least if you want to call it your career put some effort into it and put out quality work. Like do they all just all stay in their rooms and come out a few days a week to record videos then chop them up to last a few weeks.
 
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The week in my life video Jessica talks about going to lunch with her grandparents but the video on March 2nd said the grandparents were away on vacation. So like how far back is all this content? They just record when they feel like it and throw it out there like it’s current. I don’t think I have ever seen any content creator put so little effort in what they do. But then again you have these followers falling for it which is mind blowing.
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They must be reading our comments because I see they are at least putting a clear bandaid on her forehead vs the cartoon character ones . Maybe now they’ll clean the air fryer after seeing all the comments on their grungy kitchen.
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Good catch on the camping because they tried to use the excuse Hannah was sick and it rained the entire time. The timelines are just ridiculous don’t they think people aren’t catching on ? They call what they do a job ? At least if you want to call it your career put some effort into it and put out quality work. Like do they all just all stay in their rooms and come out a few days a week to record videos then chop them up to last a few weeks.
They take no pride in anything they do or have. Rotten videos, dirty house, lack of hygiene, the way they let Jess look all disheveled all the time and just not caring about anything but Disney. Not sure where I read the articles, on here or the new Autism page but that told how people who are obsessed with Disney are mentally ill! And it definitely fits this family. From when I started watching AI to now they have all declined mentally and physically. I like others thought that AI would give me some insight into my granddaughter but I quickly found out it was just about kissing Jessica’s butt and her/their greed. And I am still disgusted....
 
A quick thought after reading the new AI scam page. Does anyone else think that porn boy bought his mother's old house so she could continue to use the address for their government scams?? She always makes it sound like they live in Tennessee and not Georgia. Possibly she gets more money from Tennessee?? I just know it seems fishy. Speculation was that she was losing the house to foreclosure and it was in short sale. Then out of the blue her son buys it. I still believe she is pulling a fast one with that house.
 
A quick thought after reading the new AI scam page. Does anyone else think that porn boy bought his mother's old house so she could continue to use the address for their government scams?? She always makes it sound like they live in Tennessee and not Georgia. Possibly she gets more money from Tennessee?? I just know it seems fishy. Speculation was that she was losing the house to foreclosure and it was in short sale. Then out of the blue her son buys it. I still believe she is pulling a fast one with that house.
Her house was also in Ringgold Georgia and not Tennessee . Maybe she figured for safety purposes to say that and to use a PO Box . Just like the vacations they post after they get home because they think everyone just wants to stalk them. Wasn’t there a time she mentioned she was actually getting threats ?
 

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Her house was also in Ringgold Georgia and not Tennessee . Maybe she figured for safety purposes to say that and to use a PO Box . Just like the vacations they post after they get home because they think everyone just wants to stalk them. Wasn’t there a time she mentioned she was actually getting threats ?

Makes me wonder why 2 young people with money would want to buy such an ugly house.
 
Her house was also in Ringgold Georgia and not Tennessee . Maybe she figured for safety purposes to say that and to use a PO Box . Just like the vacations they post after they get home because they think everyone just wants to stalk them. Wasn’t there a time she mentioned she was actually getting threats ?
Thank you rbooth61. Somehow I got that messed up! And yes she claimed that she was getting threats and from what I understand she was blaming this group. I never remember any but in her mentally ill mind she thought she could blame us. My opinion is she absolutely hates us!!!😂😂
 
So...no VOTM...

Is Val hiding in her bedroom?
Or
Off to Disney? ( or did her and Jessica already go for a 3-4 day Disney run while Hannah was in Italy..but pretending to be camping with Marlow??)

And What happened to Augustine ? And Hannah Tinsel?

What was this supposed life threatening mystery illness Hannah had 10 years ago that you both continuously hint at still to this day?
What happened to the big reveal about Hannah's sleep study ??
Also what about the hundreds of " seizures" Jessica was suppose to have every day?? You use to claim she had epilepsy ...till she didnt.

Why does AllysonEcurb/ AllysonBruce (Allyson is also your sister's name and Jessica's middle name) attack all the comments or questions YOU don't like? AND answer like she lives in your house??
Why do you not address Jessica's schizophrenia? And blame everything on autism ?
Why lie about Madison AKA Leo Cross being a doctor? When everyone can see him with his wife's face buried up his naked backside??...not to mention in your old house?
Seems that if your lips are moving Val...you're lying!

As for Hannah...stop lying you're extremely bad at it.

Maybe these will help you with your next Q&A?
So many lies so little time.
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Spoke too soon!

VOTM is up...it's from last week before pizza night..

Uhm, uhm, uhm, uhm, uhm,uhm,uhm,uhm, uhm.......uhm, uhm.
That about covers it.
Uhm.....
 
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So...no VOTM...

Is Val hiding in her bedroom?
Or
Off to Disney? ( or did her and Jessica already go for a 3-4 day Disney run while Hannah was in Italy..but pretending to be camping with Marlow??)

And What happened to Augustine ? And Hannah Tinsel?

What was this supposed life threatening mystery illness Hannah had 10 years ago that you both continuously hint at still to this day?
What happened to the big reveal about Hannah's sleep study ??
Also what about the hundreds of " seizures" Jessica was suppose to have every day?? You use to claim she had epilepsy ...till she didnt.

Why does AllysonEcurb/ AllysonBruce (Allyson is also your sister's name and Jessica's middle name) attack all the comments or questions YOU don't like? AND answer like she lives in your house??
Why do you not address Jessica's schizophrenia? And blame everything on autism ?
Why lie about Madison AKA Leo Cross being a doctor? When everyone can see him with his wife's face buried up his naked backside??...not to mention in your old house?
Seems that if your lips are moving Val...you're lying!

As for Hannah...stop lying you're extremely bad at it.

Maybe these will help you with your next Q&A?
So many lies so little time.
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Spoke too soon!

VOTM is up...it's from last week before pizza night..

Uhm, uhm, uhm, uhm, uhm,uhm,uhm,uhm, uhm.......uhm, uhm.
That about covers it.
Uhm.....
Oh Val Val Val isn’t it nice of you to thank US for watching you sad excuse for videos. How can she even type that garbage about how Jessica has progressed? Ummm, ummm that’s a mystery. Wallfly this is going to be another pizza night. They’re going to Chris and Karla’s to sponge off them.
Y’all take a good look at that bandaid on her forehead where they are trying to hide her latest scab. The middle of it shows to be sticking out (I can’t think of how else to describe it). It looks to me to be a lot thicker scab which would mean she is picking it a lot more. Am I right or just imagining it? I’m also beginning to wonder if the sore in her hairline is ever going to heal.
And yes Val hates us. But I think we are in pretty good company. She hates everyone who tries and does right by their families.
 
Not sure if the pictures are showing. You need to click on them. But the VOTM was alot of ummm, ummm, ummm by Jessica with her face right up in the camera. Looks like they are going to do this "make Jessica look like an idiot" videos.
She wanted a new pooch and hush up daryl when he was barking. She watches videos with barking dogs but has to scream at their dogs every chance she gets!
Sponging off Nathan tonight and Chris and Carla on Friday. God these moochers have no conscious when it comes to using them. And NO Jess did not want to help with breakfast because she was working just like she said she would be doing tonight too. So that means she will manic again at Nathan's! SHE IS NOT WORKING VAL!!!!! She is just your trained monkey earning you money! Worthless scammers!!!
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Oh Val Val Val isn’t it nice of you to thank US for watching you sad excuse for videos. How can she even type that garbage about how Jessica has progressed? Ummm, ummm that’s a mystery. Wallfly this is going to be another pizza night. They’re going to Chris and Karla’s to sponge off them.
Y’all take a good look at that bandaid on her forehead where they are trying to hide her latest scab. The middle of it shows to be sticking out (I can’t think of how else to describe it). It looks to me to be a lot thicker scab which would mean she is picking it a lot more. Am I right or just imagining it? I’m also beginning to wonder if the sore in her hairline is ever going to heal.
And yes Val hates us. But I think we are in pretty good company. She hates everyone who tries and does right by their families.
I got a couple of closeups of here bandaged sore and yup something is there!!
 

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Thank you rbooth61. Somehow I got that messed up! And yes she claimed that she was getting threats and from what I understand she was blaming this group. I never remember any but in her mentally ill mind she thought she could blame us. My opinion is she absolutely hates us!!!😂😂
Not sure if the pictures are showing. You need to click on them. But the VOTM was alot of ummm, ummm, ummm by Jessica with her face right up in the camera. Looks like they are going to do this "make Jessica look like an idiot" videos.
She wanted a new pooch and hush up daryl when he was barking. She watches videos with barking dogs but has to scream at their dogs every chance she gets!
Sponging off Nathan tonight and Chris and Carla on Friday. God these moochers have no conscious when it comes to using them. And NO Jess did not want to help with breakfast because she was working just like she said she would be doing tonight too. So that means she will manic again at Nathan's! SHE IS NOT WORKING VAL!!!!! She is just your trained monkey earning you money! Worthless scammers!!!
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I got a couple of closeups of here bandaged sore and yup something is there!!
Jessica will use any excuse not to do something but Val always pipes up to give it an acceptable excuse. Jess will say I can’t touch the cheese and Val it’s because you don’t like how it feels. It’s these absolute ridiculous reasons that Val needs to answer for Jessica’s bad behaviors again and again. They just need to put a stop to doing these cooking videos so so boring. Why not have Jessica go with Campbell to walk Zoey just give everybody some better content.
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Thank you rbooth61. Somehow I got that messed up! And yes she claimed that she was getting threats and from what I understand she was blaming this group. I never remember any but in her mentally ill mind she thought she could blame us. My opinion is she absolutely hates us!!!😂😂
They use a PO Box in Chattanooga Tennessee for Jessica’s mail by tries to make people they live in that state . So that’s where you got that from Susan. It’s hard for all of us to keep up with all the lies . But you’re so welcome my friend.
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I had to share this great find from the scammers page . Just look how well Jessica use to stir vs now . She’s regressed so much in so many ways.

 
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Agree that she thinks she's one of the girls. In their weekly video, Val said "their friend and our friend Taylor" is coming over. A 30 year old is your friend Val? My 31year old daughter and I are best friends. We do a lot together. But I don't hang out with her and her friends. They are HER friends. I would feel uncomfortable being in my 50's hanging with a bunch on 30 year olds.
Her house was also in Ringgold Georgia and not Tennessee . Maybe she figured for safety purposes to say that and to use a PO Box . Just like the vacations they post after they get home because they think everyone just wants to stalk them. Wasn’t there a time she mentioned she was actually getting threats ?
yes, shows owner names Sara Pledger & Madison Brooks bought in August 2022 for $240,000
 

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There's a mother of a nonverbal autistic boy who I enjoy pulling strength from...it's Coppers mom, Devin.
Her channel/page is Finding Coppers Voice.
Her journey is newer as her son is a young boy but her knowledge, her strength, and wisdom is truly a gift...for mom's like myself no matter where we Are in our journey.

One of the most life changing and profound tidbits of wisdom I have ever heard was...

"Are you helping or you doing?"

This is the constant question I ask myself 100 times a day every day ...since the day our daughter was diagnosed ....

I want to help my child to be successful, strong, confident, and achieve her highest potential and goals.
Easier said then done...
Because I also want to protect my child, make her life easy, make sure the world treats her As special as she is, make sure everyone knows she has limits and they all must also be on board and go the extra mile for her..after all she's my non verbal autistic beautiful daughter.

Trust me when I say.... I am doing her NO FAVOURS by expecting the world, teachers, therapists , doctors, neighbours, friends, family, the cashier at the grocery store to all understand her and accommodate her needs. That's selfish and demanding and absolutely crazy to think any of those people need to change for my daughter or...anybody else's for that matter.

That means I have one job...to ensure my autistic daughter learns valuable tools to keep in her tool box to deal and cope with the world and the different people and situations in it.

Helping my daughter will benefit her long term and it's sustainable where as expecting others to change the world for her is simply not.

I am helping her by not doing for her. I am helping her by not coddling her blaming everyone else for not understanding her needs and bending to grant them.

This is my main issue with Val....she plays the poor me victim card and blames every teacher, therapist,doctor etc... For not understanding her Jessica ...it's everyone else's fault poor Jessica is a one of a kind unique misunderstood anomaly ......

No...she isnt.
It's easy for Val to blame the world cry poor me while planning Disney vacations than actually teach Jessica ANY coping skills, any manners, basic hygiene , acceptable behaviours , patience , healthy foods and how to make GOOD choices, how to handle change and her violent temper...etc...
Vals managed to brain wash her children that they must give Jessica her way always , what words they are not permitted to speak in the house, everything revolves around Jessica at all costs. The only thing that matters is Jessica's happiness. Period.

Parents like Codys mom, Coppers mom.... The parents in my local support community are all warriors and put in the hard work day in day out...( Without a staff to take on our responsibilities, we have families, other children , jobs, and have no time to hide in our bedrooms playing a victim blaming the world and acting the martyr )

I have written a few REAL.parents online about the abuse of autism and neglect of Jessica .....
Valerie Brooks and the entire clan are lying scammers ...using autism to abuse a system that's in place for those who truly need it to survive ...not for 4,5,6 yearly Disney vacations, new cars, trucks, campers trips to Italy .....
I'm hoping to gather enough support to shut down the Brooks Crooks Scam Machine.
 
There's a mother of a nonverbal autistic boy who I enjoy pulling strength from...it's Coppers mom, Devin.
Her channel/page is Finding Coppers Voice.
Her journey is newer as her son is a young boy but her knowledge, her strength, and wisdom is truly a gift...for mom's like myself no matter where we Are in our journey.

One of the most life changing and profound tidbits of wisdom I have ever heard was...

"Are you helping or you doing?"

This is the constant question I ask myself 100 times a day every day ...since the day our daughter was diagnosed ....

I want to help my child to be successful, strong, confident, and achieve her highest potential and goals.
Easier said then done...
Because I also want to protect my child, make her life easy, make sure the world treats her As special as she is, make sure everyone knows she has limits and they all must also be on board and go the extra mile for her..after all she's my non verbal autistic beautiful daughter.

Trust me when I say.... I am doing her NO FAVOURS by expecting the world, teachers, therapists , doctors, neighbours, friends, family, the cashier at the grocery store to all understand her and accommodate her needs. That's selfish and demanding and absolutely crazy to think any of those people need to change for my daughter or...anybody else's for that matter.

That means I have one job...to ensure my autistic daughter learns valuable tools to keep in her tool box to deal and cope with the world and the different people and situations in it.

Helping my daughter will benefit her long term and it's sustainable where as expecting others to change the world for her is simply not.

I am helping her by not doing for her. I am helping her by not coddling her blaming everyone else for not understanding her needs and bending to grant them.

This is my main issue with Val....she plays the poor me victim card and blames every teacher, therapist,doctor etc... For not understanding her Jessica ...it's everyone else's fault poor Jessica is a one of a kind unique misunderstood anomaly ......

No...she isnt.
It's easy for Val to blame the world cry poor me while planning Disney vacations than actually teach Jessica ANY coping skills, any manners, basic hygiene , acceptable behaviours , patience , healthy foods and how to make GOOD choices, how to handle change and her violent temper...etc...
Vals managed to brain wash her children that they must give Jessica her way always , what words they are not permitted to speak in the house, everything revolves around Jessica at all costs. The only thing that matters is Jessica's happiness. Period.

Parents like Codys mom, Coppers mom.... The parents in my local support community are all warriors and put in the hard work day in day out...( Without a staff to take on our responsibilities, we have families, other children , jobs, and have no time to hide in our bedrooms playing a victim blaming the world and acting the martyr )

I have written a few REAL.parents online about the abuse of autism and neglect of Jessica .....
Valerie Brooks and the entire clan are lying scammers ...using autism to abuse a system that's in place for those who truly need it to survive ...not for 4,5,6 yearly Disney vacations, new cars, trucks, campers trips to Italy .....
I'm hoping to gather enough support to shut down the Brooks Crooks Scam Machine.
Brooks Crooks Scam Machine should be the next name for our thread!!!! Love it.
When you used the words toolbox it reminded me of the toolbox Jess just had to have!! Where is it? Just like her day planner/agenda....have we seen that either? Look at the money they spend on stupid, useless junk!
Oh by the way did you hear Jess and Val hint for a new pool??? Jess said we don't know where I can swim this summer??? Where the hell is the one they used last year??? It was brand new last year. My guess is it got moldy and they dumped it instead of cleaning it. They never cease to amaze me that they think they should get all this free stuff.
 
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