Ashley James #6 Ageing like a fine wine? More like a cosmetic surgery cocktail.

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She is a bleep. Such a bleep. I cannot with her. (Hi Ashley hun btw 😘)
1) Shame on Lucy Meck for associating with her. Remember when she found Roman blue in his cot? Nothing to do with bumpers but safe sleeping Id imagine would be of most importance since then?! How she can openly slag off mums and then hang out with a bunch of mums is beyond me.

2) I drove around with sweaty palms, just passed my test with a newborn baby. Did I just not drive or go to our appointments? No I bleeping got on with it. Like duck did I have him forward facing glued to an iPad. IDIOT.

3) Mum police. Hahahahaha. All she’s doing is openly hating on other mums, making enemies and putting us all in the same categories. She hasn’t said she’s talking about Tattle (we know she is but if you aren’t aware of here, she’s offensive to everyone!) She’s never going to make proper ‘mum friends’ if she’s slagging every mum off! Good luck finding another mum who sees eye to eye with you.

4) I howled and applauded the bird that tit on her head (dw about Alf tho hun) Even vermin knows she a class A twit 🤣

5) Those reels of her driving the car seems even more hilarious now knowing she has probs only driven once. Yeah let’s buy a Jag to show off so I can eye-duck myself in it for a reel. Get a grip!
 
All of this and she’s still trying for another baby?
Is it just to keep Tommy happy? She clearly doesn’t want the one she’s got

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Lurker121 said:
That latest video she’s post literally makes me cringe so hard. That hideous jiggle she does. Poor Alf looks likes he’s being held by a stranger, there’s just no connection whatsoever. He looks bloody miserable as sin just so she can jiggle her tits around for yet another Instagram post. So embarrassed for her.
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I missed this reel earlier - you’re so right. The whole thing is awkward AF.
No connection between them, he’s looking off somewhere else (probably at a screen as someone else pointed out), he looks downright uncomfortable when she’s jiggling around. Awful
 
I really wish she'd appreciate she had a great life pre baby and still does, it's just different.

I get your life changes and it can be a shock but she's had 2 years to adapt and accept this.

Edited to add that I re-read what she misses and tbh, she still does all of that. She's travelled, escaped grey England by going on luxury holidays, to France, Marbella with the girls. Her and Tommy have had many (1st) dates and childree weekends when they could binge watch Netflix/get drunk/be spontaneous.

So I don't buy it, her real reason is she just doesn't like being a mum.
 
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Ss-ldn said:
All of this and she’s still trying for another baby?
Is it just to keep Tommy happy? She clearly doesn’t want the one she’s got

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I missed this reel earlier - you’re so right. The whole thing is awkward AF.
No connection between them, he’s looking off somewhere else (probably at a screen as someone else pointed out), he looks downright uncomfortable when she’s jiggling around. Awful
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Looks like she’s jolting his head/neck which has to be hella painful.

Does her latest story REALLY need to be shared with 326,000 people? After showing us they’re planning another one by mistake it makes her look like the biggest dick.
Why does she put every bleeping thought and conversation she has with people on insta? What a sad act.

She doesn’t want another one. She wants a girl.

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Why is she eating pasta once he’s gone to bed? Why is she not sitting at a table and having tea with him? I don’t get it, my husband works late some days and I still do the usual sit down at 5.30 and have tea with my toddler at the table (he also just eats the same as me so it’s easier to eat together) 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Boiled blended vegetables isn’t to her taste 🤮
 
It's the most used phrase on here but, poor Alf.

She clearly just doesn't like motherhood & she's put it all online for him to see one day! Life with kids is different but she still manages to do all the things she did pre-Alf.

And, she's trying for another baby? I do think if Alf were a little girl, her whole narrative would be different. She's made it super clear that she never wanted a baby boy, so God forbid she has anothrr child and its a girl. Alf will be pushed away even further.
 
She does have a valid point, life does totally change after having a baby and I think a lot of people are hugely naive about that and don’t understand how you lose that ability to be truly spontaneous.

However - she just comes across as ungrateful. She is so fortunate to have fallen pregnant easily when sooo many people have real struggles.
 
I miss going for a tit in peace but I don’t harp on about it. She really is the worst. Imagine resenting your beautiful baby and palming him off at every opportunity. She comes across as being so miserable, I think she was probably miserable before Alf too but can’t mask it with travel, drink and partying like she used to.
 
I don’t understand how she hates life so much. He’s in childcare more or less 40 hours a week. She doesn’t see him?! She could go for coffee/spa dates with friends if she wanted to. Tommy does bed time so she could do DJ gigs! She’s had more holidays than most of us.

bleeping hell what planet is she on? Also those pictures from the farm, Alf doesn’t look happy in one photo. Yet she’s put them up because SHE looks good in them. Typical narcissist.
 
If there was ever an AJ quote that summed up why she even became a mother in the first place, why she had such gender disappointment and why she is trying for another, preferably a girl (and no it's not to raise a strong girl who is going to stick it to the patriarchy):

"I love seeing ME in Alf..." (Tommy is added as an afterthought, probably begrudgingly)

Is it just me but I never look at my kids and think "oh I love that part of them, it is so like ME"?! They are two independent people. Sometimes I see flashes of relatives I love and my partner but that is it. Her self-obsession is off the chart

Plus how she can look at that kid and see anyone but Tommy is beyond me!
 
She blows my mind. She honest to god thinks she is so different to every other woman on the planet. She honestly thinks she’s the only woman that loved her 20s being care free, meanwhile every other woman spends their 20s longing to settle down and have babies. Ummmm NO ASHLEY. Every woman I know that’s now a mother lived their 20s/early 30s to the fullest! Travelling, partying with friends all weekend, drinks after work etc. enjoying your 20s is not a new concept you imbecile!!
of course when your world becomes smaller in a sense it’s natural to miss the freedom once enjoyed, but Jesus I wouldn’t want to live the life I had in my 20s for the rest of my life! (Id probably die of alcohol poisoning tbf) isn’t that just part of growing up?
you live those crazy years, then you move on to a more grounded, peaceful chapter, of raising your family.
i totally understand people never having kids and loving that, I have friends who have made this decision, but Ashley has a child, she needs to embrace it and stop pining for a life that actually wasn’t all she pretends it was!
 
Personally I don’t have an issue with her feeling that way about pre/post kids, and questioning which is better. Motherhood is tough and a lot of us have moments where we miss the freedom of pre-baby life or the person we used to be. It’s ok for her to mourn that.

What I do think is absolutely disgusting though is plastering it all over the internet so that one day Alf will find all of these things written about him. How is he supposed to feel when he sees all these things saying how she regrets him, how she wishes he was a girl, how she finds the days with him long and boring? Poor little guy.

Ashley- have a glass of wine and moan about it to your friends, get it out of your system. Then look at your beautiful son’s face and realise how worth it it all is. And for God’s sake keep it off the internet and protect his future mental health ffs.
 
Yeah I absolutely miss going on multiple decent holidays a year and spending a week in vegas acting like a teenager now I have a child but I accepted that when we had a kid these things would change and I’ve had years of just doing what we fancied and going where we fancied.

Things is though she’s in a really privileged positions where she has money so actually if she wants to travel again she can afford to do that and take Alf with her. I would love to go on some of the holidays we went on pre-child but for us we can’t afford to add on an extra fare because we don’t have a wealthy background!
 
I have a single, child free friend in her 30s. She is
more calm and grounded now than we were in our 20s, we used to get up to absolute chaos, we’ve questioned a few times how we’re still alive tbh but, I think calming and appreciating life’s smaller things just naturally happens as you grow, kids or no kids.
You can still be wild even if you do have kids, I’ve done festivals child free, I’ve got up to plenty of mischief with my friends and also with my fella since I’ve become a mum. Life doesn’t end because you have a child. You just can’t be as selfish, and I think that’s Ashleys problem - she’s too selfish and would rather think of herself but knows as a mother she can’t.
 
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