Ashley James #38 My family One I regret (Alf), One I love (Ada), one I'm indifferent about (TNB)

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Aside from knowing duck all about kids apart from breastfeeding even then her knowledge is questionable, I do think she has an infantilisation disorder with wanting to keep the kids as babies for as long as possible because that’s all she knows and she doesn’t want to have actual grown children. I don’t think she likes kids anyway and it requires effort from her. It all stops for her after the newborn phase and when people stop giving her all the attention.
The video of her waiting for pregnancy tests doesn’t add up. If it was a shock pregnancy after a 4 week relationship you’d be shitting it surely? You wouldn’t whip out the camera and turn into Mother Theresa cool as a bleeping cucumber. You wouldn’t start a vlog diary if a pregnancy was never at the forefront of your mind.
Her kids were planned money makers. It’s so obvious in that video.

Alfs birthday is so far from normal it’s hard to watch and it hasn’t even started yet 💔
 
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God I'm so angry about so many things...
*Alfs dolls house going in his room,where he only goes to sleep,not play.
*A dolls house that's really meant for Ada not Alf.
*A baby wooden trolley.You can buy kids metal Asda ones.Get him pretend groceries and play shop with him ffs.
*The fact he hasn't had other celebrations for his 1st and 2nd birthday but I bet Ada will.
*The fact she fucked up the dolls house but it's OK cos Alf won't notice.witch.
*He likes Paw Patrol.Why not get him PP toys?
*She says Ada isn't afraid of Alf.What mum would think/say this?
*She has a dressing room and a study plus 3 bedrooms...Spoilt bleep.
*Worrying that she will have random Mr Men books left over.Give them to Alf or even to charity maybe?
 
Like someone else said, I’m looking forward to seeing whether she packs him off to the childminder for his birthday tomorrow or if Ashley and Tommy have done what the majority of parents do for their children (before they start school and have no choice) and take them out of childcare, take the day off work and go and do something fun together. What do we reckon?
 
Lurker121 said:
Like someone else said, I’m looking forward to seeing whether she packs him off to the childminder for his birthday tomorrow or if Ashley and Tommy have done what the majority of parents do for their children (before they start school and have no choice) and take them out of childcare, take the day off work and go and do something fun together. What do we reckon?
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Ashley will have taken the day off work and will go and do something fun. By herself.

She deserves it for birthing Alf, the massive baby who was her teacher that she needed healing from (enter Adeline stage left).
 
If she chooses not to tell Alf it’s his birthday and celebrates Saturday, not ideal but plenty do that.

I think though he’ll know, get sent in because “he loves it so much” and the CM will throw him a little party.
There’s a glimmer of hope he won’t go as they prepared his presents and surely they won’t give them before CM then send him off (or after then put him to bed,) but this is Ashley.

I’d love to see Ash and TNB take a day, just with Alf. Ada at the CM and no NNB.
 
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Slightly skeptical about these presents being ‘bought’. They are both the same brand and way overpriced compared to similar products available. Bets on them being an undisclosed gift?! Either that or she’s bought them from Amazon using the credit she earns from links. Also if the furniture is all from ebay why is it all individually wrapped? Is it normal for someone to go to those lengths when selling their child’s second hand toys?
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I think the furniture is second hand as I have the same brand and it all comes in a ‘room set’ box of new and the bits she showed are a older style
However I’m going to bet when she shows the dolls house it’s got the new updated furniture in which I bet she’ll get sent from the brand 🫠

kinda like when she got her ‘second hand’ Wendy house on Facebook marketplace which was obviously brand new

I have nothing against second hand but i feel so bad for Alf getting second hand furniture for his dolls house which Ash hadn’t even checked condition of as it’s all wrapped up still! Especially when she forks out £££ for her daily crunchy curls
Priorities all wrong
 
As I said the other day my kids birthdays are July and August, one is 5 and the other 2. Their birthdays fall in the summer holidays for Scotland and I take a week off each month to celebrate their day and have the week with them. If she sends him to the childminder on his birthday when she can easily spend the day with him as she has nothing else to do she’s an even bigger hole than we think!
 
My brother is born in march and was in childcare part time from about 6 months (both parents working as doctors in NHS, note an actual job). his birthday often fell on childcare days and I remember our nursery taking them really seriously with birthday cake and lots of fuss. I dont see the inherent issue with him being in childcare for his birthday - its what he knows and is used to. But Ash doesnt have a job where she cant juggle things around and take a free day off. Shes obviously not on TV - any ads or reels or crunchy curls appointments could easily be scheduled round Alfies birthday. so there is quite literally no excuse. Surely she could have got Nana down and taken them both to the farm or gruffalo trail. or to seaside for fish and chips.

calling bingo that she'll use the excuse that hes getting a party as to why he doesnt get a nice actual birthday with family as well.

happy birthday alfie!
 
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