Ashley James #34 Really good DJ & really good Mum, constantly leaks out of her mouth & bum

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WTF is supposed to be wrong with her on this photo, that could just be watching MAFS or waiting for the microwave to ping.
 

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Ada won’t sleep.
Let’s drag TNB in because she can’t be arsed.

Even tho he’s obviously put Alf to bed( because,let’s face it-she never has).

I’m not sure these two will last much longer-even all that stuff yesterday about how bored she was in the evenings - if you’re with your partner in a happy relationship would you not be content?
 
Honestly my husband got home from work at 10pm today, I had cooked dinner, and as he ate it we caught up with how our day had been. And we laughed and spent time with each other. He is my best friend and spending even an hour with him before bed is my favourite time.

But....

I also love my "me time" that time before he comes home and I get to have a bath cook dinner, rest and relax. Watch my TV that he wouldn't enjoy and just spend time on my own.

Ash can not and will not be happy until she can realise that she can be happy on her own without the constant need for gratification from others.

It's actually really sad, and part of me feels so sorry for her that she doesn't have the kind of love and friendship that I have with my husband.
 
I looked at some of her old posts from when she was going through her worst times with Alf, trying to find something she’d said. It’s all a rehash now with Ada of that. Wanting her life back, the permanent mistake of becoming a mother, the relentlessness.
I cannot understand why she doesn’t put Ada onto formula if she truly believes “happy mum, happy baby” and doesn’t have Mum guilt. Try some element of sleep training (doesn’t have to be cry it out) even. If she’s as bad as she claims she’s only making it worse for herself. Perhaps it truly is PND but then she needs to step away from social media and speak to someone properly.
The resentment of Alf still shines through, Ada seems to be going that way too now. For her and her family’s sake, I wish she’d swallow her pride and get an action plan. She knows what to do because she did it before and yet she thinks London will be the magic wand.
As much as I dislike her, and I genuinely think she has some personality disorders, I wish she’d seek help before she permanently damages people around her.

She used the story a number of times in those old posts about talking about Alf to a friend And watching them glaze over. I wonder who that was?
 
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Ashley James - a friend for every occasion

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On behalf of the Jewish community, may I please say: we don’t bleeping want your faux outrage, your ‘I have a Jewish friend’, your infinitesimally minute and ignorant understanding of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, or your tots and pears. I’ll hand you a few words of Yiddish, though (you might learn something new today): schmuck, schlock, schvantz, schlemiel, putz (and a WASP putz at that).
Now go away and write us 5,000 words on the difference between Hamas and Fatah, there’s a good little goyl.


Morning, all: as you can see, I’m in a fruity mood today.
Those poor bloody kids.
Hope everyone is well
 
Autisteuse said:
On behalf of the Jewish community, may I please say: we don’t bleeping want your faux outrage, your ‘I have a Jewish friend’, your infinitesimally minute and ignorant understanding of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, or your tots and pears. I’ll hand you a few words of Yiddish, though (you might learn something new today): schmuck, schlock, schvantz, schlemiel, putz (and a WASP putz at that).
Now go away and write us 5,000 words on the difference between Hamas and Fatah, there’s a good little goyl.


Morning, all: as you can see, I’m in a fruity mood today.
Those poor bloody kids.
Hope everyone is well
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Good morning! Always glad to see you have posted. Always the articulate voice of reason too.

I don’t think I’ve ever come across (AJ, not you) someone with such little substance who is so incredibly desperate to be part of something that brings her to the fore of a big ‘story’. If she can be painted as the victim in it, fantastic, but if not then she needs to be the saviour. She is neither. Simply a self indulgent narcissist who would rather spend her days riding off the coat tails of other people’s stories and misfortunes than keeping her own children emotionally safe.
 
Totally agree. It’s horrible to say but it’s just how vacuous she and others have been proved to be. She’s posting about dark thoughts and mental health struggles because she’s chuffed to have gotten some (unpaid) exposure with ITV.

If it was world baking day she’d be talking about flour and pastries instead. It’s never about the issues, it’s just about the bandwagon. Every time.

With that in mind, strap yourselves in guys as today is International Day of the Girl Child - I’m not even joking!!
 
Autisteuse said:
On behalf of the Jewish community, may I please say: we don’t bleeping want your faux outrage, your ‘I have a Jewish friend’, your infinitesimally minute and ignorant understanding of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, or your tots and pears. I’ll hand you a few words of Yiddish, though (you might learn something new today): schmuck, schlock, schvantz, schlemiel, putz (and a WASP putz at that).
Now go away and write us 5,000 words on the difference between Hamas and Fatah, there’s a good little goyl.


Morning, all: as you can see, I’m in a fruity mood today.
Those poor bloody kids.
Hope everyone is well
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Sending you love ❤️
 
Is this supposed to be bad?

So she could have slept 10-1am, 1.30am ish after the feed till 3am, 3.30-4.30am ish and then 4.45am ish till 6.15am.

Sleeping 7 ish hours (albeit broken up) with a 6 month old is pretty bloody good. Although any bets that she was up till 1am watching Breaking Bad.

No wonder she thinks London life will be better - she’s living in 2013.
 

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YahBasic said:
Is this supposed to be bad?

So she could have slept 10-1am, 1.30am ish after the feed till 3am, 3.30-4.30am ish and then 4.45am ish till 6.15am.

Sleeping 7 ish hours (albeit broken up) with a 6 month old is pretty bloody good. Although any bets that she was up till 1am watching Breaking Bad.

No wonder she thinks London life will be better - she’s living in 2013.
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Haha I know I thought this, seems pretty normal?! She wants to try a sleep regression where they’re up every 30 minutes - an hour. Maybe she’d swap and look after Alf then 😂
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She’s had a chat this morning about how Tommy can take more parenting on and all she could say that she does is struggle ‘thinking about milk supply’ and how he can help with that. 🤣 WTAF. You do nothing else!
 

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