Ashley James #34 Really good DJ & really good Mum, constantly leaks out of her mouth & bum

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I think we're all quite baffled that she feels like there's a huge mental load that she's single handedly having to deal with.... she's going to have to employ someone to manage the mental load as the 'littles' get bigger and need ferrying to different groups, parties and appointments (as well as proper school).
If I didn't think Tommy is a total doormat I might feel a little bit sorry for him.
Obviously her 7:30 bedtime (because she had nothing to do / felt sorry for herself) the other night was just so she felt like she could comment in a more authentic way on World Mental Health Day, she's unbelievable!
 
It is SO abnormal that they’ve designated each child to each parent. No mother does this. If you have KIDS you juggle both KIDS. You don’t say ‘hubby does everything ***** related’. It’s actually mental.

She’s taken a massive swipe at Em Clarkson this morning with the PT story. Absolute witch. Empowering women my arse. She ran a half marathon 6 months pp for her mental health and should be applauded but Ashley’s just massively bitter!!
 
If only she had more time to herself guys

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willowtree2 said:
It is SO abnormal that they’ve designated each child to each parent. No mother does this. If you have KIDS you juggle both KIDS. You don’t say ‘hubby does everything ***** related’. It’s actually mental.

She’s taken a massive swipe at Em Clarkson this morning with the PT story. Absolute witch. Empowering women my arse. She ran a half marathon 6 months pp for her mental health and should be applauded but Ashley’s just massively bitter!!
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100% this. We have somehow got our 7month old to go to bed at the same time as our 3 year old, so now we've decided to give the baby a bottle before bed so that I'm free to do bedtime with my eldest too. I cannot imagine not putting my eldest to bed. She tells me the funniest stories and it's such a private and bonding moment at the end of her day. I love it.

Ashley if you're not careful, in 20 years time when you and you many many friends meet up and reminisce about your kids early years, I wonder what cute and funny stories you'll be able to share?
 
willowtree2 said:
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She needs a bit more of a break? She needs less maternal mental load? IS THIS bleep SERIOUS?

I’m done
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She’s literally just said here that Tommy is doing everything for Alf - so he’s expecting to take on more for the second child too?! Whilst she does what exactly?!

It also makes me feel SO ANNOYED when she complains but then throws in “I’m being grateful too” - nah mate being grateful isn’t complaining every single day about ANYTHING parenting related. She is completely fascinating for being such a total c*nt. I wouldn’t normally use that word but she is one.
 
She’s truly insufferable.
I know Instagram is all smoke and mirrors but she seems to lead a charmed life. Easy, stress free job, lots of free time for hobbies, activities and exercise, two beautiful, healthy children and yet she’s still not happy and TNB has to pick up more of the slack. What slack left is there? Grow a pair of tits and feed Ada whilst he simultaneously puts Alf to bed?!
 
InTheDollsHouse said:
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It’s a frightening time. Friends and loved ones are talking about nearby gunfire and explosions. No, they won’t leave. Yes, they’re locked down. Just horrible.
A few weeks ago one of our anti-Ashleys was going for blood test results - I can’t remember your username but remember that you were worried about being called in so quickly. How are you? Is everything okay?
 
I thought the Elvie that she’s an ambassador for was sooo great because you could pump discretely on the go…. So in what world is pumping 2/3 times in the day with said discrete wonderful pump (when both kids are in childcare & she has no actual job) adding SO much mental load that she has to get her partner to take over extra care of the 2nd child in addition to the care of the first and most of the domestic duties.

The irony of posting about children in danger and how we shouldn’t worry about hers when she then goes on to moan about her “mental load” and missing nights out in London.

This woman is awful. And she harks on about how we don’t judge dads the same - erm, we do. Women in hair salons and across restaurant tables and in baby groups the world over moan that men do less childcare and don’t struggle with the same mental load. If my husband didn’t do a fair share of the load (fair looking different to every couple of course depending on circumstances) it would absolutely not be OK.

This isn’t about misogyny, this is about how your an openly tit, resentful, lazy Mum of two children that would do better being raised by someone who actually wanted them for more than the odd sponsored insta reel.
 
A few things.

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1. All do bedtime together is bullshit because she’s always said TNB baths Alf and puts him to bed, and she does Ada.

2. When do she and Alf have one on one time?

3. It is, infact, possible to breastfeed and be with your older child.


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4. How on earth does she know what kind of coat is best for the park (not unless for an ad), or a dog walk (she gave hers away).

5. Is ‘walking the pram’ when you do an ad for a watch with a pram but no child? Taking the pram for a walk?
 
Lol a reel on how to wear coats

Ashley James, the hardest working mother there ever was, take a bow.

‘The idea of this series isn’t to make you buy things’
*Aff links everything*

She’s a joke
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InTheDollsHouse said:
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1. All do bedtime together is bullshit because she’s always said TNB baths Alf and puts him to bed, and she does Ada.

2. When do she and Alf have one on one time?

3. It is, infact, possible to breastfeed and be with your older child.


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4. How on earth does she know what kind of coat is best for the park (not unless for an ad), or a dog walk (she gave hers away).

5. Is ‘walking the pram’ when you do an ad for a watch with a pram but no child? Taking the pram for a walk?
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Walking the pram.. after you’ve dropped your kid to childcare for the day 🤣
 
Autisteuse said:
It’s a frightening time. Friends and loved ones are talking about nearby gunfire and explosions. No, they won’t leave. Yes, they’re locked down. Just horrible.
A few weeks ago one of our anti-Ashleys was going for blood test results - I can’t remember your username but remember that you were worried about being called in so quickly. How are you? Is everything okay?
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@PutConbeforethehearse ❤️
 
She has to be trolling us. It's literally the only explanation. She absolutely cannot be that in-self aware?! I know she can, Jesus Christ.

I usually just have a little chuckle at her stories and move on - but I am *triggered* by her talking about her maternal mental load.

I'm this past two weeks, my husband I and u have barely seen each other or had family time together. We've both had to travel for work, and with no family close to do drop-offs or pick-ups, it's been a juggling act. Coupled with two jobs that apparently don't understand that kids come first. Oh, and our oldest is off sick - so now, as the parent who isn't traveling for work, has to juggle a sick kid, nursery pick ups and drop offs, work deadlines, meetings, client calls... And don't get me started on the state of the house, the washing / ironing pile... Oh, dinners. Lunches. Breakfasts. Planning, cooking, cleaning...

She has ZERO idea of the maternal mental load. As a mother, she has it rather easy. She looks after herself and one of her children.

Urgh, sorry for the rant. She's just really, really fucked me off with her bullshit today.
 
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