Ashley James #3 Alf’s room lit up like Blackpool Illumination. Is she regretting her little creation?

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So Im kind of late to the party … did Ashley used to be a glamour model? Because i looked her up last night as I didnt know she used to date david walliams and some of her photos look like they could be on the front of fhm?
also … I wasnt aware she breastfed alfie? Okay, i jest.
what a beautiful little boy he is, i was appauled at what she said about sometimes’hating’ motherhood.
I think this could be why she clings onto the idea of breastfeeding him … it’s literally the only thing she has to show the insta world she has a bond with him, like he needs her?
Also the video of him playing with her mouth, its a normal part of child development you knob. Im suprised there isnt a paragraph on it in her magical parenting book 🙄
 
crunkysnacks15 said:
So Im kind of late to the party … did Ashley used to be a glamour model? Because i looked her up last night as I didnt know she used to date david walliams and some of her photos look like they could be on the front of fhm?
also … I wasnt aware she breastfed alfie? Okay, i jest.
what a beautiful little boy he is, i was appauled at what she said about sometimes’hating’ motherhood.
I think this could be why she clings onto the idea of breastfeeding him … it’s literally the only thing she has to show the insta world she has a bond with him, like he needs her?
Also the video of him playing with her mouth, its a normal part of child development you knob. Im suprised there isnt a paragraph on it in her magical parenting book 🙄
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Apparently she also dated Frances Boule and Ollie Lock who were also on Made in Chelsea back in the day....but Ollie's now married to someone called Gareth 😳

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Oh yes I remember him! Dont judge me, I was rather young at the time it was a big thing!

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So she decides against going to The Highlands of Scotland for New Year ( why?....travel there was still allowed) but decides to jet off across the globe again on a long haul flight so environmentally conscious with a child who's just recovering from a sickness bug, as are you and your partner ( Noravirus)
I swear to god if she moans once more about feeling overwhelmed with motherhood or the struggles of breastfeeding when her son is perfect capable of using a cup and should now be weaned as he's practically a year old, my eyes will roll back so far I'll be able to see behind me....what she needs to do is focus on getting Alf a routine but she's so shortsighted she just craves adventure and attention for her and blow anyone else
the privilege astounds me....doesn't she realise theres still a pandemic on and most of us have barely been anywhere in last 2 years.....she's unbelievable
 
Cariad said:
So she decides against going to The Highlands of Scotland for New Year ( why?....travel there was still allowed) but decides to jet off across the globe again on a long haul flight so environmentally conscious with a child who's just recovering from a sickness bug, as are you and your partner ( Noravirus)
I swear to god if she moans once more about feeling overwhelmed with motherhood or the struggles of breastfeeding when her son is perfect capable of using a cup and should now be weaned as he's practically a year old, my eyes will roll back so far I'll be able to see behind me....what she needs to do is focus on getting Alf a routine but she's so shortsighted she just craves adventure and attention for her and blow anyone else
the privilege astounds me....doesn't she realise theres still a pandemic on and most of us have barely been anywhere in last 2 years.....she's unbelievable
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Yeh but, it’s all for the ‘gram innit 🙄
 
Cariad said:
So she decides against going to The Highlands of Scotland for New Year ( why?....travel there was still allowed) but decides to jet off across the globe again on a long haul flight so environmentally conscious with a child who's just recovering from a sickness bug, as are you and your partner ( Noravirus)
I swear to god if she moans once more about feeling overwhelmed with motherhood or the struggles of breastfeeding when her son is perfect capable of using a cup and should now be weaned as he's practically a year old, my eyes will roll back so far I'll be able to see behind me....what she needs to do is focus on getting Alf a routine but she's so shortsighted she just craves adventure and attention for her and blow anyone else
the privilege astounds me....doesn't she realise theres still a pandemic on and most of us have barely been anywhere in last 2 years.....she's unbelievable
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not disagreeing with comments about routine etc but continuing to breastfeed past a year is beneficial for various reasons if the mum chooses to so it’s not correct to say Alf ‘should’ be weaned.
 
Found her a 50% okay and relatable up until now, I think she has some serious issues she needs to deal with. Booking a last minute 12 hour flight trip with a baby after you have just been there for 2+ weeks is not normal. She really cannot deal with the reality of her life at home I don’t think!
 
lemonyellowsunshine said:
not disagreeing with comments about routine etc but continuing to breastfeed past a year is beneficial for various reasons if the mum chooses to so it’s not correct to say Alf ‘should’ be weaned.
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I don't disagree...I breastfed all 3 of mine for total of 5 years and fed younger daughter for 21/2 years and while pregnant with son!...however when she's obviously having so many issues and it's affecting her mental health, she maybe needs to reevaluate her choices ...Alf should be still getting sufficient sustenance from meals
 
Primrose2 said:
Found her a 50% okay and relatable up until now, I think she has some serious issues she needs to deal with. Booking a last minute 12 hour flight trip with a baby after you have just been there for 2+ weeks is not normal. She really cannot deal with the reality of her life at home I don’t think!
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I think she’s struggling with the adjustment to mum life and I do feel for her because it’s hard.

Being able to jet off to Mauritius at a moment’s notice is some privilege though. I assumed she’d picked up a last minute deal to Tenerife or something 😂

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I don't disagree...I breastfed all 3 of mine for total of 5 years and fed younger daughter for 21/2 years and while pregnant with son!...however when she's obviously having so many issues and it's affecting her mental health, she maybe needs to reevaluate her choices ...Alf should be still getting sufficient sustenance from meals
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She’s definitely struggling with something! Personally I think should get some professional help (therapy, lactation consultant who also specialises in sleep, etc) before stopping breastfeeding because it would be a shame if she stopped before she really wanted to when actually some other changes could help her keep going in a more manageable way.

Cariad said:
I don't disagree...I breastfed all 3 of mine for total of 5 years and fed younger daughter for 21/2 years and while pregnant with son!...however when she's obviously having so many issues and it's affecting her mental health, she maybe needs to reevaluate her choices ...Alf should be still getting sufficient sustenance from meals
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ps amazing you breastfed for so long including when pregnant!! That’s wonderful! And hard work!!
 
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Primrose2 said:
Found her a 50% okay and relatable up until now, I think she has some serious issues she needs to deal with. Booking a last minute 12 hour flight trip with a baby after you have just been there for 2+ weeks is not normal. She really cannot deal with the reality of her life at home I don’t think!
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I noticed some similar comments on her post calling her out, but she’s gone and deleted them. She can’t hack the fact that people don’t find her genuine anymore
 
The backlash she's getting on her latest posts!...she's so defensive !
it's not just to do with being able to afford to go away at New Year to a swanky resort in Mauritius , ( I could do that if I wanted - but I won't at the moment as I don't fancy sitting in an aluminium tube with hundreds of others when there's omicron about!) it's about travelling during a pandemic, how her son doesn't sleep and how she bangs on about how low she's been feeling but seems to do nothing about it - there's no shame in taking anti depressants or seeing a counsellor
She also mentions about Tommy's paternity leave ending soon ( Alf is 1 in a few days?) would have been much easier for both of them if he'd been in some kind of routine by then rather than her being all over the shop ...but hey she's a free spirit school teachers will love her for that!
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As everyone says - she's so defensive! She's calling her out people for having an opinion on her. But as the first message said, she's so disingenuous & uses motherhood for engagement.

When she was banging on about a last minute holiday, I thought it would be Spain 😂 not a spenny holiday to the other side of the world!
 
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