Ashley James #28 my body is Ada’s home, Alf’s is down the road

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does she say pnd caused her not to bond?
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shes constatnly going on about how hard it is compared to how it would be for a man. then this is her issue to sort out with her man. if her man and her situation is even making her think of this then she needs to hash it out with her partner. no mum or woman should feel like this. and shes right, it happens and its bleeping tit. but if she herself is experiencing this at home then she needs to sort it with him. and its making out her home life and her partner are shitheads "male" sexist and making out her own partner is making her feel this way with how they live.
 
I think there’s a normal part to being ‘jealous’ of your other half going to work, interacting with other adults, going for a wee by themselves and eating lunch/eating lunch with two hands 😂
BUT this isn’t Ashley’s situation. I think this as I leave a toddler crying at nursery or on a day when the juggle is a joke, or simply when you try to make baby group on time but the baby does a poo the second you’re about to leave the house.
She doesn’t do any juggle, she does the minimum for her children and let’s face it, has chosen to be working! She planned Ad and so could have been saving from the moment they were trying and easily would have been able to take a maternity leave!
 
katesbess said:
does she say pnd caused her not to bond?
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shes constatnly going on about how hard it is compared to how it would be for a man. then this is her issue to sort out with her man. if her man and her situation is even making her think of this then she needs to hash it out with her partner. no mum or woman should feel like this. and shes right, it happens and its bleeping tit. but if she herself is experiencing this at home then she needs to sort it with him. and its making out her home life and her partner are shitheads "male" sexist and making out her own partner is making her feel this way with how they live.
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Her partner does everything for her when he's at home, including the sole care of their toddler. And I think the issue with Ashley is, whilst she might admit that she suffered with depression when Alf was a baby, she would never admit this has adversely affected their bond/relationship. I think we might all have a lot more respect for her if she did. Instead she continues to maintain what an amazing bond they've always had, when we can all clearly see this isn't the case. It's going the same way with Ada sadly, once they start to require more than just breastfeeding it's too much effort for her.
 
bumbleebee91 said:
Her partner does everything for her when he's at home, including the sole care of their toddler. And I think the issue with Ashley is, whilst she might admit that she suffered with depression when Alf was a baby, she would never admit this has adversely affected their bond/relationship. I think we might all have a lot more respect for her if she did. Instead she continues to maintain what an amazing bond they've always had, when we can all clearly see this isn't the case. It's going the same way with Ada sadly, once they start to require more than just breastfeeding it's too much effort for her.
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He even puts her pjs out for her when she’s been at ‘work’
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@katesbess

There absolutely is an imbalance in their household, especially with the burden of childcare. Everyone does more than Ashley.

Tommy does the majority while Ash hides in bed.
Tommy’s mum does the nights while Ash gets a full night’s sleep.
The Nanny picks Alf up from the childminder and puts him to bed while his mother chooses to go on GB News instead.

Ash is the main breadwinner though, which she likes to remind everyone!
 
InTheDollsHouse said:
He even puts her pjs out for her when she’s been at ‘work’
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@katesbess

There absolutely is an imbalance in their household, especially with the burden of childcare. Everyone does more than Ashley.

Tommy does the majority while Ash hides in bed.
Tommy’s mum does the nights while Ash gets a full night’s sleep.
The Nanny picks Alf up from the childminder and puts him to bed while his mother chooses to go on GB News instead.

Ash is the main breadwinner though, which she likes to remind everyone!
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I would love to understand how much she actually earns and how she’s the breadwinner when she barely has any deals?!
 
Larahk said:
I'm surprised she even breastfeeds given its bloody hard work! But then again she would LOVE the attention and importance being centred around her tits.
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Oh it definitely is! But I think she just relishes getting them out at every opportunity, absolutely desperate for someone to say something to her so she can use it for publicity and content about how she was 'shamed' for breastfeeding.
 
Raa said:
She would never bottle feed as I doubt she’s ever washed up her dinner plates/cups yet alone wash and sterilise all the bottles numerous times and actually make up the formula
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Does make me laugh though cos she’s all ‘fed is best’ well if that was the case you wouldn’t be bothered about pumping and just try formula in a bottle so she could live her best child free life 🙄
 
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