Ashley James #28 my body is Ada’s home, Alf’s is down the road

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No way she set up a colour sorting game. He’s been at home with the Nanny, or Nana, who’s probably cooking dinner.


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I wonder when the last time she changed Alf’s nappy was. Or did bedtime or bathtime.
Or did anything for him at all to be honest.
it’s so bizarre. I can’t compute not doing these basic things for my child.
She really thinks she’s a first time mum with Ada. It’s like Alf didn’t count.
 
Jjsb said:
I'm sitting here thinking and tbh I can't quite get my head round the fact that it's pretty much likely that she will not be at home tonight with both children, that TNB has gone away and she has farmed Alf off somewhere or has NNB staying to take care of Alf... My brain just cannot compute what an absolute melt she is! I really think I may have to stop following her because she is making my blood pressure boil! She cannot care for both children ALONE!! HOW bleeping INDULDGED SHE IS BY ALL HER ENABLERS! JUST A COMPLETE AND UTTER JOKE OF A MOTHER!
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You troll. Poor Earth mother needs a break from the juggle of attachment parenting. She’s exhausted having to get up at 8:30 every morning with Ada The Actual Angel and Tommy in the doorway dressed in a maids costume holding a bag full of Gails pastries complete with a love letter of how proud he is of her
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ToolaRoola said:
So remember the big deal she made about getting Tommy tickets to see The 1975? Wonder what happened to them as it's this weekend and he's not around.

Ashley James #20 Overcooked baby, undercooked allplants, how many times have we seen her pants?

She didn't do much before being pregnant so not like Tommy notices a difference. You're too tired to do the basics for your son but can cope with friends coming to stay with their children and doing fun things.
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Gone to see them with Ryan Thomas on a dirty weekend away. Filth-eh gets!
 
I’d love to actually sit down and talk to her. Like present her with all these facts of how she simply isn’t a good parent or how she can’t look after both of her own children like 99% of parents just do, and see how she justifies it. How anyone can say the way she goes on is fine and normal is beyond me? Does no one in her actual life pull her up on these things?? Nnb should just say no, parent your children ffs???
 
Gossipgurlll5 said:
I’d love to actually sit down and talk to her. Like present her with all these facts of how she simply isn’t a good parent or how she can’t look after both of her own children like 99% of parents just do, and see how she justifies it. How anyone can say the way she goes on is fine and normal is beyond me? Does no one in her actual life pull her up on these things?? Nnb should just say no, parent your children ffs???
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She seems the type though that would have an answer for absolutely everything and would never back down.
 
Blows my mind with how she says “I taught him” or writes things to ‘prove’ she does do stuff with him. Every other parent (well most) do this stuff every 5mins with their toddler, it isn’t a sit down activity that you do once a week? It reminds me of at nursery where the toddlers have activities all day, but then ‘1-1’ activities they do each week with their key worker where we have to take pictures of it as evidence for their file.
She provides evidence of her engagement with Alf to make herself feel better at the level of neglect she gives him.
Even when I was a live in nanny I wanted to go down (and did) at breakfast time to see my nanny kids and say good morning even on my day off. I would adopt those children in a heartbeat if they needed someone, Ashley doesn’t have the heart in her to care for others to that extent even her own babies.
How can she live with herself lazing in bed without seeing him until he’s been removed from the house?
 
Today was my ‘lie in’ turn as I get up at 6 all week and by 7:30 I couldn’t stop myself getting up to see my little boy as I could hear him going ‘mummy? Mummy sleeping’ outside the door. She probably shoves ear plugs in but Alf is also probably at the point where he’s not bothered about seeing her either. He likely doesn’t even ask for her.
 
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