Ashley James #21 A walking contradiction in crushed velvet

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I get the feeling when she says ‘build baby girl a room’ shes on the beg for some company to come and gift them a new built in fitted bedroom with bed/play area etc especially after her video this morning. She’s such a beggy bleep.
Alf genuinely seems so much happier to see the childminder than he ever does his own mum!
 
I get the feeling when she says ‘build baby girl a room’ shes on the beg for some company to come and gift them a new built in fitted bedroom with bed/play area etc especially after her video this morning. She’s such a beggy bleep.
Alf genuinely seems so much happier to see the childminder than he ever does his own mum!

yeah she's mentioned the fact they need to "build a room" so regularly its 100% a beg job. she did the same about the pram Alf got for "baby girl". weeks before she had said she wanted to get a pram, asked for recommendations, then she definitely said that she HAD got him one and then the gifted one appears on stories
 
yeah she's mentioned the fact they need to "build a room" so regularly its 100% a beg job. she did the same about the pram Alf got for "baby girl". weeks before she had said she wanted to get a pram, asked for recommendations, then she definitely said that she HAD got him one and then the gifted one appears on stories
These influencers repulse me! Actually sickening the amount of free stuff they get when they have more money than most to be able to afford these things. Baby girl doesn’t even need a room ‘building’ she has more than enough room in her £1m home to decorate a nice little nursery for her. She’d rather just spend her money on material items for herself because in Ashley’s world Ashley is the most important and most deserving person 🤢
She couldn’t even fork out for an outfit for Alf for World Book Day, she’s had it gifted from TU which I wouldn’t mind if she’d actually done a decent job of advertising it! She’s just so tit at her job isn’t she?!
 
Not forgetting the unbuttoned jeans and suggestive hand placement. 😅😂🙈
Not for the male gaze though remember
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How long do we give it until the psychological car crash happens? Shes now getting beauty treatments ready for the section 🙄

It’s not going to be like she’s imagining it and she’ll blame people for not telling her how hard it was going to be 😅
 
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The lies in her latest reel -

“especially after loss” - I remember her particularly cold announcement of that chemical pregnancy. She said at the time she didn’t know she was pregnant for more than a day or two and then the loss was so early she wasn’t upset but felt like she should mention it anyway because it is good content to have a miscarriage.

Then “alf woke at 3am for 6 weeks” sorry but that simply did not happen. It was a week maybe and involved an extended frinton stay for him!

“first trimester I was so sick” WAS SHE?! I’m sure we’d have had multiple reels and selfies of her suffering. Instead she went to Cyprus, Italy, Ireland and Reading to DJ whilst people charge their phones. There are photo shoots, day trips and date nights documented throughout this time, and she looks fine. Im sure she had some nausea but not to the extent she’s claiming. “Without the ability to rest” - what I do remember was her MIL coming round often so Ash could nap in the afternoons. She’s full of tit!
 
The lies in her latest reel -

“especially after loss” - I remember her particularly cold announcement of that chemical pregnancy. She said at the time she didn’t know she was pregnant for more than a day or two and then the loss was so early she wasn’t upset but felt like she should mention it anyway because it is good content to have a miscarriage.

Then “alf woke at 3am for 6 weeks” sorry but that simply did not happen. It was a week maybe and involved an extended frinton stay for him!

“first trimester I was so sick” WAS SHE?! I’m sure we’d have had multiple reels and selfies of her suffering. Instead she went to Cyprus, Italy, Ireland and Reading to DJ whilst people charge their phones. There are photo shoots, day trips and date nights documented throughout this time, and she looks fine. Im sure she had some nausea but not to the extent she’s claiming. “Without the ability to rest” - what I do remember was her MIL coming round often so Ash could nap in the afternoons. She’s full of tit!

I don’t believe the sickness either. She said the smell of nappies made her sick so Tommy did all of Alf’s nappies. Of all the things that made her sick… funny that.

I felt sorry for the woman who she was talking to about HG on her podcast. Ash wouldn’t know pregnancy sickness if it slapped her in the face. She certainly wouldn’t have managed a last minute holiday to Cyprus!
 
Her latest story - why are the cuddles with Alf going to be gone?! When I had my second I made sure the eldest got more cuddles if anything.

She really thinks she’s done with Alf now she’s getting her do-over baby. I feel so sorry for him.

I thought this too #pooralf.
Why would you not be able to cuddle your toddler in bed when your new baby arrives.
Poor kid isn’t going to know what’s hit him when ‘baby girl’ arrives and his mother doesn’t want to know him (not that she’s exactly mother of the year now). At least he has N&TNB
 
Her latest story - why are the cuddles with Alf going to be gone?! When I had my second I made sure the eldest got more cuddles if anything.

She really thinks she’s done with Alf now she’s getting her do-over baby. I feel so sorry for him.
To be fair (and I hate saying that about these influencers) I think she means one day he'll be older and not want to cuddle her in bed.
For balance, she's crap at her "job" and I do have no doubt she will be more interest in cuddling the baby rather than him!!
 
'now I just hope I finally get to have my own positive birth story'

Alf was born healthy, you were home the same day and whilst I can't comment on subjective trauma, all her birth notes overall indicate a successful birth.

Can't wait for all the C-section was a dream posts. 'Baby girl was risen from my womb like baby Simba whilst relaxing tunes played from Spotify in the background.'
 
'now I just hope I finally get to have my own positive birth story'

Alf was born healthy, you were home the same day and whilst I can't comment on subjective trauma, all her birth notes overall indicate a successful birth.

Can't wait for all the C-section was a dream posts. 'Baby girl was risen from my womb like baby Simba whilst relaxing tunes played from Spotify in the background.'

The only reason she doesn't see it as a positive birth story is because she didn't have the birth pool, natural, easy labour that she thought she was entitled to. Guess what most of us didn't have that! Most first births are like a car crash but the majority of us get up, put our big girl pants on and look after our helpless newborn babies because that's what being a mother is about.
 
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