Annoying things your work colleagues do all the time? #7

A communal snack area has been setup and the employees are encouraged to bring in and enjoy snacks. I keep seeing this one male coworker reach into the containers with his bare hands to get himself snacks. These are things that are not individually wrapped. Serving implements are provided but apparently he doesn't want to bother using them. And I see him going straight from his office to the snack area so he's not washing his hands before he reaches into the containers. 🤢
I have a lot of dietary restrictions so for the most part I don't eat any of the snacks, but I feel bad for my poor coworkers who have no idea this guy is being so unsanitary. That's just gross.
 
Does anyone have any tips / things you wish you knew about sexual harassment / gender discrimination before a grievance meeting? (Hoping to get a settlement so that it avoids tribunal.) I’m trying not to make any mistakes.

I thought it was quite a simple complaint (1st incident when I’d been there only 2 weeks, 2nd incident when I’d been there 6 weeks). Reported informally at the time, waited til probation was over then immediately formally reported. Its been slow 3 months for them to collect the relevant info…

Sounds like one for ACAS support potentially?

Think the main thing is to keep it all factual and have good notes of dates, times, places, any witnesses etc.
 
We have two kitchens and two sets of rest rooms in our office - one is for staff, the other for clients, and they're on different floors (meaning you can't exactly use the client one by mistake). Everyone is aware of the rules - no staff using the upstairs facilities under any circumstances.

I had an important presentation this morning and what do you know ... the power tripper accounting guy was using the client rest room to get changed after biking in, just as one of my clients went to use it (he left the door open). Furthermore, we had some breakfast pastries delivered to the client kitchen to serve to our clients, and a couple of people took upon themselves to take a few things before we even had a chance to put them out. The thieves even left the plastic wrapping peeled back. Nobody would admit to taking them, which I was furious about in principle; in talking to the office manager (who went through the CCTV), it turned out to be the same accounting guy and receptionist! If he lies about something like that, what else is he lying about? Very poor form from an account, I would've thought.

It might sound petty to some people but it's made me furious. There wasn't enough food for my clients (including nothing at all for my gluten-free client), and the rest room was in a state by the time this head had finished. If we sign this client it will be in our top five for this year, so it's a big deal. The office manager agreed with me and said she'd be taking action.

I ended up taking my clients out for breakfast and they seemed happy enough when we parted, but still ... not a good look, and I feel like I work with untrustworthy people. I also feel a bit bad about making a big thing of it ... but it is a big thing in the scheme of things.
 
It might sound petty to some people but it's made me furious. There wasn't enough food for my clients (including nothing at all for my gluten-free client), and the rest room was in a state by the time this head had finished. If we sign this client it will be in our top five for this year, so it's a big deal. The office manager agreed with me and said she'd be taking action.


I share the celiac rage. It's happened to me too many times - beats me why when the majority of it tastes like tit with sugar on top.



Today's irritation:

Amongst the million and one other things I do, I have a number of tasks which only I do, only I can do and only I have the experience, knowledge and ability to do within the legal timescales and framework. I have a slot leading up to Christmas which I've chiseled out in order to get a specific 'project' completed, analysed and presented for approval. Last year, this was ignored and despite the New Year seeing a massive conflation of multiple deadlines, it was not approved until I practically had a tantrum on the due date (well, two days before the due date, but I wasn't telling them that, was I?).


New manager: Oh, I'll do that and report back to you with the outcome as I'm your manager and only managers should present. Too busy now, it'll have to wait until after Christmas, but don't worry, I've got your back and will make sure you don't have to do it.


Why? I wasn't asking for somebody to rescue me and protect me from the big, scary bosses (they're not), I wasn't asking for advice or permission, I was informing them of what I'm doing because now I actually have a manager, it makes sense that I should probably give them a vague idea of what I'm doing and why I am not available for a bunch of other non-time critical things. And it's not like I haven't completed this task brilliantly every single year all by myself without being 'managed' so far. We just don't need this additional layer of management, especially when they aren't a specialist in this.


I snuck in under the metaphorical barbed wire and arranged everything to suit me with the big boss instead. I didn't mention that my motivation in getting it done early was so I can do as little as possible for a couple of days before I go on leave (and actually take all the time off instead of working it), along with not wanting to work quite so hard when I come back in January for all the other deadlines and tasks that didn't have to fall due at exactly the same time.

Haven't told my manager yet and they're not in until next week now. I'm definitely not mentioning that I'm also going to use the time to try and get some authority back over bits took off me last year and were consequently completely fucked up - not in a 'stitch up my manager' way at all, in an 'I'm the expert and I want to make sure everything is perfect just like when I had control over all of the process' way.
 
Not my colleagues but the powers at head office. Not saying who I work for, but we have been putting up Christmas decorations for all the yearsi have been there. I used to be mobile and every branch I worked at has decorated for Christmas! A company wide email was received yesterday stating all Christmas decorations should be removed with immediate effect!! So 2 weeks before Christmas we were removing decorations! Bar humbug!! We have lost so much, christmas gift in December pay,.Christmas shopping day off, early finish Christmas Eve day, boxing day off, we have lost all that and now they have banned Christmas decorations.

Not a good look when 2 weeks before Christmas you are taking down decorations in frount of customers.
 
Not my colleagues but the powers at head office. Not saying who I work for, but we have been putting up Christmas decorations for all the yearsi have been there. I used to be mobile and every branch I worked at has decorated for Christmas! A company wide email was received yesterday stating all Christmas decorations should be removed with immediate effect!! So 2 weeks before Christmas we were removing decorations! Bar humbug!! We have lost so much, christmas gift in December pay,.Christmas shopping day off, early finish Christmas Eve day, boxing day off, we have lost all that and now they have banned Christmas decorations.

Not a good look when 2 weeks before Christmas you are taking down decorations in frount of customers.
How odd 😪 but it's a sign of the times.

I went to the office today and there's no Christmas tree or any decorations up. You wouldn't think anything was happening at all.
We usually have a tree but it seems the lack of tree this year is part of the cutbacks.
Nobody is happy because we know there's redundancies coming.
 
Another chaotic day. When I eventually left, I came out at the same time as someone from management who was clearly crying, so that must have been a tit meeting. I have the feeling that had anybody mentioned it in advance, I could definitely have provided some stuff that would have helped it be slightly less awful, but nobody ever does.
 
Everyone at the minute is snappy and unpleasant to be around the tension and mood as soon as you step into the shop is horrendous management are getting worse with getting rid of people for ridiculous reasons.
 
The coworker who wants to have a Zoom call for anything and everything.
I have such a colleague. She also NEVER bookmarks useful (regularly needed) web links, and at least once a week she'll message me asking for the links... and every time I say don't forget to bookmark it. I can't really ignore her but it's getting ridiculous. I've even watched her bookmark the links in the past. She just can't be arsed to scroll through her bookmarks. This may have just happened again 5 minutes ago, ahahaha.
 
Couldn't hold back the snark for one person demanding 'data' on something that's their responsibility.

Here's what I've sent you multiple times, here's the email confirming that it is your responsibility to plan and collect this data, here's the one where you did this task for the last two years so it shouldn't be a surprise to you that you've got to do it this year, do let me know if you need somebody with a bleeping braincell to point out the whole three cell values that you need that I already put in luminous bleeping yellow so you could see them in a row of five values.

Obviously worded in a work appropriate manner. And obviously replying to all they'd copied in to the rambling demand so they can see I'm being extremely helpful in my response.
 
This same guy who has asked me for the exact same document FOUR times. I already told him three times I don't have access to that document. Maybe he thinks if he keeps asking every week something will magically change???
I attached the three previous emails where he asked me and I said I can't access it.
Anyone want to bet he'll ask me again next week while I'm out for the holidays?
 
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