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I think these stingy men are identifiable before a date, after all they don’t want to be caught out & have to pay for a date or go somewhere they don’t want to afford.
I have a very attractive friend who dates these types & then complains.
its clear they are not on her level BEFORE she meets them. So why does she go on dates that set herself back emotionally?
because she wants to resolve her inner conflict. She wants to tell herself “I am doing what I can”/ I need to get married and have kids.
Me - I would be happy reading a book then attend a consolation prize date. Until we stop entertaining unworthy men they won’t change.
I would feel very resentful if I ended up with a 50/50 guy (on dinners etc). I like the man to behave like A man. There is a reason that when you go to a restaurant like Scott’s the waiter will always bring the bill to the man. I never see a 50/50 in there.
on big things like a mortgage 50/50 is ok and protects the woman down the line.
Anna cannot help us on these things, they are practical issues which we need to suss our early with men.
I have a very attractive friend who dates these types & then complains.
its clear they are not on her level BEFORE she meets them. So why does she go on dates that set herself back emotionally?
because she wants to resolve her inner conflict. She wants to tell herself “I am doing what I can”/ I need to get married and have kids.
Me - I would be happy reading a book then attend a consolation prize date. Until we stop entertaining unworthy men they won’t change.
I would feel very resentful if I ended up with a 50/50 guy (on dinners etc). I like the man to behave like A man. There is a reason that when you go to a restaurant like Scott’s the waiter will always bring the bill to the man. I never see a 50/50 in there.
on big things like a mortgage 50/50 is ok and protects the woman down the line.
Anna cannot help us on these things, they are practical issues which we need to suss our early with men.
Thank you for sharing her storytellings. I have read everything that you have shared and came to the conclusion, that she sucks even at storytelling, has no fantasy whatsoever. Her storytellings sound like she is 3 years old “ my dear elegant kindergarten friends, yesterday I was visiting my grandma, she cooked a lot of food, but i wasn’t sure if i should eat it, because of my feminine energy and the desire to be with an affluent man, so told her grandma please STOP making me fat because i won’t fit anymore in an XS and this affluent baby in my kindergarten group will find me unattractive and then she said OK Plain Aija, you are right, keep on leveling up my sweet, fat, elegant granddaughter”.Happy Sunday!!
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Hey Ladies!
I jetted off to Asia.
Over there, I met a wealthy man who showed me how a real man looks after his lady. Financially, materially, somehow also emotionally. At the same time I was learning exactly how that worked. The art of being provided for.
I have not worked a job since — I work for myself, but that’s different.
It was only after I’d come back to London, that I understood going to Asia was — once again — attempting to escape from myself. I had been inspired to have my own “Eat, Pray, Love”, journey but that didn’t happen. Instead I found I was losing myself.
All the spiritual seeking things I was trying were great, but they really didn’t transform me. There were so many issues that were sabotaging me and the success I wanted for myself.
Yes, I was leveling up.
Yes, I was more beautiful and my lifestyle had changed.
Yes, I had access to free flowing finances, without having to work a job.
And yes I’d surrounded myself with great people… and great network... I was doing well.
But.
Pieces were missing.
And what was missing was a huge pain point for me. The relationship I was really looking for — my happily ever after — was the only thing I’d yet to find.
The men I was dating were wealthy, generous, and kind. They wanted to provide and have relationships with me, but long term… I was the one who wanted more.
I was struggling and I needed help.
The next step in my journey was unexpected, but incredibly needed… therapy.
This decision changed everything for me.
Therapy was hard, but incredibly significant for me. It’s still one of the hardest things I’ve ever done in my life. There are an infinite amount of layers you get to work through. Each one revealing new levels of peace and harmony for you, which is why, my therapy continues to this day.
It may be difficult for you to imagine, but the first 10 months of therapy, I felt like nothing was happening. It was brutal. Things weren’t getting better… as a matter of fact, it often felt like they were getting worse. Chaos ruled… my life, and my emotions.
Breaking down the defense mechanisms I’d built up over a lifetime — and reconnecting all the bits and pieces from my childhood — was almost too much to take.
But I did it. 10 months of torture and then? I received my first breakthrough. Finally, I was able to see the progress I was making (and had made). Hope filled me and I knew I could move forward.
I was becoming emotionally healthier, no longer feeling like I needed to run away, and within a few months of this breakthrough, I met my current partner.
The work I’d done had opened me up to myself and from that place I was able to open up to someone who’s become incredibly special to me.
I know for a fact, that if I’d met him before therapy… or before my breakthrough… it never would have worked out.
Here’s the biggest lesson I learned though—Yes, I was more beautiful physically, and more gracious and kind— but up until then, I hadn’t learned how to be beautiful, gracious, or kind to myself.
I was the last lesson. Reconnecting the missing bits and pieces of me had made all the difference in the world.
Therapy is both hard and wonderful, but something no Jetset Babe can go without.
Have you seen a therapist?
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Hey, I actually like this reply! Better than those in Anna's last youtube vid!
I'll certainly tease the dusty ones with this.I took up this mission to make dusty men feel miserable, maybe even teach them a lesson.
SchoolOfAffluenceIsAScam
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Fake leather = plastic.Of course, now she says Zara. Trying to be relatable? Are you insulting your own intelligence? But I thought you said you’d never stop these stores, dear Anna. As for yourfatflat bottom, how could we forget.... xs....
It would be the same if she wore a plastic bag...
This really is bad! I think I subscribed once to her site and I am receiving her newsletters now and then. One of them said that she was looking for writers to help her with her blog posts/ whatever.
Maybe she 'hired' someone who asked for the minimum (there is this site with ppl who write for 5$) or even for free, we know that she is cheap and greedy. The post doesn't seem her style, it is that bad! Not elegant at all.
First photo: Wasn’t she the ambassador of “next guy” or as she said “new guy helps you forget the old guy” or something like this. Second photo: Why are you expecting to see Sun 24/7 in bleeping autumn, almost winter, you stupid illiterate witch? Gosh, this stupidity makes me mad. All the things that she wrote in the second photo are pure stupidity. Shops work till 7, because that’s called a “HEALTHY WORKING SYSTEM” dumbhead! But what does an escort know! Get ready for a 20K course, because Geneva is overpriced and clearly she can’t afford living in there, with a middle class income!
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itsverynice
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Now if that doesn't sound like a confession of a confused sugar baby, I don't know what else does. At this point, I have a hunch that some of the students are so naive that even if AB told them exact details (not leaving out the dark parts that messed her up so much) of supporting herself with free-flowing money, or entering elite society, as she says, those followers would still follow and fight for her.
Birdseed2
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Personally I think Louise Lawrence is writing all these. Sounds like her holier and smarter than thou vibe .. lols. Or... (sorry to bring politics here but) whoever is writing this can rival Kayleigh M press secretary for spinning gold from BS. (Not a compliment)
JoannaG
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Ladies,
Tinder is a Sex app! Nothing more nothing less... you might find a quality guy after extensive swiping... BUT since they have a profile there they are in a phase of meaningless sex and playing with multiple women. If you are in the same phase fine, but if not, why are you using this app?
Even if you start a relationship there, he most probably keep being active swiping left and right cause this app is like an addiction, always looking for something new and better...
Also if you caught yourself justifying a guy... you are in serious sh*t cause you are not being true to yourself.
And of course are men who are trying to marry-up... no shame on them too...their choice, just don't date them!
First date for me is non negotiable he has to pay. But we have to be true to ourselves. Are you pretty, smart, funny, witty, elegHant,kind, well-off, educated, sensual, with manners, with hobbies, lucky enough and practicing amazing sex to demand being treated like a princess? Anna has to explain this to her students. Cause many of them from what I see in the private group photos are in square one! Basic, no luxurious looking, clothing is bad, hair is bad and they dare to post online pictures of themselves asking for fashion advice!! And one is applauding the other! It's exactly what someone mentioned earlier here: Blind leads the blind.
So that is the proof that the "School of Affluence" does nothing (good) for them. It might harm them cause they create an entitled mentality... and might end up alone in life. Now I totally agree that men should provide and treat women well♥ But the eleghant students have to think: why an affluent guy choose YOU? If you were this guy would you date YOU? Most of her students have a long way to walk before they can start demanding from their dream man. I believe they should start dating equals even 50/50, improve, learn and move gradually upwards.
My guess is:
Out of the 2000 members of the group maybe 100 have portential, out of them maybe 70 reach their potential in terms of appearance, manners, education etc, out of them maybe 40 meet an actual affluent man, 20 or less of them might achieve to get in relationship with them, out of them I would say 1-2 might get married with a rich...? And I believe they would have achieved the same result that without the SOA.
Am I too harsh?
Sometimes a man can fall for you despite your non elevated-self but it is more difficult for them to recognize an "uncut diamond" and usually go for the shiny ones...
This "black widow" cover-up matches her tarantula eyelashes maybe save it for the next Halloween
Tinder is a Sex app! Nothing more nothing less... you might find a quality guy after extensive swiping... BUT since they have a profile there they are in a phase of meaningless sex and playing with multiple women. If you are in the same phase fine, but if not, why are you using this app?
Even if you start a relationship there, he most probably keep being active swiping left and right cause this app is like an addiction, always looking for something new and better...
Also if you caught yourself justifying a guy... you are in serious sh*t cause you are not being true to yourself.
And of course are men who are trying to marry-up... no shame on them too...their choice, just don't date them!
First date for me is non negotiable he has to pay. But we have to be true to ourselves. Are you pretty, smart, funny, witty, elegHant,kind, well-off, educated, sensual, with manners, with hobbies, lucky enough and practicing amazing sex to demand being treated like a princess? Anna has to explain this to her students. Cause many of them from what I see in the private group photos are in square one! Basic, no luxurious looking, clothing is bad, hair is bad and they dare to post online pictures of themselves asking for fashion advice!! And one is applauding the other! It's exactly what someone mentioned earlier here: Blind leads the blind.
So that is the proof that the "School of Affluence" does nothing (good) for them. It might harm them cause they create an entitled mentality... and might end up alone in life. Now I totally agree that men should provide and treat women well♥ But the eleghant students have to think: why an affluent guy choose YOU? If you were this guy would you date YOU? Most of her students have a long way to walk before they can start demanding from their dream man. I believe they should start dating equals even 50/50, improve, learn and move gradually upwards.
My guess is:
Out of the 2000 members of the group maybe 100 have portential, out of them maybe 70 reach their potential in terms of appearance, manners, education etc, out of them maybe 40 meet an actual affluent man, 20 or less of them might achieve to get in relationship with them, out of them I would say 1-2 might get married with a rich...? And I believe they would have achieved the same result that without the SOA.
Am I too harsh?
Sometimes a man can fall for you despite your non elevated-self but it is more difficult for them to recognize an "uncut diamond" and usually go for the shiny ones...This "black widow" cover-up matches her tarantula eyelashes maybe save it for the next Halloween
KittenClaws
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Being ‘classically attractive’ (no need to photoshop/catfish/strategically crop photos), multiple degrees at a young age, athletic build, charitable background, and a good/clean reputation. Consistent community and volunteer work since the age of 10. Being socially confident but pleasant without having to flirt or stroke egos may have been it lol. Desperation can be smelled a mile away!
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laurensanchez
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So classy, a toilet shot. And talking about her flat bum.
Anyone think that question about Geneva was so random? I predict she's going to hop to a cheaper country soon. Just keep paying dear elegant mangoes, your leader needs the little coins to maintain her lifestyle.
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A lot of the dating gurus I’m very skeptical of, as they themselves tend to either be single, not in a perfect relationship, or not secured the bag yet like Anna. They also don’t know the minutiae of your relationship. I’ve never fed into “do this, don’t do that”, and would rather just follow my own intuition on men.
I’ve had men be super generous and splash the cash on me from the very first moment they met me, but they are either creepy into me to the point of stalkerish, or just straight up dicks. They could give me all their money and I still wouldn’t be interested.
I’ve had the most success with guys who want to split the bill on the first few dates, but then had given it back ten times more by being super generous and also financially supporting me throughout the rest of the relationship. Maybe it’s the kind of field I’ve met these guys in, but they tend to back away from women who expect everything from the very beginning, and almost want to see that I like them for them, and not just their status.
For me personally, I’m not too strict with dismissing men as cheap just because they want to split the bill at first. I know for other women this would be a complete deal breaker, but for me, it always seems to work out and they tend to be really good quality guys, and I would be automatically disregarding lots of them by doing so. This tends to occur when they are actual quality date ideas, and not just someone suggesting going round to theirs or going to a cheap place, though.
I’ve had men be super generous and splash the cash on me from the very first moment they met me, but they are either creepy into me to the point of stalkerish, or just straight up dicks. They could give me all their money and I still wouldn’t be interested.
I’ve had the most success with guys who want to split the bill on the first few dates, but then had given it back ten times more by being super generous and also financially supporting me throughout the rest of the relationship. Maybe it’s the kind of field I’ve met these guys in, but they tend to back away from women who expect everything from the very beginning, and almost want to see that I like them for them, and not just their status.
For me personally, I’m not too strict with dismissing men as cheap just because they want to split the bill at first. I know for other women this would be a complete deal breaker, but for me, it always seems to work out and they tend to be really good quality guys, and I would be automatically disregarding lots of them by doing so. This tends to occur when they are actual quality date ideas, and not just someone suggesting going round to theirs or going to a cheap place, though.
I don't use tinder, just inner circle, thought it would be for more quality men.
I work out religiously and am very passionate about skincare, so I'd say at 33 yo, people think I am about 25-26. I have a career, good manners, elegance and all of the above. As I said, haven't been so much on the dating scene because I literally do not have time with my schedule, but have noticed what I said. I don't think that HV men are so easy to find. So I focused more on my development (professionally, physically, spirituality) and less on dating.
I see in my line of work, though, working for a corporation. Global CEO (who is actually very good looking) married a "plain Jane", none of the wives of the top management is attractive. Maybe they were when they were younger - I don't know, but now it is not the case (sorry, not to be rude). Women make this mistake to believe that beauty gets you everywhere but this is not true, especially these days when men are so materialistic.
I work out religiously and am very passionate about skincare, so I'd say at 33 yo, people think I am about 25-26. I have a career, good manners, elegance and all of the above. As I said, haven't been so much on the dating scene because I literally do not have time with my schedule, but have noticed what I said. I don't think that HV men are so easy to find. So I focused more on my development (professionally, physically, spirituality) and less on dating.
I see in my line of work, though, working for a corporation. Global CEO (who is actually very good looking) married a "plain Jane", none of the wives of the top management is attractive. Maybe they were when they were younger - I don't know, but now it is not the case (sorry, not to be rude). Women make this mistake to believe that beauty gets you everywhere but this is not true, especially these days when men are so materialistic.
Crazy_chick
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I wonder how to do it elegantly though 
This is true. CEOs need a plain wife/good family image particularly if they are in certain industries. Unfortunately these men will (and do) have affairs because the plain woman serves a function & they need someone else sexually & sometimes emotionally.
the CEO is highly unattainable - yet there are lots of wealthy guys who have made their money in an IT job & other small business/properties on the side. These are the less confident guys.
JoannaG
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I thought the same, is she moving?
Also she states that Geneva is overpriced for the quality you get. Anna the affluent attitude is : "Take my money" you don't even look at the price tags! Aren't you part of that group?
That is true, mostly entrepreneurs I see with attractive women. Those involved in various shady things prefer also bimbos/ former escorts.
But in corporations, haven't seen stunning women. OK, you can see they are wealthy, they have status, but they are not slim, don't work out, look old, they are not classy...
RagazzaSi
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Hi Dear!
Fellow skincare fanatic here
I am a little older than you and I am curious about your routine. I will share roughly mine and if you'd like to share roughly yours I would be interested to read it. Of course, don't feel obliged
Daily care:
Used the set SK-II RNA for past few years, though just last days I switched to Biotherm Red Algae Uplift. The reason is that I don't know if I am not overpaying for SK-II and want to try Biotherm and see if it's making difference.
Weekly:
I do regular exfoliation with enzymatic peelings, have also ultrasound sort of spatula, Radio Frequency device for home use which I use now and then.
Apart from this, I do the algae masks with serums under - usually Hyaluronic Acid; I also like the Kobe brand for face sheet collagen mask. Also, do the peels but on low grades as my skin is quite thin and pale and get issues with discoloration easily. I wish to find a good sun-screen - they usually clog my skin and make it look bad within days and even SPF 50 didn't prevent some light discoloration.
Quarterly or Bi-Annually:
Mesotherapy with Hyaluronic Acid, alternated with micro-needling. I tried the BB but wasn't really much to see there and it felt kind of yucky
I also do some fillers now and then, botox once a year - just for the forehead to prevent wrinkles forming from squinting eyes. Right now I am taking a break from fillers as I learned that they actually do accumulate in your body and I am thinking of starting the PDA thread lift. Had this microneedle RF lift done once- but I feel it was too aggressive for me.Supplement and Diet:
I use powdered collagen (Verisol) and make often broths. I try to consistently take Vit-C, Zink supplements, vit B complex, but somehow forget it. Otherwise, normal diet - we have a dietitian making plans for family as my husband is older than me and want to keep him for a long time. Funny story related to that - once at a party I had been hanging with one lady - in a way she felt casual with me and started to rant how awful it is that I have a husband that is so much older than me, as I could have been her daughter. I told her I am twice the age of her daughter who was 18. LOL, I definitely don't look that young, but maybe Aija should teach you how to look older so you fit into high society haha!
SchoolOfAffluenceIsAScam
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For anybody getting into skincare, more of an active ingredient doesn't always mean better. You need it in the right concentration for you.
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