You have the answer in this sentence you wrote. Then just don’t allow it. Anna’s stupid tips or “school” is not going to change men. Men do what you allow them to do. That’s it, now please send me 1K via paypalBut men have become so cheap because women allow this behaviour
Or something like "not everything that shines/glitter is gold" or "hm, the golddiggers you've meet so far must be blind or have heavy vision impairment (because I only see fools gold)"
If a guy is so obvious to try and test you or some one else I would not pursue further because that’s just plain rude not to mention extremely entitled. If a man suspect some one to dig gold he can just split the bill then go home and complain to his friends. No need to humiliate someone to their face. Very rude.
These are all very heterocentric. I need to learn how to find myself a rich lesbian!
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Speaking about dusty men, now with the pandemic is getting much worse. I am on inner circle and few men actually are just inviting to their places for wine, one said I have an amazing terrace... as if I cared about his stupid terrace. I actually made a scene and reported them but nothing happened. The sad thing is that many women accept this, that's why men became that dusty. I don't understand because I don't think that I look low maintenance so I'd think men could try a different approach, but they still try...
We all should make our own group and empower women, if Anna goes down.
I have to say that your stories are so funny. I haven't been so much on the dating scene.
Haha I was so angry that an online site scammed me after ordering some chemical peels and never received them.You have the answer in this sentence you wrote. Then just don’t allow it. Anna’s stupid tips or “school” is not going to change men. Men do what you allow them to do. That’s it, now please send me 1K via paypal
( and it was, obviously, a significantly smaller amount. But I felt so stupid.Then why you didn’t tell him directly that you don’t care about nice terraces ? See, the thing is that women are mostly silent about things that bother them, but then blame men. I have worked once with an asshole boss he was an asshole to the whole team, when I started working there from day one i was talking to him in the same way he talked to me, some colleagues were surprised how he was so different with me and even took it personally, in the sense like he was “liking” me more. I just told them just talk in the same way he talks to you, men should be put in their place just like babies. Also men are pussies, they get scared easily, if you tell him that you don’t like what he said or did and call him out on his behavior I’ll guarantee you that most probably he won’t do it again, if yes then he has other mental issues. Anna is not the solution to this, you are your own solution.Speaking about dusty men, now with the pandemic is getting much worse. I am on inner circle and few men actually are just inviting to their places for wine, one said I have an amazing terrace... as if I cared about his stupid terrace. I actually made a scene and reported them but nothing happened. The sad thing is that many women accept this, that's why men became that dusty. I don't understand because I don't think that I look low maintenance so I'd think men could try a different approach, but they still try...
We all should make our own group and empower women, if Anna goes down.
I have to say that your stories are so funny. I haven't been so much on the dating scene.
I don't get it either, but I think many women accept, otherwise they wouldn't still have this low "strategy". They also have a good vocabulary, seemed smart and they still are paisants at heart.
She will most likely just include the information in a new course now selling for 3000$ but worth 3000000$
Oh, but rest assured that my reaction was not very elegant. Well, I did stay calm on the outside, but told him the worst things, cheap womaniser being the nicest one.
I wasn't even interested to give a second chance, immediately reported them. I really do not have time to waste and no intentions to act like a lady with them.It is true and I think it became more like tinder (i don't use tinder but I can imagine that, from the "wine" invitations).
it depends a lot on the country and culture, but men became super stingy, especially if they are good looking and young.
Yes, I completely agree. What actually attracted me to Aija, apart from fashion tips, was her speaking openly about the unfair dating scene nowadays, stingy men etc. She may be taking it crass, but I do agree with the general idea and I guess I haven't see anyone on Youtube speaking about it so openly and expressing things that also I myself was feeling. I think I mentioned earlier on this thread that I have been burnt out by the modern dating culture. But it's prevalent because women allow it, that I find the most disturbing part. I work on raising my standards and communicating them freely. And I've noticed that men do step up their game if you show that you're not okay with something.
I totally agree with you, that was my point too. I liked that she opened that 'niche' and more women should be 'educated' to step up/ level up/ be more demanding/ you name it and not accept dusty men with a lousy behaviour just because they are desperate and afraid to be lonely.
