Zoe Sugg #67 Boring and beige, will never be a Deyes.

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Missclassy19 said:
Sean is really following in Alfie’s footsteps. Are they engaged/married?
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somehow i think sean and alfie see marriage much bigger commitment than having actual kids.
but they wouldnt be the first nor the last man who think like that.


there was this tiktok i saw a while ago where a girl was trying to make her man buy a $68 wedding ring, 3 children deep.
he went: when I find the right one -- (somewhere along those lines)

if a man refuses to agree with you on something like this, just walk away, better yet, run.
 
Missclassy19 said:
Sean is really following in Alfie’s footsteps. Are they engaged/married?
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And Joe is the same as well I reckon, been with Dianne for what like 7 years and still not a hint.
Personally I wouldn’t have a baby with someone who wasn’t putting a ring on it lol call me old fashioned and I know that’s not a popular opinion here. Maybe both poppy and alfie have, because of their parents, less of a need for marriage because didn’t their parents marry late?
 
They said they were going somewhere special in the last vlogs.. and that's where they are now as Poppy showed, do we think they booked a trip specially to film poppys announcement video?! 🤦🏻‍♀️
 
Roses1123 said:
Did anyone notice in one of Alfie’s vlogs (the one where they made pizza in the garden…how original) that Poppy wasn’t featured a lot and when she was, she was hid behind by a plant in the kitchen. Alfie mentioned Poppy had something to tell everyone…she looked so shocked. He then said oh your YouTube channel 🙄 probably trying to freak her out that he was going to leak the pregnancy news…wouldn’t put it past him tbh
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Good catch! I also think her reaction, that pure shock, shows he really thought he was going to say it too, which I think speaks a lot about what she thinks he’s capable of, and probably sheds his true colours a bit
 
I don't put much importance on marriage either and can totally understand waiting years into a relationship before taking that step, it just doesn't matter that much to me. But Zoe cleeeearly wanted to get married YEARS ago. She was short of begging for him to put a ring on her. So I never understood why Alfie didn't take that step, unless he just didn't wanted to get married. 🤷‍♀️ It's cool if both parties are fine with waiting, are fine with eventually someday getting to it, but there was clearly someone in that relationship who it very much mattered to
 
lottiekarotti said:
I don't put much importance on marriage either and can totally understand waiting years into a relationship before taking that step, it just doesn't matter that much to me. But Zoe cleeeearly wanted to get married YEARS ago. She was short of begging for him to put a ring on her. So I never understood why Alfie didn't take that step, unless he just didn't wanted to get married. 🤷‍♀️ It's cool if both parties are fine with waiting, are fine with eventually someday getting to it, but there was clearly someone in that relationship who it very much mattered to
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I’d nit combine assets and get into huge financial obligations with anyone who can just walk away and/or god forbid anything happened and my partner’s family can just take over and dictate things…
Even if she is on good terms with his family, imagine if anything happened to him and she wasn’t in charge while they have two kids together.
 
lottiekarotti said:
I don't put much importance on marriage either and can totally understand waiting years into a relationship before taking that step, it just doesn't matter that much to me. But Zoe cleeeearly wanted to get married YEARS ago. She was short of begging for him to put a ring on her. So I never understood why Alfie didn't take that step, unless he just didn't wanted to get married. 🤷‍♀️ It's cool if both parties are fine with waiting, are fine with eventually someday getting to it, but there was clearly someone in that relationship who it very much mattered to
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I'm the same. Been with my bf 7 years and not engaged yet and we're expecting our first child. Tbh we probably would have got engaged in the past year of we could afford to but even a small wedding is out of budget. Whereas I think most of my friends got married within a couple of years.
 
Super_Berry said:
I'm the same. Been with my bf 7 years and not engaged yet and we're expecting our first child. Tbh we probably would have got engaged in the past year of we could afford to but even a small wedding is out of budget. Whereas I think most of my friends got married within a couple of years.
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Same, we put a mortgage above a wedding and now we have 2 kids and that wedding won't be happening for years. Just the way it is now, if you want to get married fine but also if people are happy unmarried... also fine.

Zoe desperately wants to be married though 😂 she's deffo taking the Deyes name
 
Fuzzyslippers22 said:
Same, we put a mortgage above a wedding and now we have 2 kids and that wedding won't be happening for years. Just the way it is now, if you want to get married fine but also if people are happy unmarried... also fine.

Zoe desperately wants to be married though 😂 she's deffo taking the Deyes name
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yah if both are okay with it, so be it let them do them. My parents were very similar to Alfies, they got engaged before they had me but financially getting a house was more priority than a wedding. Then I came along and they got settled in careers and such. A wedding was never really important, though my mom did know if they did get married that my dad would probably like if she took his last name. Well her name meant a lot in her career, so once she retired kind of on a whim asked him if he still wanted to and they had a tiny wedding with only me in attendance. That really pissed off a lot of family 😆

Personally a wedding isn’t an important thing to me - could be from watching them, could be that I’m not religious (also like them), who knows. If I had a partner that had their heart set on it I’d probably be okay with something small (definitely not okay with something that costs tens of thousands of dollars), though I wouldn’t change my name. I like my name, and my name is also a big thing in my career it’s on publications and part of my reputation.
 
fair enough for us regular people if a wedding has to take a back seat to financial pressures like kids and owning a home but these two don't have that reality. they bought a home together in their early 20s, adopted a dog, started a company, hired employees, bought and renovated commercial buildings, built a custom 'forever' home, bought cars, expensive gifts, integrated their families, had 2 children, and have gone on endless holidays and thrown elaborate parties for one another. but a wedding is too much commitment? too much work? they don't have the time? zoe's baby shower alone looked like a luxe backyard wedding. they have been as good as married for 10 years with all the financial commitments they're tied in together but people like alfie have some weird mental block around the idea of marriage and a wedding to formalize what's already been happening.
 
mg95 said:
fair enough for us regular people if a wedding has to take a back seat to financial pressures like kids and owning a home but these two don't have that reality. they bought a home together in their early 20s, adopted a dog, started a company, hired employees, bought and renovated commercial buildings, built a custom 'forever' home, bought cars, expensive gifts, integrated their families, had 2 children, and have gone on endless holidays and thrown elaborate parties for one another. but a wedding is too much commitment? too much work? they don't have the time? zoe's baby shower alone looked like a luxe backyard wedding. they have been as good as married for 10 years with all the financial commitments they're tied in together but people like alfie have some weird mental block around the idea of marriage and a wedding to formalize what's already been happening.
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I think it's more to do with them both having this weird desire to recreate their childhood. Obviously Zoe's parents are divorced but Alfie regularly mentions that his parents only got married when he and Poppy were teenagers so I think that's why he's also wanted his kids at their wedding. I think if Zoe had the choice she'd have been married before kids as she mentioned wanting a ring before 30 multiple times.
 
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