Zoe Sugg #56 Turned 33, had honey on the bree, still no ring for Zo-eeee. Groundhog Day is all you’ll see

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Naah she’s definitely pregnant:
1. She’s no where to be seen like las time and is still ill wich is expected because emetophobia and pregnancy don’t go hand in hand
2. Alfie has gone back to the gym like last time when she was pregnant with Ottie and is number one priority was being the that with abs and tattoos, plus he has been mentioning that again in some vlogs (how he imagines himself as a cool tattoed dad🙄)
3. Alfie’s blog today was all remeniscing about his childhood, how far time goes… (again just like last time)
4. It would mean that the baby and Otties age difference would be similar to Alfie and Poppys and we know he is obsessed to recread his parents life (with the marriage thing as well, just like his sister)
5. I feel like they have been trying to concive and not succiding as quick as with Ottie as Zoe seemed very sensitive about people commenting they though she was pregnant again (wich is understandably rude but she hasn’t really reacted that bad in the past when people where constantly asking those questions for 8 years)
 
MsGilmore said:
They’re just both so vanilla and have settled for each other. I think it would take one of them to meet someone else for them to separate.
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I agree to an extent, but it's interesting to me that in the last year Alfie has taken his mum to Paris and his dad on the sleeper train to Scotland. And is working out/playing golf with Sean and Joe. None of his hobbies involve Zoe because her only hobbie is lying down on her phone or watching reruns of shows from the 90s. The comment he made in her Vlogmas that she seemed so much more lively because she was vlogging (yet still spent a lot of the time lying on the sofa, having a nap or a bath) really opened my eyes to how painful she must be to live with, and it seems like he's getting tired of it by doing new experiences with other people instead.
 
eeeecccc said:
I agree to an extent, but it's interesting to me that in the last year Alfie has taken his mum to Paris and his dad on the sleeper train to Scotland. And is working out/playing golf with Sean and Joe. None of his hobbies involve Zoe because her only hobbie is lying down on her phone or watching reruns of shows from the 90s. The comment he made in her Vlogmas that she seemed so much more lively because she was vlogging (yet still spent a lot of the time lying on the sofa, having a nap or a bath) really opened my eyes to how painful she must be to live with, and it seems like he's getting tired of it by doing new experiences with other people instead.
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Mmm yeah I guess there was probably a time when people would have said the same about Tanya and Jim, but they separated.
Alfie does seem to have grown up particularly since Ottie has been born whereas Zoe hasn’t changed. I do think that her anxiety holds her back, but there’s only so much that someone can do to help without completely sacrificing their own wellbeing and happiness. I doubt that Alfie wants Ottie to be cooped up in the house all day whereas Zoe is happy to do the bare minimum.
I guess we will find out eventually!
 
coconochanel said:
I don't think they have broken up as Zoe has been posting ig pics from the non-mansion. Seems to me Alfie has accepted that he's the main parent. funny how when they were going out the door to go to the park Ottie said 'da da' for grandad and Alf said 'no I dont think he's going to be there' not bothered about her mum 🤣
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In a way that kind of makes me sad. I was in my sister's house one day before her mat leave finished and when her husband came in from work her eldest turned round and said "oh Daddy you came back!", she only saw him that morning! If any of my nieces or nephews were going out with one of us for the day they'd be excited to go but they'd be just as excited to go home and see their parents.
 
louseylou said:
In a way that kind of makes me sad. I was in my sister's house one day before her mat leave finished and when her husband came in from work her eldest turned round and said "oh Daddy you came back!", she only saw him that morning! If any of my nieces or nephews were going out with one of us for the day they'd be excited to go but they'd be just as excited to go home and see their parents.
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Yes it's sad for Ottie but not for Zoe as its her own doing. If she is having another kid she will ignore Ottie even more and be all over the new baby.
 
Mlr said:
Naah she’s definitely pregnant:
1. She’s no where to be seen like las time and is still ill wich is expected because emetophobia and pregnancy don’t go hand in hand
2. Alfie has gone back to the gym like last time when she was pregnant with Ottie and is number one priority was being the that with abs and tattoos, plus he has been mentioning that again in some vlogs (how he imagines himself as a cool tattoed dad🙄)
3. Alfie’s blog today was all remeniscing about his childhood, how far time goes… (again just like last time)
4. It would mean that the baby and Otties age difference would be similar to Alfie and Poppys and we know he is obsessed to recread his parents life (with the marriage thing as well, just like his sister)
5. I feel like they have been trying to concive and not succiding as quick as with Ottie as Zoe seemed very sensitive about people commenting they though she was pregnant again (wich is understandably rude but she hasn’t really reacted that bad in the past when people where constantly asking those questions for 8 years)
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How do you know she is still ill?
 
Vlogmas definitely showed how bad things really are and how hard it must be living with her. She'll get pregnant again so that she has an excuse to nap and not leave the house. The thing is having two kids is so much more work than having one. When alfie is main parent for both I think he'll get really sick of her and this will be when the cracks really start to show.
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They really act like roommates though. They never go out for dinner together unless it's someone's birthday, they never go away together. They cook and eat separate meals, share no hobbies together.
 
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coconochanel said:
I'd be surprised if Alfie isn't starting to resent her. When you have a child it is so selfish to behave like she is and leave all the work to him and her mum.
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Looks like alfie took ottie out this morning to get coffee just the two of them - again. It will start to piss alfie off if he is doing majority of childcare - he will definitely start to resent it - it’s not like Zoe is out there being a girl boss and working her ass off to provide. She’s just sitting on her ass doing nothing.
 
Lilykins said:
Looks like alfie took ottie out this morning to get coffee just the two of them - again. It will start to piss alfie off if he is doing majority of childcare - he will definitely start to resent it - it’s not like Zoe is out there being a girl boss and working her ass off to provide. She’s just sitting on her ass doing nothing.
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He’ll be fine with it right now while it’s only one and Ottie seems like a very easy child, once another is added to the mix and they start to get a bit older and harder to keep in line he’s going to have a mental snap 100%. Never thought I’d say the day that I feel bad for Alfie Deyes 💀
 
Yupyupyup said:
He’ll be fine with it right now while it’s only one and Ottie seems like a very easy child, once another is added to the mix and they start to get a bit older and harder to keep in line he’s going to have a mental snap 100%. Never thought I’d say the day that I feel bad for Alfie Deyes 💀
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This is true - and it seems like he likes to pretend to be a single parent on his social media, which he practically is anyway 90% of the time 😂.
 
Honestly I feel bad for him, and I cant stand him lol. When I had my son, my fiancé and I agreed to make time for each other. For the first few months it was hard because newborns need all your attention, but now once he’s in bed we cuddle up on the sofa and stick a film on. On the weekends we go out even if it’s just for a crappy costa. It’s the little efforts like that which make a difference in your relationship and family dynamic.

Zoe is setting herself up for a child who has barely any memories with her and a partner who won’t want to continue their relationship if she’s making less than the bare minimum effort.
 
Alfie's family are very close, and I imagine his and Poppy's childhood was very nice with lots of family outings, days out, time spent together and lots of lovely memories.

We know Alfie sees his family as aspirational for life, so will want the same with Ottie, Zoe is just alienating Alfie by just festering away in bed. He will get fed up and move on to someone who actually seems to care about him and Ottie.

She is setting herself up for a crap relationship with her child, and for Alfie to get fed up with her and leave. Although why he hasn't already is still beyond me.
 
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