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Lala23 said:
I feel for her and seeing her so upset is not nice. I have no doubt she loves her boys but that video is shocking. She doesn't prioritise those kids. Everyone parents differently but our kids should be important to us. The way she ignores them for the sake of tik tok is neglectful. The way she screams at them is abusive. That video is awful. She hits him whilst he's playing up because he probably needs attention. And then verbally abuses him. Imagine partners acting like that - you'd say leave them. A little child should not be treated like that and she's clearly not even aware ot that because she does this publicly.
Even now - their is no insight!!! She's saying her kids are happy and she doesn't get it. If she thinks her parenting is good, then she NEEDS SS involvement!
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As someone who got beaten as a child... at 32 I still remember it all clearly. She deserves to be upset if she's hit those kids even once! If she can do that on camera, imagine what she does off it?! Typical tiktok narc behaviour... 'ive done nuffin wrong!!!'
 
I do get really pissed off by SS for this reason.
If they had concerns, why not get her to attend parenting courses etc first? Do they think that the kids are in that much danger? Difficult to say for us because I personally haven't seen evidence of that.
She needs guidance & this is where SS fail, they haven't got the money to put in so support lacks. I wish schools would put on more courses on parenting tips, dress it up nicer not a course to teach you how to be a parent. We all struggle. I thought I was doing OK sometimes then I think ah ok I could have done that better.

I just hope they have all the info on the little ones dad, surely they can do claires law on him? Seems crazy for him to go there but then I know how pushed the care system is currently & how they're struggling for placements.

The situation is a failure of the system I think. I don't think Vic seems like an awful person, just got caught up in TT glory & needs some guidance. Maybe she's around a lot of people who parent that way so that's normal to her.

I do hope SS can support her in making steps to get those kids back.
 
At the moment, id be very concerned if she got those kids back.
Her parenting isn't just bad, she's abusive. Out right abuse. And she isn't even holding her hands up and saying she's wrong for that. She's clueless. She's heartbroken and still can't see why. If she got them back, same tit would happen again.
If ANYBODY ever spoke to my children the way she does, they'd never come near them again. Never mind the physical abuse. Children deserve to feel safe.
 
LoveGossip!! said:
I do get really pissed off by SS for this reason.
If they had concerns, why not get her to attend parenting courses etc first? Do they think that the kids are in that much danger? Difficult to say for us because I personally haven't seen evidence of that.
She needs guidance & this is where SS fail, they haven't got the money to put in so support lacks. I wish schools would put on more courses on parenting tips, dress it up nicer not a course to teach you how to be a parent. We all struggle. I thought I was doing OK sometimes then I think ah ok I could have done that better.

I just hope they have all the info on the little ones dad, surely they can do claires law on him? Seems crazy for him to go there but then I know how pushed the care system is currently & how they're struggling for placements.

The situation is a failure of the system I think. I don't think Vic seems like an awful person, just got caught up in TT glory & needs some guidance. Maybe she's around a lot of people who parent that way so that's normal to her.

I do hope SS can support her in making steps to get those kids back.
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She admitted she's already done parenting classes etc
 
rattler89 said:
She spoke about completing parenting classes and meeting all of social demands so she has had social involved for sometime now. Social will always try to avoid removing children and will only do so when there is a significant risk of harm. She must of failed some sort of assessment and not met social care plan or child in need plan.
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Wow ok, I take back my last post!
So SS have been involved & trying to help & this has happened?! Well then obviously she wasn't meeting their requirements, she should have been jumping through hoops
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rattler89 said:
She admitted she's already done parenting classes etc
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I have no words now! On her head it is, she hasn't changed with guidance! She can't blame anyone
 
So many people now normalise neglecting their children to sit on tiktok live. As if they don’t have enough time to go live and do as they please during school hours and evenings - I just don’t get it.
Also doesnt she chat about smoking weed? SS won’t take kindly to that either.
 
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LoveGossip!! said:
I do get really pissed off by SS for this reason.
If they had concerns, why not get her to attend parenting courses etc first? Do they think that the kids are in that much danger? Difficult to say for us because I personally haven't seen evidence of that.
She needs guidance & this is where SS fail, they haven't got the money to put in so support lacks. I wish schools would put on more courses on parenting tips, dress it up nicer not a course to teach you how to be a parent. We all struggle. I thought I was doing OK sometimes then I think ah ok I could have done that better.

I just hope they have all the info on the little ones dad, surely they can do claires law on him? Seems crazy for him to go there but then I know how pushed the care system is currently & how they're struggling for placements.

The situation is a failure of the system I think. I don't think Vic seems like an awful person, just got caught up in TT glory & needs some guidance. Maybe she's around a lot of people who parent that way so that's normal to her.

I do hope SS can support her in making steps to get those kids back.
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Even after all the evidence the clip where she hits him and then verbally abused him - she STILL doesn’t think she is in the wrong and that the call was just a malicious call - therefore she doesn’t believe their are flaws in her parenting so offering g classes isn’t going to help anyone who doesn’t see their wrong doing. She’s even said herself on live this morning the eldest isn’t a priority to get back and that the youngest father is now doing his bit to help as he hasn’t ever bothered with the kid. She isn’t arsed, it’s hard for her now as it’s raw but coming out with excuses like that just shows she isn’t bothered.
 
I had a situation once where ss came to my house wasn’t anything to do with me it was my child’s father and his gf at the time her children had been removed from her care, so because my child had been there they had to come see me too. They gave me a days notice and not that I don’t clean my house it’s generally pretty spotless but that day I bleached everything to within a millimetre of its life all smellys around the house reloaded a pie cooking in the oven so the kitchen smellled good enough to eat.. my point is they were checking on the welfare of my child and to give me vital information about what his dad was doing yet I did everything I thought would be right in the eyes of the ss because no one would get between me and my kids. Now I do have some sympathy for her but it is very minuscule what I don’t get is if this malicious call came from someone who clipped together clips of TikTok’s why would she come back to the place that broke her world and air her dirty laundry
 
These people stream their entire lives and then they’re shocked there’s evidence to be used
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Mrskane29 said:
You can even hear the full on thump when she cracks him after SAYING she's gonna cracks him! She even said on live 'if he hits me, im going to hit him back!' He's a little child... you should NEVER lay hands on your child.
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The stuff she’s saying to him about being a full grown man and manipulating her is scary
 
Kayleigh2020 said:
Even after all the evidence the clip where she hits him and then verbally abused him - she STILL doesn’t think she is in the wrong and that the call was just a malicious call - therefore she doesn’t believe their are flaws in her parenting so offering g classes isn’t going to help anyone who doesn’t see their wrong doing. She’s even said herself on live this morning the eldest isn’t a priority to get back and that the youngest father is now doing his bit to help as he hasn’t ever bothered with the kid. She isn’t arsed, it’s hard for her now as it’s raw but coming out with excuses like that just shows she isn’t bothered.
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Absolutely sickening, definitely spins a different light on things!!! Poor eldest if anyone shows him that, even in the future. Can't believe she's not even ready to take accountability for her actions!!
 
Sorry but people saying she’s amazing, she’s literally sat on tik tok day and night begging on there for gifts, she even uses her kids on there to get gifts. Her house looked a complete tip most of the time and she openly admitted it was cos instead of watching her kids she was live on tik tok. If she’s all the little boys ever known she should think about that and think of how little attention she actually gave them. She had creepy Brett sleeping there with her kids and she didn’t even know him. And look how that turned out he basically stalked her in the end, yet she had him round her sons. She said the little one wouldn’t eat proper food at all, maybe all this spare time she has could’ve been used to help with his eating issues. She hit him on tik tok, she can say she what she likes but you don’t hit your kids like that. I cannot believe her go fund me page, nothing but a beg!
 
LoveGossip!! said:
I do get really pissed off by SS for this reason.
If they had concerns, why not get her to attend parenting courses etc first? Do they think that the kids are in that much danger? Difficult to say for us because I personally haven't seen evidence of that.
She needs guidance & this is where SS fail, they haven't got the money to put in so support lacks. I wish schools would put on more courses on parenting tips, dress it up nicer not a course to teach you how to be a parent. We all struggle. I thought I was doing OK sometimes then I think ah ok I could have done that better.

I just hope they have all the info on the little ones dad, surely they can do claires law on him? Seems crazy for him to go there but then I know how pushed the care system is currently & how they're struggling for placements.

The situation is a failure of the system I think. I don't think Vic seems like an awful person, just got caught up in TT glory & needs some guidance. Maybe she's around a lot of people who parent that way so that's normal to her.

I do hope SS can support her in making steps to get those kids back.
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She doesn’t need “parenting tips”, she’s had the children since they were born and it’s just a coincidence she’s lost them now that she has TikTok and prioritises drama and money over them🤷🏻‍♀️
 
I don’t think she’s a perfect mother, but I bet there are a lot worse out there that haven’t had their children taken off them. Unfortunately, Vic broadcasts her life online to thousands of people so she is opening herself up to many situations. Social services have taken the boys, but she’s lucky Brett, a guy she’s met online then basically moved into her house without knowing anything about wasn’t even more of a weirdo than he actually was and took her kids.
I hope a lot of these TikTok ‘full time yummy mummy’s who are exploiting their children online to make money learn from this. KEEP YOUR CHILDREN SAFE AND OFF THE INTERNET FFS.
 
I’ve watched her a few times and just seen her boys have been taken off her. I’m shocked but not surprised. I know she had ss involved previously but those boys must’ve been on a child risk order, ss can’t just come to a house and remove children it doesn’t work like that. There would need to be a court order if no risk order was in place. Something has clearly happened. I know a lot of people hate ss and assume they just take children away, but as someone who had a risk order from 11-18 years I know how it works.
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I’ve just read the go fund me, ss can’t just remove children because of some report there is more to this.
 
Mrskane29 said:
She literally cracked her 3 year old on live stream... why the duck are people feeling sorry for her right now?!
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There you go!
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I’ve not watched her before or really been on this thread so my opinion, based only on the screen recording I just watched, is that she possibly needs support and parenting guidance. How she handled that was awful and I am massively against smacking plus her words to him weren’t nice, he was probably left very confused by the whole thing. Is this the way she normally treats them ?
 
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