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ginge2804 said:
I’ve never had social service involvement but my understanding is that to remove children they need either a court order or police protection agreement. That doesn’t happen over night. There’s more to the story
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100% this!
I have my nephew with me permanently after he was removed from my sister, it was a very very long process.
Drugs, men, violence along with physical, mental and emotional abuse. I'm talking months before he was removed.
 
I’m sick and tired of reading the many stitches and comments stating ss can just remove children. What utter bs. No they cant! Whether the child has previous ss involvement or not, police can remove children if a court order has said so. I know first hand. I was one of 6, 3 of us had an at risk order on us I won’t go into detail why but the 3 who didn’t were never going to leave my parents care because ss had no evidence nothing. You need evidence! Not just hearsay, malicious reports these don’t work. There needs to be actual proof a child is being neglected, at risk and so on. Those boys were probably on an order and her behaviour all over TikTok wouldn’t have helped, she did it herself. It’s her fault. She chose TikTok over her children I feel so sorry for them not her!
 
Katlen12 said:
Did anyone see the live a few weeks ago, where she went into the boy’s bedroom (eldest was at his Dad) but youngest has ripped the wallpaper off the wall and fallen asleep. She was going mad about the wallpaper so went in to have a look and the child had blood all over his hands and tummy.

When she woke him up she asked him what he had done and he was crying pointing under the bed saying ‘sharp, sharp’ and when she looked under the bed she found a Stanley knife. All being shown on her live stream, the child was hysterical and she just kept saving ‘it was just a paper cut, just a paper cut guys, nothing else’ but all the chat had seen it and were commenting. She is lucky he didn’t do more damage to himself, other than a cut to his finger.

Im surprised it never made it to the fyp!
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Omg that is awful, I didn’t see the live but how on earth has she let him get hold of something like a Stanley knife, I know she’s been decorating but she should clean up her tools and mess to make sure stuff like this doesn’t happen, imagine if he had cut himself somewhere and bled profusely and didn’t want to go tell his mum because he’d just get shouted at! Horrible parenting, maybe it’s best she’s had them taken from her after all this stuff coming to lights
 

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It’s been a long time coming and I did expect it from what I’ve seen on her lives. It’s more the fact that even now she is justifying her parenting and not owning up to the fact she has got lost in the tiktok world and abandoned those boys. All the videos she post is about her kids are constantly negative things, they are crying all over her live. The youngest pisses and sh!ts all over her house and she just laughs. There’s been countless of times he’s walked in and said he’s wee’d himself and she will just tell the oldest to get him a change of clothes. He’s probs p1ssed himself because she’s sat live not giving him attention, he’s left on his iPad all day while she’s live. She thought she was relatable by posting videos about how hard parenting can be but she takes it too far by neglecting those kids for a leaderboard and gifts. It’s been a long time coming and I do hope those boys get the attention and care they deserve
 
Social don’t just come and take kids for no reason, when me and my partner first got together his ex rang social on my saying I was using dr*gs, beating my kids and dog, drinking all time. None of it was true. Social turned up one day unannounced and I had absolutely no idea, I let them come into my house and look around, they checked my fridge and cupboards, my bed room and the kids rooms, questioned me and my children, they then went to my children’s dads house and questioned him, I offered to do a drug test to prove I wasn’t using any kind of dr*g. A few weeks later I had a letter to say there was absolutely no concerns for my children or their safety and my house was spotless even though I had no idea they was coming and my kids had everything they needed and more. They dropped the case and I’ve never heard from them again 🤷‍♀️
 
Ohmyhahah said:
Social don’t just come and take kids for no reason, when me and my partner first got together his ex rang social on my saying I was using dr*gs, beating my kids and dog, drinking all time. None of it was true. Social turned up one day unannounced and I had absolutely no idea, I let them come into my house and look around, they checked my fridge and cupboards, my bed room and the kids rooms, questioned me and my children, they then went to my children’s dads house and questioned him, I offered to do a drug test to prove I wasn’t using any kind of dr*g. A few weeks later I had a letter to say there was absolutely no concerns for my children or their safety and my house was spotless even though I had no idea they was coming and my kids had everything they needed and more. They dropped the case and I’ve never heard from them again 🤷‍♀️
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That’s not the same at all though so I don’t understand why your comparing?
She slapped her child on live with proof! There’s been numerous amounts of people report her. She’s been live neglecting her child for months.
 
New here; I always watched her lives and liked her as a person bt not as a mother.. a few things I’ve seen I’ve questioned and been shocked about

• when she was cutting down the door, the youngest had the blade thing walking around the kitchen rubbing it on his face
• saying her youngest was always peeing on the sofa or around the house and she didn’t clean it
• youngest peed his bed so she ran upstairs and put him in her bed; didn’t clean his bed or change his clothes/wash him down
• said numerous times she’s forgotten to give them dinner as she had been decorating so they would get McDonald’s late or a yoghurt
• said that if she stayed up late on live she simply just wouldn’t wake up the next morning to take them to school and let them run riot
• said she keeps the yoghurts and snacks to the bottom of the fridge so when she can’t be bothered to do dinner they just help themselves
• also saw the live with the Stanley knife youngest had taken to bed with him and cut himself crying in pain (she found it under his bed) then proceeded to laugh it off and pretend it was a paper cut. Everyone was commenting to say clean it and put a plaster on and she said she didn’t want to wake him and it wasn’t that deep but there was blood on him😓
• also a lot of lives where she’s looking for items like nail clippers and scissors and finds them in the boys room where they had been playing with them

all these things add up.. i couldn’t believe when I saw they had been taken off her, until i sat and thought about everything I’ve heard and seen through the lives altogether and it is shocking.
 
Chelsealou95 said:
New here; I always watched her lives and liked her as a person bt not as a mother.. a few things I’ve seen I’ve questioned and been shocked about

• when she was cutting down the door, the youngest had the blade thing walking around the kitchen rubbing it on his face
• saying her youngest was always peeing on the sofa or around the house and she didn’t clean it
• youngest peed his bed so she ran upstairs and put him in her bed; didn’t clean his bed or change his clothes/wash him down
• said numerous times she’s forgotten to give them dinner as she had been decorating so they would get McDonald’s late or a yoghurt
• said that if she stayed up late on live she simply just wouldn’t wake up the next morning to take them to school and let them run riot
• said she keeps the yoghurts and snacks to the bottom of the fridge so when she can’t be bothered to do dinner they just help themselves
• also saw the live with the Stanley knife youngest had taken to bed with him and cut himself crying in pain (she found it under his bed) then proceeded to laugh it off and pretend it was a paper cut. Everyone was commenting to say clean it and put a plaster on and she said she didn’t want to wake him and it wasn’t that deep but there was blood on him😓
• also a lot of lives where she’s looking for items like nail clippers and scissors and finds them in the boys room where they had been playing with them

all these things add up.. i couldn’t believe when I saw they had been taken off her, until i sat and thought about everything I’ve heard and seen through the lives altogether and it is shocking.
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and all those saying she’s innocent, let’s support her, ss just rocked up and took her kids for no reason, there’s worse parents etc etc.

But this is why! Imagine a social had been watching all of that? Do we expect them to sit back and send a gift? Come on. That’s abuse and neglect.
 
I remember before Christmas when social were involved, she said it was to do with the nursery teacher reporting her or something because of her lives and because they were concerned that he was always upset.

That apparently the nursery brought her in for a meeting and had loads of screen recordings of her lives and she was going mad saying that they can’t do that, that is was really unprofessional to use her TikTok as evidence etc. so she pulled the youngest out of that school.

I’d say there is lots going on behind the scenes, aside from the victim narrative she likes to portray when it comes to being reported.
 
LoveGossip!! said:
I do get really pissed off by SS for this reason.
If they had concerns, why not get her to attend parenting courses etc first? Do they think that the kids are in that much danger? Difficult to say for us because I personally haven't seen evidence of that.
She needs guidance & this is where SS fail, they haven't got the money to put in so support lacks. I wish schools would put on more courses on parenting tips, dress it up nicer not a course to teach you how to be a parent. We all struggle. I thought I was doing OK sometimes then I think ah ok I could have done that better.

I just hope they have all the info on the little ones dad, surely they can do claires law on him? Seems crazy for him to go there but then I know how pushed the care system is currently & how they're struggling for placements.

The situation is a failure of the system I think. I don't think Vic seems like an awful person, just got caught up in TT glory & needs some guidance. Maybe she's around a lot of people who parent that way so that's normal to her.

I do hope SS can support her in making steps to get those kids back.
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Here’s a top parenting tip Never ever raise your hands to any of your children. If an adult was to tat to another adult then they would be done with assault. Hitting a child is way worse that that, it is child abuse no excuses will change that
 
busdriver89 said:
That’s not the same at all though so I don’t understand why your comparing?
She slapped her child on live with proof! There’s been numerous amounts of people report her. She’s been live neglecting her child for months.
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Huh, I’m not defending her at all, I’m saying there’s obviously concerns, and reasons why she doesn’t have her kids. She’s vile and doesn’t deserve them. I’m saying that social are not out there just grabbing random kids like people make out…
 
Ohheyyyyy said:
The amount of tik toks I'm seeing with sad music and screenshots of them all happy makes me sick saying shes a good mum. Why are people brainwashed?
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If TikTok has taught me anything it’s how many unfit & abusive parents that are in the world. I’m so angry at the amount of people, mainly women, who are defending this sorry excuse for a mother. I fear for all their own kids
 
Katlen12 said:
Did anyone see the live a few weeks ago, where she went into the boy’s bedroom (eldest was at his Dad) but youngest has ripped the wallpaper off the wall and fallen asleep. She was going mad about the wallpaper so went in to have a look and the child had blood all over his hands and tummy.

When she woke him up she asked him what he had done and he was crying pointing under the bed saying ‘sharp, sharp’ and when she looked under the bed she found a Stanley knife. All being shown on her live stream, the child was hysterical and she just kept saving ‘it was just a paper cut, just a paper cut guys, nothing else’ but all the chat had seen it and were commenting. She is lucky he didn’t do more damage to himself, other than a cut to his finger.

Im surprised it never made it to the fyp!
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There was no Stanley knife there at all I was on that live and if u watched it correctly it was from paper
 
I can’t believe her boys have been taken and the first thing she thinks of is money. Oh let’s set up a go fund me as I won’t be able to do battles now. Wouldn’t surprise me if she even leaves TikTok after a week or two.
She won’t get them boys back any time soon.
she said on live she’s not even concerned about the one as he sees his dad but it’s Clayton she’s worried about.
she said he’s never seen his dad and his dad has never wanted contact but now all of a sudden he’s fighting for Clayton. Maybe he have been trying to see his son and she’s been stoping him.
someone have said above the dad is on drugs so well done to who ever phoned social services. How do you know he’s on drugs? I’m sure SS would of checked everything before placing their son in the dads care. If they can see he’s on drugs there is no way they would allow him to have custody.
Vick have abused them kids on live more than once.
she speaks to them like tit.
she was saying on live the other week how she has a lay in and they stay on their i pads until she gets up so they got to wait to be fed.
apparently her son also told the school he didn’t want to go home.
So it’s not just one person have called SS and they have removed her boys.
Funny enough she started doing videos and lives with her one boy making dream boards etc. she’s been having regular visits and been to parenting classes etc but still hasn’t changed as she would rather sit on TikTok and do battles.
she won’t need money for a solicitor. She’s scamming people out of money. Why would she need a solicitor if she’s going to work with SS to get her boys back then their is no need for a solicitor.
I got a feeling she will get and get what she can and leave TikTok.
I have only just seen the video above of her smacking her son 😡 the poor boy. If she does that on live imagine how she treats them when of live.
at least then boys won’t be scared to go home now.
Also surely she will be allowed supervised visits and to see them even if it’s once a week for now. But on the live she was saying she don’t know when she’s going to see them again which is strange.
 
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