Vanessa Feltz

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Mediamyster said:
No I don’t believe he’s entitled to anything if certain paperwork is signed. On the basis she hasn’t married him and is quite savvy I’m sure she covered any eventuality in advance. Luckily not that stupid!😄
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Good. He doesn't deserve a penny. Despite what he's trying to say, whispers of his cheating seem to be legend and to humiliate her like that constantly is horrible.
 
They’ve posted a pic of her now

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Anybody that brands anybody “old fat rich, with dyed yellow hair” well, that just cuts any opinion and credibility down in my eyes. Absolutely no respect for anybody who makes fattiest comments about anyone. So I will amend that by saying, Ben the sleaze has a type for “middle aged, fuller, rich and successful women, with their choosing to bleach their hair blonde!” Agreed that over bleaching isn’t the best look though! 😉
 
Mcomics said:
He would have to prove his contributed to the household in some way ( my friends ex tried it) but if paperwork had been signed then Vanessa would be covered
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If rumours are to be believed, he contributed sweet F. A. to the household financially. According to Popbitch they were once overheard in a supermarket and she was saying to him "I don't care if you want gluten-free [whatever food it was, can't remember], I pay the bills!"
 
wanderingrose said:
Well vanessa was with him for all thoae years, why didnt she get rid of him before? Its her fault as well if she knew he cheated and didnt contribute then she only has herself to blamd
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We've all been blinded by love in the past though, and intoxicated by someone, stayed with them much longer than we should have. Some people just don't want to be alone either, even if being with the wrong person can often be worse. It's still on him for cheating etc. At least she is finally rid of him now thank God. Better late than never.
 
wanderingrose said:
Well vanessa was with him for all thoae years, why didnt she get rid of him before? Its her fault as well if she knew he cheated and didnt contribute then she only has herself to blamd
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She's mentioned age a few times, being alone in her 60s. I think she settled for what she had with him rather than be alone but it probably got to the point where she just couldn't ignore his behaviour any longer especially as her daughters were being dragged into it all.
 
I have been listening to the Kaye Adams podcast how to be 60. I really like Kaye and the podcast is very funny. I am a late to them and listening in sequence so the ones I have reached are from July 22. I just listened to the Vanessa one. She didn’t mention Ben that much but it came across that she really loved him, he was a gentle, caring and kind guy. What he has done to her must really hurt her to the core. She also mentioned her ex husband. How she thought they had a happy marriage and was blindsided when he wanted a divorce. She said he was a surgeon, with an excellent bedside manner and that was the charming persona was what he used on her and duped her essentially, and the divorce was painful both emotionally and monetarily. The latter explains her workload. She was terrified of not having any money. But the Ben thing, he has duped her like her ex husband. It is going to take a lot to bounce back emotionally I think. Just the sitting and thinking, was this bit real, when he did that did he care. But she is a strong intelligent woman, with a natural joie de vivre, with lots to feel great about, including her family. She will be okay, but wiser I think.
 
Wishing the sublime Vanessa much Health and Happiness on her Birthday! As I predicted, her equally beautiful daughters surrounding her with love and support. She looks happy, well and healing nicely. A beautiful family who rally round each other in times of need. True Jewish togetherness and soul. Love to all of them. ❤️
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Didn’t particular want to make any comments to bring the thread down on her birthday, and certainly not put these comments in the same space as my post above, I don’t feel the need to now mention her ex on HER birthday. Nothing to do with her anymore. The post of the birthday cake on instagram though is even more insulting than not putting anything. That’s all I have to say on that.
I’m sure she will have the most sublime cake which is sweeter than any guff that’s come out of his cake hole the last 20 years towards her!
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Oh and re the post above, blaming Vanessa as responsible for not leaving him sooner? The most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read.
make a mistake in a marriage, I believe you should get one chance. Just the one. You know, forgiveness, not everybody can and would do that, granted. Ideally, one chance of a mistake then work towards ensuring it never happens again, equally love is supposed to be a strong cementing of togetherness.
again, and I said it the other day, however, Love is blind. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be love. The time it ended was the time Vanessa wanted it to end and therefore it is the right time.
 
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Mediamyster said:
Wishing the sublime Vanessa much Health and Happiness on her Birthday! As I predicted, her equally beautiful daughters surrounding her with love and support. She looks happy, well and healing nicely. A beautiful family who rally round each other in times of need. True Jewish togetherness and soul. Love to all of them. ❤
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Didn’t particular want to make any comments to bring the thread down on her birthday, and certainly not put these comments in the same space as my post above, I don’t feel the need to now mention her ex on HER birthday. Nothing to do with her anymore. The post of the birthday cake on instagram though is even more insulting than not putting anything. That’s all I have to say on that.
I’m sure she will have the most sublime cake which is sweeter than any guff that’s come out of his cake hole the last 20 years towards her!
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Oh and re the post above, blaming Vanessa as responsible for not leaving him sooner? The most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read.
make a mistake in a marriage, I believe you should get one chance. Just the one. You know, forgiveness, not everybody can and would do that, granted. Ideally, one chance of a mistake then work towards ensuring it never happens again, equally love is supposed to be a strong cementing of togetherness.
again, and I said it the other day, however, Love is blind. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be love. The time it ended was the time Vanessa wanted it to end and therefore it is the right time.
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I agree somewhat but there wete rumours about him for a while now it seems and its not like she needed to rely on him. She has a well paid job, is independant and doesnt need him, but it shouldnt have come as a surprise to her that he was unfaithful when its happened many times before.
 
Love this from Rob Rinder about Vanessa (it's down the page from the piece about his back surgery)

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Private healthcare spared my agony — I just wish the NHS was as good

I’ve had a dicky back for a few months, but foolishly believed it would just get better on its own. In fact, shortly after it came on, I’d booked a juice fast and hoped the liquids being poured down my neck might pool in my lower spine and sort it all out.
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