Unpopular opinions #18

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Right a few things to vent on.

First opinion:

I have no problem with people who migrate here and do it the proper way. I was looking at requirements to get a visa in Australia and they're really strict. You have to show you have enough money to support yourself and pass a health test so you're essentially not a drain on their healthcare system. What annoys me about europeans before Brexit was most of them come over and do jobs which simply doesn't pay them enough a month to survive off of. So they then ask for help off of our government on top. I don't agree with people coming over here and getting housed and given benefits when people born here are struggling to get help. My grandmother lives in Spain and she didn't get treated differently and get extra help because she was from the UK. She got treated equally to Spaniards and had to pay her prescriptions and healthcare and everything else. Polish, Romanian etc come here and they work but they usually do low skilled jobs which of course then doesn't pay well. I honestly don't have the stance of "they're stealing our jobs". I actually respect more that they come and contribute than come and live off of handouts off of the taxpayer. I actually know a few people who offered to help during the pandemic with fruit and veg picking and they didn't even get a reply - they were white british. So when everyone says all brits are lazy and wouldn't do low skilled jobs, that's not necessarily true. What angers me is europeans and people who aren't british complain we are racist and hateful of them, but if thousands of us migrated to Poland (or insert other country) and asked for help and were prioritised over their own people, they would turn on us and say "those bleeping English". People who come over on a visa at least have to prove that they have a well paid job (unless I'm wrong) and they have to show they can support themselves. That for me is someone who is migrating here the right way and not being entitled and lazy.

My second unpopular opinion is this new thing about people not being able to judge lazy scroungers because it's "classism". I'm not speaking about women who have children and, for unforeseen circumstances, split with their partner further down the line and are struggling to make ends meet being a single parent so ask for help off of the government, or people who have an injury or illness which forces them to be unable to work or stop working the job they do, or a mental health issue. My issue is people who are lazy and play the system on purpose pushing out kid after kid expecting to get lots of money and housing for it. I know they capped child benefits after 2 kids but you still get a lot more help if you have children. Free school meals which in some areas is now vouchers you can spend up supermarkets on school holidays, you get extra money than a single person on a household support grant or energy bill help and the list goes on. People who work hard shouldn't have to fit the bill because you chose to be lazy and never work but have multiple offspring.
 
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I’ve people that I need to forgive and it’s such a hard thing to do. I’m still very hurt by some of their actions and don’t like to think about what they’ve done but I know I need to sit with it, process it and let it go. Just not ready to face it yet


When I 1st forgave the people who had badly hurt me I did it and still felt the same I tried and tried but the memories were still the same and the thoughts about those memories were the same. Then it hit me I had never actually told them what they did to me, how it felt and how much I hated them doing what they did.

None of them was in my life anymore most were dead the others I had no idea where they were. One day I was in my car and just started to talk to them, then shout at them, then scream at them that they were all cunts and how I hated them.. ( I really let rip) then after a while, I just felt better, said thank you for the lessons and told them I loved them and drove home in a much better place mentally.

So for me I found I could not just forgive without first shouting at the world and myself how much pain they gave me.
 
Go fund me! People are allowed to set them up for no particular reason, “help Freddie so he can go to the toilet to take a sh!t”.
No duck off!!
There are so many regulated charities that are being stripped of much needed funds because of people setting up ‘Go fund me’

They should be regulated. I've seen some asking for money for a holiday. Erm, no. I'm sure we could all do with a break.
 
Right a few things to vent on.

First opinion:

I have no problem with people who migrate here and do it the proper way. I was looking at requirements to get a visa in Australia and they're really strict. You have to show you have enough money to support yourself and pass a health test so you're essentially not a drain on their healthcare system. What annoys me about europeans before Brexit was most of them come over and do jobs which simply doesn't pay them enough a month to survive off of. So they then ask for help off of our government on top. I don't agree with people coming over here and getting housed and given benefits when people born here are struggling to get help. My grandmother lives in Spain and she didn't get treated differently and get extra help because she was from the UK. She got treated equally to Spaniards and had to pay her prescriptions and healthcare and everything else. Polish, Romanian etc come here and they work but they usually do low skilled jobs which of course then doesn't pay well. I honestly don't have the stance of "they're stealing our jobs". I actually respect more that they come and contribute than come and live off of handouts off of the taxpayer. I actually know a few people who offered to help during the pandemic with fruit and veg picking and they didn't even get a reply - they were white british. So when everyone says all brits are lazy and wouldn't do low skilled jobs, that's not necessarily true. What angers me is europeans and people who aren't british complain we are racist and hateful of them, but if thousands of us migrated to Poland (or insert other country) and asked for help and were prioritised over their own people, they would turn on us and say "those bleeping English". People who come over on a visa at least have to prove that they have a well paid job (unless I'm wrong) and they have to show they can support themselves. That for me is someone who is migrating here the right way and not being entitled and lazy.

My second unpopular opinion is this new thing about people not being able to judge lazy scroungers because it's "classism". I'm not speaking about women who have children and, for unforeseen circumstances, split with their partner further down the line and are struggling to make ends meet being a single parent so ask for help off of the government, or people who have an injury or illness which forces them to be unable to work or stop working the job they do, or a mental health issue. My issue is people who are lazy and play the system on purpose pushing out kid after kid expecting to get lots of money and housing for it. I know they capped child benefits after 2 kids but you still get a lot more help if you have children. Free school meals which in some areas is now vouchers you can spend up supermarkets on school holidays, you get extra money than a single person on a household support grant or energy bill help and the list goes on. People who work hard shouldn't have to fit the bill because you chose to be lazy and never work but have multiple offspring.

Migrants bring a net positive value to the UK economy. Most of them, therefore, are not claiming benefits. The more the merrier as far as I’m concerned. It’s up to our lazy governments and councils to make sure the infrastructure is there to support everyone who lives here.
 
Right a few things to vent on.

First opinion:

I have no problem with people who migrate here and do it the proper way. I was looking at requirements to get a visa in Australia and they're really strict. You have to show you have enough money to support yourself and pass a health test so you're essentially not a drain on their healthcare system. What annoys me about europeans before Brexit was most of them come over and do jobs which simply doesn't pay them enough a month to survive off of. So they then ask for help off of our government on top. I don't agree with people coming over here and getting housed and given benefits when people born here are struggling to get help. My grandmother lives in Spain and she didn't get treated differently and get extra help because she was from the UK. She got treated equally to Spaniards and had to pay her prescriptions and healthcare and everything else. Polish, Romanian etc come here and they work but they usually do low skilled jobs which of course then doesn't pay well. I honestly don't have the stance of "they're stealing our jobs". I actually respect more that they come and contribute than come and live off of handouts off of the taxpayer. I actually know a few people who offered to help during the pandemic with fruit and veg picking and they didn't even get a reply - they were white british. So when everyone says all brits are lazy and wouldn't do low skilled jobs, that's not necessarily true. What angers me is europeans and people who aren't british complain we are racist and hateful of them, but if thousands of us migrated to Poland (or insert other country) and asked for help and were prioritised over their own people, they would turn on us and say "those bleeping English". People who come over on a visa at least have to prove that they have a well paid job (unless I'm wrong) and they have to show they can support themselves. That for me is someone who is migrating here the right way and not being entitled and lazy.

My second unpopular opinion is this new thing about people not being able to judge lazy scroungers because it's "classism". I'm not speaking about women who have children and, for unforeseen circumstances, split with their partner further down the line and are struggling to make ends meet being a single parent so ask for help off of the government, or people who have an injury or illness which forces them to be unable to work or stop working the job they do, or a mental health issue. My issue is people who are lazy and play the system on purpose pushing out kid after kid expecting to get lots of money and housing for it. I know they capped child benefits after 2 kids but you still get a lot more help if you have children. Free school meals which in some areas is now vouchers you can spend up supermarkets on school holidays, you get extra money than a single person on a household support grant or energy bill help and the list goes on. People who work hard shouldn't have to fit the bill because you chose to be lazy and never work but have multiple offspring.
Spot on...
 
When I 1st forgave the people who had badly hurt me I did it and still felt the same I tried and tried but the memories were still the same and the thoughts about those memories were the same. Then it hit me I had never actually told them what they did to me, how it felt and how much I hated them doing what they did.

None of them was in my life anymore most were dead the others I had no idea where they were. One day I was in my car and just started to talk to them, then shout at them, then scream at them that they were all cunts and how I hated them.. ( I really let rip) then after a while, I just felt better, said thank you for the lessons and told them I loved them and drove home in a much better place mentally.

So for me I found I could not just forgive without first shouting at the world and myself how much pain they gave me.
I really admire you for what you’ve done.

One old school friend who I was very close to, took up with my ex and she knew how I felt about him. I was heartbroken. They knew what they had done to me and openly flaunted it. Their response was they just wanted to be happy! They’re now married and I sometimes see them out walking their dog. I still get that stabbing pain in my chest and the hate I feel is unbelievable. I still want to punch them and I’ve never hit anyone in my life!! I know I’m better off without them as they’re both snakes. They already know what they done and are brazen about it. I’ll never forget the day she came to my house crying and snivelling looking for forgiveness. She told me some sob story about how she was addicted to exercise. I told her to leave.

I think writing a letter to them and then burning it is my best option to at least get rid of some of the hurt
 
My sister bought me a reflexology massage as a birthday present and I hated every second of it. I don't like having my feet touched and massaged, and the reflexologist then telling me how I had a gallbladder problem and an arthritic shoulder, because she could tell by the soles of my feet.

duck off.
I always wonder what kind of people buy into reflexology and psychics. I just find it all so unbelievable.
 
Where should a dog wee then?
Up a wall or a lamp post isn’t that bad

Anti social behaviour 😆😆😆 lol
Yeah, I don’t get it either? Do they know that all sorts of animals, not just dogs, are peeing and pooping everywhere.
Certainly the strangest UO I’ve ever heard

Both. Neither are acceptable.
I really hope you’re trolling us 😂
 
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