Paula has had a lot of loss in her life the last 2 years. Her husband, father and now her brother. She'll need support, but Julie will make this all about her, she'll be on crying how hard it is for her, how she missed the wedding, how she has no one to mind the twins. Can't even resist posting because she craves the attention too much. Even boy manager posting trying to use it for content and sympathy. Validation from strangers is more important to her then staying off line and supporting her mother.