TTC #6

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whereibe said:
Ooh yours are quite similar to mine I think. I’ve never got a higher temp than 36.6. I’ve actually got a GP appointment tomorrow because I have similar concerns about my thyroid, especially after my miscarriage and my mum has thyroid issues too
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That’s interesting to hear! Perhaps I’ll get something booked in too.
 
Itsallthecheese said:
I'm having a pretty down day today... Pregnancy just seems to be happening to people around me at the drop of a hat... 2 friends weren't even trying... We just want it so badly as do all of you guys... It's so hard x
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So hard xx

Just coming on to vent about my "friend" again, just sent me a bump pic saying 36 weeks, I didn't open it, hope it's not another bikini one, she knows we have been trying for years, I never normally hear from her like would I be a weirdo I said back thats lovely but please don't feel the need to send me bump updates, happy for you but they only serve as a reminder to me that I am not pregnant
 
scarymary1983 said:
So hard xx

Just coming on to vent about my "friend" again, just sent me a bump pic saying 36 weeks, I didn't open it, hope it's not another bikini one, she knows we have been trying for years, I never normally hear from her like would I be a weirdo I said back thats lovely but please don't feel the need to send me bump updates, happy for you but they only serve as a reminder to me that I am not pregnant
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I don't understand people who do this... Like rubbing your face in it... People seem to have lost tact these days... Someone I'm close to had a miscarriage, her friend proceeded to tell her that they were going to start trying in case it happened to them... Like what... Why would you say that to someone?! People blow my mind... Hope you're ok xx
 
Itsallthecheese said:
I don't understand people who do this... Like rubbing your face in it... People seem to have lost tact these days... Someone I'm close to had a miscarriage, her friend proceeded to tell her that they were going to start trying in case it happened to them... Like what... Why would you say that to someone?! People blow my mind... Hope you're ok xx
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Thanks, think I'm just gonna leave it unread for a few days, AF is due on Tuesday so hyper sensitive now
 
Itsallthecheese said:
I don't understand people who do this... Like rubbing your face in it... People seem to have lost tact these days... Someone I'm close to had a miscarriage, her friend proceeded to tell her that they were going to start trying in case it happened to them... Like what... Why would you say that to someone?! People blow my mind... Hope you're ok xx
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Some people are just awful…my friends partner who is OBSESSED with her pregnancy, knows I’ve had 3 miscarriages and actually said to me “at least we know it won’t happen to us now, you’ve taken that one for the team.” Unbelievable.
 
I've got a week until I'm due on so hoping I can avoid testing 🤞🏻
Gossipgirl79 said:
Some people are just awful…my friends partner who is OBSESSED with her pregnancy, knows I’ve had 3 miscarriages and actually said to me “at least we know it won’t happen to us now, you’ve taken that one for the team.” Unbelievable.
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That is horrific!!
 
Oh girls I got my period on Saturday 😭 Only just been able to bring myself to type it out. Next stage now is doctors! We have a majorly busy June so no testing this month, make an appointment and just going with it. I feel relieved and scared. Like we are going to start getting answers but I’m dreading what they are!

Anyone that’s started investigating why they haven’t been successful - what can we expect from our initial appointment? I’m so clueless.. it’s like whole new unknown territory!
 
Cooksie said:
Oh girls I got my period on Saturday 😭 Only just been able to bring myself to type it out. Next stage now is doctors! We have a majorly busy June so no testing this month, make an appointment and just going with it. I feel relieved and scared. Like we are going to start getting answers but I’m dreading what they are!

Anyone that’s started investigating why they haven’t been successful - what can we expect from our initial appointment? I’m so clueless.. it’s like whole new unknown territory!
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My GP just sent me for blood tests initially. I think they are on roughly day 3 and day 21 of your cycle to check if you’re ovulating. My husband was referred for sperm analysis at the same time. Both our tests came back normal so we were then referred to the fertility clinic.
 
Its_Me said:
I’m the opposite to you mine have gone really short and Femometer app is saying my leutual phase is too short 🤯
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It's so hard isn't it. Sometimes feels like our bodies are against us regardless of what we are trying to achieve. I bought some opks the other day so hoping to start them to see wtf is going on and to make sure I actually ovulate. This group is so helpful and I am at the start of my TTC journey so can't complain too much. I am just feeling sorry for myself today and need to move on 😔
 
PeterPanFan said:
It's so hard isn't it. Sometimes feels like our bodies are against us regardless of what we are trying to achieve. I bought some opks the other day so hoping to start them to see wtf is going on and to make sure I actually ovulate. This group is so helpful and I am at the start of my TTC journey so can't complain too much. I am just feeling sorry for myself today and need to move on 😔
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Yes, it’s like a constant battle. Hopefully you will get back to shorter cycles, I just try to tell myself that we never really know what’s going on inside our bodies, random things like seasons changing or diet can affect cycles…
 
whereibe said:
Ooh yours are quite similar to mine I think. I’ve never got a higher temp than 36.6. I’ve actually got a GP appointment tomorrow because I have similar concerns about my thyroid, especially after my miscarriage and my mum has thyroid issues too
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I just got my blood results back and I have elevated TSH levels which indicate hypothyroidism but it’s not conclusive. Dr will now be doing further blood testing to confirm. If I do have hypothyroidism it could explain my early miscarriage. She also advised me to stop TTC until my health and mental health are in a better way. 😭

noseynopinions said:
Testing negative today :( maybe a chemical?
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I’m so sorry 😢

Gossipgirl79 said:
Some people are just awful…my friends partner who is OBSESSED with her pregnancy, knows I’ve had 3 miscarriages and actually said to me “at least we know it won’t happen to us now, you’ve taken that one for the team.” Unbelievable.
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This is shocking! I don’t think I could ever talk to them again
 
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