What bothers me is, she can’t do the mom thing alone. She has to have help to do basic everyday things with her kids. Most SAHM are able to watch their toddlers and maintain a home(go grocery shopping, do dishes, feed the kids, clean, do laundry, etc.) throughout the day without help from an S/O or family. It’s not easy by any means but it needs to be done. She’s had a huge support system from day 1 and still can’t get it together.
I don’t know how school is starting off in Jersey, either in person or virtual. If it’s virtual, she’s going to have to actually help guide Skylar through it. Then she’ll be complaining about that also.
Areed, I understand she has 3 little ones. Not easy
I raised my 2 kids on my own, meaning no help from grandma, sister, brother , aunt , uncle friends, nothing. I went to all school , sport events did all the household errands, doc appts, etc . by myself. If my mom came, it was just to see the kids ,not care for them.
And no I don't want a medal, its what I'm supposed to do.
As far as going out drinking on the weekends and taking vacations without my kids...that's non existent. I do believe moms/parents need a break.
I did go out every now and then, but for a few hours while kids were with a family member.
Not extended weekends (Thursday to Tuesday) like she does. and when I did go out my kids were not toddlers/infants that needed constant care, they were self sufficient and just needed food served to them. I could not leave the responsibility of a crying baby, change diapers, feed,clean, play etc with anyone while I was out partying. If I had an urgent situation where I did have to leave them, best believe I did the most before leaving them. Prepare everything, bathe, dress, feed and do everything I possibly could to leave less work for my family.
My kids are now 22 and 16 and I still leave everything for them if I go away for the weekend, (weekend meaning Sat morning come back Sun morning) money, food, clean laundry etc.
Of course its easy to pop out children one after the other if you don't have to care for them yourself. Now she can say she didn't expect to get divorced, but even if she stayed married, she still knew Corey was always at work and she would be alone with them the majority of the day.
Aso she had help from day 1 from Tara and her mom, so she cannot pull the single mom card.