TMPK - The Meal Prep King

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icebabyice said:
What I don’t understand is
He’s doing these lives and ppl are watching them
Surely he must have family members or a least one friend who gives a tit about him
I am definitely not sticking up for the man in any way but surely now he’s being a danger to himself and ppl are watching his lives saying all this about him looking a mess and terrible etc
Surely there is a duty of care here as humans witnessing the state he’s in! I’m not looking at them anymore or watching anything on line in terms of his lives or what ppl have posted of his lives as I don’t want to hear his constant abuse to things and ppl …. The man is clearly going down hill health wise by what’s being put on here and although he’s brought it on himself surely public services ie police or medical professionals should be getting involved as I wouldn’t want it on my hands if I’d witnessed his health deteriorate n done nothing. Obviously ppl may have tried with him.
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It’s totally sad to see. I would hate for anything serious to happen to his health. It is worrying if he’s been snorting coke and drinking for 5 days straight. He could easily have a heart attack or stroke! I hope his family or friends have called the police for an intervention cos I’m guessing he wouldn’t listen to anyone close to him since he hasn’t stopped on his spiral. Although I don’t think the police can do much except pop round his house. Surely he has some sort of management type team to hello with social media, contracts etc? You’d think they would have a duty of care and intervene
 
icebabyice said:
What I don’t understand is
He’s doing these lives and ppl are watching them
Surely he must have family members or a least one friend who gives a tit about him
I am definitely not sticking up for the man in any way but surely now he’s being a danger to himself and ppl are watching his lives saying all this about him looking a mess and terrible etc
Surely there is a duty of care here as humans witnessing the state he’s in! I’m not looking at them anymore or watching anything on line in terms of his lives or what ppl have posted of his lives as I don’t want to hear his constant abuse to things and ppl …. The man is clearly going down hill health wise by what’s being put on here and although he’s brought it on himself surely public services ie police or medical professionals should be getting involved as I wouldn’t want it on my hands if I’d witnessed his health deteriorate n done nothing. Obviously ppl may have tried with him.
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Whilst I appreciate that, there is someone above who was the person with him on Saturday night and he's now submitting her to a torrent of abuse because she's checking in on Charlotte. Whilst it isn't nice to see someone go this way, people have clearly tried to help him and he, instead, is abusive towards them, is shouting at kids in the street and generally being awful to anyone who isn't supporting his appalling behaviour. Only so much people can do with that. Lead a horse to water and all that... Unless people can provide police/health professionals with a way to locate him i.e. An address/phone number, people on Instagram watching his lives are a bit limited in the help they can get for him and whilst Instagram has a reporting system for people that need help, it tends to only be aimed at those who are stating they're going to hurt themselves/others or are actively doing it whilst online. It's a difficult one as even then at best all they can do is have a chat with him which I can't see him tolerating.

I saw he was live again but didn't click it as I can guarantee it'll be much of the same about how he's not sorry about anything and everyone else is scruffy/lazy/lower than him in every sense.
 
I accidentally clicked the notification that popped up on my phone saying he was live and it opened to him making threats about his neighbours and saying how they're all scruffy council house tenants and need to duck off and if they're watching and have an issue with what he's saying they should come and face him which sounded a threat to me so simply reported it for threats of violence so obviously can't see it any more.

Misschatterbox22 said:
He's live again.. just said there has been domestic violence in his relationship and it hasn't been from him 😑
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Trying for the sympathy card but everyone can tell that it's going to have come from him by his behaviour this past week. Don't think in the briefest time I saw the live that there were any comments from people supporting him. If he had even the slightest chance of pulling anything back after that first post last weekend he's making it impossible now. Surprised his agents haven't ditched him. Be interesting to see if/why they're still supporting him when there's a good chance he's going to lose them money over making it!
 
maplesyrup2021 said:
He came back on live briefly (picked the phone up anyway from where it was) so he’s alive
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Violence is never right from either side. I guess my concern is for both parties is if he went for them back and what the fallout on either side could be from it.

He really does need help if it's got to this as its becoming a risk to his and others safety.
 
He's going through a process and he won't stop until he's good and ready. It's one I've been witness to far too often with an ex who is an abusive alcoholic.
I've seen my kids beg him to stop but he won't when he's in a negative spiral.
They've called in police etc and he tells them he's fine, having a drink in his own home and they go. They are limited in what they can do unless he's breaking laws.
He pushed away everyone from him. Alienated friends and family. He goes onto social media to tell his 'truth'. Then deletes it once he starts to emerge from his bender. Each time he loses a friend or two. And only one of his kids will now see him as they are adults and make their own choices.
Back to John. Whilst he's like this he won't accept support until he's ready to. Every time we think he's hit bottom it seems there is lower to go.
I'm not viewing the lives. He is feeding off them. The numbers, arguing, etc. Its all bravado and let's be honest, deeply unpleasant to hear and see.
He's not so far gone that he knows not to post them though!
 
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