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Sweatybetty said:
She needs the opinions of her medical team , she seems more worried about strangers on the internet, I’ve never been so confused by someone’s cancer journey 🤯
I really hope she gets it all sorted and gets a clear picture of where she is at
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I've been hoping this for a year, and have run out of patience. At this juncture, people shouldn't be confused on whether she's terminal or in remission (her followers seem to think both, judging by the comments). The basics of her story should be known if she's using cancer for her channel's advertising (and merchandise), which is exactly how it's being promoted.

There are reasonable levels of confusion in doctor's appointments and relaying medical information, but the rudimentary knowledge of her case is again missing. There was a clear picture for a moment - months ago - when surgery was the only curative option and Tiffany stated as much, but ever since then, she's distanced herself from that reality. Now it's all about Youtube, her "TiffanyThinks family" being "negative". Blocking so-called trolls. Her priorities are so shockingly upside-down that it suggests she's very mentally unwell.

As others have stated, I feel she's headed towards a breakdown. At this point, my main hope is that she's put into counselling. Urgently.
 
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justmakemoney said:
I've been hoping this for a year, and have run out of patience. At this juncture, people shouldn't be confused on whether she's terminal or in remission (her followers seem to think both, judging by the comments). The basics of her story should be known if she's using cancer for her channel's advertising (and merchandise), which is exactly how it's being promoted.

There are reasonable levels of confusion in doctor's appointments and relaying medical information, but the rudimentary knowledge of her case is again missing. There was a clear picture for a moment - months ago - when surgery was the only curative option and Tiffany stated as much, but ever since then, she's distanced herself from that reality. Now it's all about Youtube, her "TiffanyThinks family" being "negative". Blocking so-called trolls. Her priorities are so shockingly upside-down that it suggests she's very mentally unwell.

As others have stated, I feel she's headed towards a breakdown. At this point, my main hope is that she's put into counselling. Urgently.
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Your last line is exactly what I feel. I actually think she should stop putting films out on social media and put all her energies into getting better and getting this sorted. Some of us on here are old enough and/or wise enough to know how to keep ourselves protected from negative comments and spats on YouTube and social media, but Tiffany is young and clearly not able to take a step back, instead getting involved in having to justify things to people and answer messages from strangers. It is going to start messing with her head - she strikes me as a worrier and having to deal with thousands of comments from people who think that they are experts (I'm not talking about the ones who actually ARE experts) is going to affect her mental health really badly.
 
justmakemoney said:
Tiffany's most recent video has been received very poorly. Has a proper cancer vlogger ever got such a negative response to an emotionally-charged title/video? I've personally never seen anything like it. I reckon people didn't take kindly to being sanctioned for life-saving advice only to be labelled "trolls" or "haters". Tiffany regularly gets far more dislikes than other cancer influencers, but never up to 1K or more. Her subscribers are still climbing, as is expected, but her reception really took a nosedive here. What do you think changed?

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I think people might be reading here as well

J3N1800 said:
Good Morning you lovely bunch 😘

I catch up on the comments here and I'm constantly thinking '...yes! agree!'

Yesterday, I went on Tiff's Tiktok...

Her videos are a mix of sad cancer journey montages, jokes about burning scan results/not wanting scans/ignorance towards her situation and then faith/trusting in god.

Basically reflects various thoughts people have mentioned here on Tiff's thought processes.
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Gosh she’s on TikTok too? She really needs a break from social media. At first I thought it was a good distraction for her but like with other YouTubers it’s probably getting addictive and at such a critical time in her life with people giving their medical or not-so-medical opinions it can’t be good.

I also noticed she rehearses her lines because sometimes she accidentally edits repeated sentences. Okay it’s a cute hobby but don’t get so pedantic about it when your energy could be going into finding out more about your health.

She even annoys Matt with the constant filming. Imagine coming home from a long day of work and someone is at the front door with a camera in your face waiting to film your reaction to getting home, or you try to enjoy a cup of tea and you have a camera in your face and you have to show how much you like the tea and do Mark Wiens facial expressions. Matt just chuck the camera phone out the window for 6 weeks.
 
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Millieminion said:
I genuinely hope the woman has had her miracle and she is non detectable and I still think she's a very lovley person but she can't ask for people's opinions and then go on a blocking spree for those that don't tell her what she wants to hear.
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There is no miracle to happen. Chemo and radiation alone apparently can't get rid of the cancer which is why surgery was on the table. So unless she was misdiagnosed then I don't understand.

ginnyw said:
Your last line is exactly what I feel. I actually think she should stop putting films out on social media and put all her energies into getting better and getting this sorted. Some of us on here are old enough and/or wise enough to know how to keep ourselves protected from negative comments and spats on YouTube and social media, but Tiffany is young and clearly not able to take a step back, instead getting involved in having to justify things to people and answer messages from strangers. It is going to start messing with her head - she strikes me as a worrier and having to deal with thousands of comments from people who think that they are experts (I'm not talking about the ones who actually ARE experts) is going to affect her mental health really badly.
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Isn't she 30? She is not that young!!
 
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Isn't she 30? She is not that young!!
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30 going on 13 (chuckles)

She's been on social platform since what 9/10 years ago. And her channel only took off because of cancer. The growth of her YT channel suddenly propelled her into a spotlight she's never known. People watch her for support, something to look forward to because they are in similar predicament or ill in bed, for a ray of light in darkness, and for whatever reasons they were drawn to her because of her cancer diagnosis. Not to be told to turn on one another just because our opinions differ. Look, she threw out to the whole world an invitation to advise. The tone of advice could very well sound very different when read or heard. There was no need for the princess here to incite snitching amongst her viewers. Also, she has a better business plan for her merchandise, never forgetting to update the latest colours, than the more pressing issue at stake.
 
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terriann said:
She even annoys Matt with the constant filming. Imagine coming home from a long day of work and someone is at the front door with a camera in your face waiting to film your reaction to getting home, or you try to enjoy a cup of tea and you have a camera in your face and you have to show how much you like the tea and do Mark Wiens facial expressions. Matt just chuck the camera phone out the window for 6 weeks.
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Do you like it my darling? Are you happy? How much would you pay for it? It definitely would wear so thin at such a stressful time.
 
lolawasaflowergirl said:
Do you like it my darling? Are you happy? How much would you pay for it? It definitely would wear so thin at such a stressful time.
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I’m so glad her own thread has been started because this behaviour drives me insane. Like when he comes here me from work and she is like a excited puppy weeing on the floor with excitement. The over enthusiastic “MMMMS” for a chicken mayo sandwich kills me.
 
She’s just uploaded a new vid , she’s spoke to her oncologist who’s told her no cancer showed up
On scans and what’s in her lungs has remained the same so best just to leave it a bit and wait ??
I really can’t see how this is possible

I’m even more confused and people in comments are confused too
 
Sweatybetty said:
She’s just uploaded a new vid , she’s spoke to her oncologist who’s told her no cancer showed up
On scans and what’s in her lungs has remained the same so best just to leave it a bit and wait ??
I really can’t see how this is possible

I’m even more confused and people in comments are confused too
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Same. Especially when they said chemo did absolutely nothing to reduce the size of the tumour.
 
Sweatybetty said:
She’s just uploaded a new vid , she’s spoke to her oncologist who’s told her no cancer showed up
On scans and what’s in her lungs has remained the same so best just to leave it a bit and wait ??
I really can’t see how this is possible

I’m even more confused and people in comments are confused too
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I don't know how you can go from needing pelvic exenteration to no cancer, lets just wait. Something is very wrong here. If it's in her lungs does that not make her stage 4?
 
jackolantern said:
I don't know how you can go from needing pelvic exenteration to no cancer, lets just wait. Something is very wrong here. If it's in her lungs does that not make her stage 4?
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That’s exactly what I was thinking 🤔
How can she have that large mass which treatment apparently didn’t touch to it’s not cancer ?

And I thought she said her lungs where clear ? Unless I got that wrong
 
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