MY DECISION *cancer*
In car with Mom picking up her niece for a few hours so that her bro in law and sis could do their own things. Excited to visit optician with her aunt later. Not ready to go back to work in view of scans and biopsies. Left link to her video Blood & Mucus. Really excited to spend time with niece. At her fav chai place. Cheers!
Cut to date day. Going into London. Left link to vid where Matt got her a VCA bracelet. Gonna get it adjusted because it was too loose. Going in to the theatre too. She gets hot flushes, so cannot wear a coat yet. Found an affordable Tiffany blue phone case on Amazon. Snacks for the car ride. Showed fancy London, Burberry, Chanel, LV... They enjoyed the show. Really hungry, so found food for dinner, absolutely romantic day.
Next morning. Happy day. Wearing something apart from We Got This. Her mom made fruit juice concoction with tumeric (T: woohoo!). She made harsh browns in airfryer. She had them with ketchup, and the juice. Misc things I did not note, like cheers yummy that's so yummy. She'd pay six pounds for mom's juice. Matt asked her if she was sure she'd not be having any more food, she said she was not hungry. Matt went for football, she had tea and feeling very tired and sore from the London trip.
Finally, her decision. Recap what her surgeon told her re biopsies. After speaking with family and oncologist, everyone has been telling her to wait, she's decided to wait and do the scans and biopsies again. The doctors know more than what she does. To wait and watch. She knows a lot of her viewers want her to go for surgery. But, she really has thought about it, thank you to all, made her find answers from the doctors, and helping her come to this decision. Be positive, trust God, trust the process. She feels betters after saying this all out. She's ready for the scans. Her journey is not straightforward, and really hoping it will come to an end. So nice to move on from this path. She wants life to be like the London trip out with Matt. She wants to make memories with loved ones, and not think about the hospital. She's gonna get there. After this, she will be able to handle anything. Thank you, subscribe, love and Tea with T on Tues!
P/S I cannot, and do not, believe that everyone including her med team has been telling her to wait. The key word is option, not mandatory. Her med team would be acting on her decision.