Thesocialmama.xo #21 Uh oh, we're in trouble, Oakley's come along and burst her pink, frilly bubble

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I went to comment a couple of times about the loose blankets etc but I didn’t want to mum shame as it can be hard but unfortunately she does have a highish following and there probably is unbelievably people influenced by her so to an extent she does have a responsibility to promote cot safety etc

I don’t agree with any of her parenting styles either with the older ones or the new baby and I think any excuse she’s got to lie in her bed or stay in her bedroom she’ll use it and that’s not shaming that’s just pointing out she’s a lazy hole
 
Just putting my 2 Bob worth in here. I don't think anyone has mum shamed, just commenting on what she says and does. There's no getting away from the facts that she lies in her bed all day and actively avoids any quality time with her 2 oldest boys. If she chooses to put herself online then her parenting styles are going to be talked about.

I don't begrudge anyone a lie in, especially with a newborn but Aimee has always lay about in bed even before she was pregnant, the kids have previously missed school because she couldn't be arsed to get up and take them, I'm not mum shaming, I'm stating a fact.

There have been posts on here that I don't like but i just ignore them, we're not here to tell other tricias how to think and what to post and we're not expected to like or love every post either.

Anyway Tricias happy Monday ❤
 
She said herself they were advised by the midwife to wake newborn Callie for middle of the night breastfeeds, but chose not to. So she knows that’s the advice. If a baby is ebf it is really unusual that they could go that long without a feed. Impossible to know as well, but he did seem a wee bit jaundiced, so even if he was getting over that (my second was the same, just a funny colour, no treatment needed), it’s all the more reason to follow the advice of a healthcare professional within the first few days of his life. Usually midwives are keen to track their weight too, to make sure they don’t lose too much from their birth weight. If she’s lucky enough that he sleeps through in a few weeks that’s amazing, but he’s days old.

I’m all for following instincts, but I think her instincts are all about what is easy for her, and not what’s best for her kids.

The disregard for safe sleep info chills me. Why is she so cavalier about that? It’s not opinion or trends, it’s hard science. Same with her not waking up to check on him - in the first few weeks it only takes a couple of hours before your boobs ache and leak and you realise your baby needs to feed, so you check on them. The frequency of feeding for newborns is a natural protective measure, I can’t believe how poorly informed and smug she is.
 
Have to agree with most of what's said, I don't think it's mum shaming, we all know she's a lazy bastard that would lie in bed on her phone all day every day so why pretend lying in bed for hours breastfeeding is such a drama like she's oh so desperate to do housework...... That said nothing wrong with staying in bed all day with a newborn when dads there to look after the other kids and house but everything she says and does is for content and attention so we can all see right through the super mum act, it's also not mum shaming pointing out things that she does that's unsafe and as a mother of 4 should know better, that ridiculous blanket thing that had baby looking like a burrito for a start and lying so close to the edge of the bed in that Moses basket when a perfectly safe crib is 6feet away, it's not because she doesn't know better it's just what makes her life easier and when it comes to newborns that's not a risk anybody should be taking!

Also so predictable with the underwear postpartum photos 🙄 yawn!
 
Whats the 411 said:
I think there’s probably all times where we read a thread and think ok, that’s a bit far.

But it’s an anonymous gossip site and that’s the way the cookie crumbles.

I saw a good bit of advice on another thread last week that was “maybe if you’re feeling triggered, it would be good to take some time away” 💞
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Lol not triggered at all. In the same way that we don't have Aimee spouting shite without calling her out, I'm not going to read shite on here from other Tricia's and not say anything.

I was referring to a specific few posts where girls were stating their experience as gospel, as if they are the oracles of breastfeeding.

Aimee is still providing genuine eye roll worthy content so imo no need to slate her cos her baby slept through the night and she doesn't set an alarm every night just in case that happens.
 
Dc8p said:
Lol not triggered at all. In the same way that we don't have Aimee spouting shite without calling her out, I'm not going to read shite on here from other Tricia's and not say anything.

I was referring to a specific few posts where girls were stating their experience as gospel, as if they are the oracles of breastfeeding.

Aimee is still providing genuine eye roll worthy content so imo no need to slate her cos her baby slept through the night and she doesn't set an alarm every night just in case that happens.
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Scroll on if u don’t like it then. So in past ppl have called her names ie fat etc which i do not agree with so I just don’t like or comment so I don’t know why u r so triggered by ppls commenting on her baby sleeping all night of bf?? But not when ppl r actually being nasty about her looks etc no post calling them out. Strange. A mum of 4 should know by now what to do when it comes to feeding. if we don’t believe what she says that is our opinion scroll on and yes us who have bf multiple children so know a thing or 2 about it
 
Dc8p said:
Lol not triggered at all. In the same way that we don't have Aimee spouting shite without calling her out, I'm not going to read shite on here from other Tricia's and not say anything.

I was referring to a specific few posts where girls were stating their experience as gospel, as if they are the oracles of breastfeeding.

Aimee is still providing genuine eye roll worthy content so imo no need to slate her cos her baby slept through the night and she doesn't set an alarm every night just in case that happens.
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Oracles of breastfeeding - no bother 😂 stating scientific facts re breastfeeding, speaking from experience of breastfeeding 4 babies myself (and still doing so), as well as many other mums with breastfeeding experience (good or bad) on here does not mean anyone assumes to know it all but certainly do know a thing or two!! I think you’ll find you’re the one assuming to be some sort of breastfeeding wonder by the sounds of it! Because from what I’ve read, no one else does. Simply calling Aimee out for the fraud she is not mum shaming either. I definitely get the feeling you’re triggered by the subject despite your denial.
 
Dc8p said:
Lol not triggered at all. In the same way that we don't have Aimee spouting shite without calling her out, I'm not going to read shite on here from other Tricia's and not say anything.

I was referring to a specific few posts where girls were stating their experience as gospel, as if they are the oracles of breastfeeding.

Aimee is still providing genuine eye roll worthy content so imo no need to slate her cos her baby slept through the night and she doesn't set an alarm every night just in case that happens.
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Wasn’t aiming it specifically at you Dc8P. But maybe triggered isn’t the right word. I meant more if you don’t like what you’re reading enough to call people out for what they are saying, rather than scrolling by, don’t read it.

For example, I haven’t read probably 40% of this thread cos maws talking about their personal experiences and other maws saying they are talking shite doesn’t interest me.
 
Whats the 411 said:
Wasn’t aiming it specifically at you Dc8P. But maybe triggered isn’t the right word. I meant more if you don’t like what you’re reading enough to call people out for what they are saying, rather than scrolling by, don’t read it.

For example, I haven’t read probably 40% of this thread cos maws talking about their personal experiences and other maws saying they are talking shite doesn’t interest me.
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To be fair I feel the same and don’t actually like to make it personal, so it’ll be the last from me 😂 just annoying how valid points are more offensive to some than calling her or her kids horrible names! But like others, I just scroll on.
 
I think the other day in the basket she did wrap him but not tight enough, he was perfectly fine he just wanted to be held so Aimee took this as ohh my goodness guys can't get anything done I'll just need sit here and hold him. (Which isn't good because he's just going to slightly moan and she will straight away pick him up). Then she probably told Kyle he was screaming place down so I couldn't get anything done.
Nobody is mum shaming we've all agree on things she does or says aren't right there is about 60 plus of us but always 1 that doesn't agree which makes me think is mother earth herself or someone who personally knows her 😅.
One night she gets no sleep because she's Soo worried about him then next thing she's slept right through? She makes it up as she goes along.
If you husband is saying bet you don't tidy, bet you don't get out of bed etc then clearly what were saying is true and facts.
Can't believe she left a 9 year old to look after a baby while she went away, anything goes wrong (god forbid) Kaiden would have to live with that take the basket into bathroom wit you or wash when husband is home? Stupidity at it's best with Skanky maw.
 
Dc8p said:
Lol not triggered at all. In the same way that we don't have Aimee spouting shite without calling her out, I'm not going to read shite on here from other Tricia's and not say anything.

I was referring to a specific few posts where girls were stating their experience as gospel, as if they are the oracles of breastfeeding.

Aimee is still providing genuine eye roll worthy content so imo no need to slate her cos her baby slept through the night and she doesn't set an alarm every night just in case that happens.
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Most likely someone who didn’t bf and it is touchy for u and make out us mums who did think we know if all or are oracles of breastfeeding as u put it. If u know u know 🤣
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a1234567xx said:
Also if she was actually exclusively breastfeeding she would 10000000 percent have woke up with the sorest leaking tits known to man so she talks pure pish
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Yes and no pain or discomfort at all in the first week! I was in agony cabage leaves and all.
 
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You’rehavingalaugh said:
Who was it said the staff at Onthank primary were all talking about her? Those weans are not at Onthank as that’s not the uniform!
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I don't want to say their school even though she's shared the uniform and it's so easy to find out but their not even near a school in Onthank their school is about 10 mins away.
They've made out like her kids were at that school or could be staff also know of her from social media and is just spoke about that school. I do remember someone asked what was said I don't think they replied can't even remember the username either but I do remember they said about Onthank, bit strange tbh.
 
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