Take dad out of the picture for a moment and just focus on t her, her even wanting strangers to be walking around with a top with a picture of her own son on is just weird, dead or alive, how triggering can that be, the huns who buy these tops are even weirder to me (she is doing it to make money) why would they want to walk around with a top like that, it makes no sense to me at all, its morbid, so they are just as bad as her for enabling her behaviour. Not even going to get started on where J is buried and her inviting strangers to visit, she has no respect for that little boy and she has no respect for all the people that are buried there or their family.
I can just imagine the moment she thought to herself my son was just 3 years, 9 months and 5 days old, for me it would kill me emotionally and mentally, but her it was oh 395 with pound signs flashing.
I cant imagine losing one of my children and I really want to think she is hurting, not out of malice but hurting for her loss, we all grieve in different ways, there is not a time or label for it, but the way she is portaging herself on sm just isn't making her look very good. I follow the lush ptwm and she is the lowest of the low but I cant even imagine her going this low.
As for the car, it makes me think she decided to go for a cemetery a bit harder to get to so she could cry about losing her car, pre-planned.
I could go on but its being pretty much said by you others.