Thenursemum #6 GP, it’s me, it’s Kathy, On the phone again... So many vooooooooooms

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bagpuss17278 said:
She’s really made my blood boil with that bitchy comment. I’ve replied and not been as restrained as before. Blocking imminent I feel.


Totally agree. I claim what I need for my boy. Not a penny more. Any extras like free carers tickets we only use if really needed.

She’s deleted her last comment and my reply. She must delete any negative comments she gets to make it look like everyone agrees with her 😡
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For someone who gets that many notifications and DMs she cant keep up, shes noticed your response pretty quick to be able to delete it. Wished I'd have seen it 😂 Says alot that she has removed her own comment too, she doesnt want people to see her bitchy side. It's clear as day she is reading these threads now after tonight. Have you seen her reply to someone else where she said nobody will catch her saying theres anything wrong with J nowadays. She has selective memory skills, I'll give her that. She should remember what shes said today next time shes crying about keiras listing everything she claims is wrong with him or telling everyone hes different to others and that's why he deserves more.
 
She absolutely makes me so angry. Still struggling to understand why she STILL gets carers. I don’t actually think she realises how amazing Jaxon is doing. My daughter is very similar to him mobility wise. She is also profoundly deaf. She cannot communicate and doesn’t understand most things. (She started a SEN school in September so is coming on leaps and bounds). My daughter doesn’t even get high rate care for DLA let alone carers most nights. She’s an actual twit. She needs to realise how amazing he actually is.

Also, maybe it’s just me, but the ‘what’s wrong’ thing, yeah okay it’s not the best way to word, but I honestly don’t know what else could be said? People may just want to educate themselves and understand. I would rather that & them understand than feel like they are walking on eggshells around my daughter. And my daughter doesn’t have an exact diagnosis either she was just born at 26 weeks and there were complications along the way.

Kathleen thinks she’s raising awareness, but she isn’t.
 
aalmaalm said:
She absolutely makes me so angry. Still struggling to understand why she STILL gets carers. I don’t actually think she realises how amazing Jaxon is doing. My daughter is very similar to him mobility wise. She is also profoundly deaf. She cannot communicate and doesn’t understand most things. (She started a SEN school in September so is coming on leaps and bounds). My daughter doesn’t even get high rate care for DLA let alone carers most nights. She’s an actual twit. She needs to realise how amazing he actually is.

Also, maybe it’s just me, but the ‘what’s wrong’ thing, yeah okay it’s not the best way to word, but I honestly don’t know what else could be said? People may just want to educate themselves and understand. I would rather that & them understand than feel like they are walking on eggshells around my daughter. And my daughter doesn’t have an exact diagnosis either she was just born at 26 weeks and there were complications along the way.

Kathleen thinks she’s raising awareness, but she isn’t.
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She’s carrying on with whatever is best to suit her narrative. To suit/fund the world she has created for herself. Regardless of what she *thinks* she is doing to support or raise awareness, it’s all about her. Overall she see’s herself as the victim and the one who suffers. The more people ask questions, the greater her chances of being caught out and the lifestyle she’s manifested for herself ending.
 
aalmaalm said:
She absolutely makes me so angry. Still struggling to understand why she STILL gets carers. I don’t actually think she realises how amazing Jaxon is doing. My daughter is very similar to him mobility wise. She is also profoundly deaf. She cannot communicate and doesn’t understand most things. (She started a SEN school in September so is coming on leaps and bounds). My daughter doesn’t even get high rate care for DLA let alone carers most nights. She’s an actual twit. She needs to realise how amazing he actually is.

Also, maybe it’s just me, but the ‘what’s wrong’ thing, yeah okay it’s not the best way to word, but I honestly don’t know what else could be said? People may just want to educate themselves and understand. I would rather that & them understand than feel like they are walking on eggshells around my daughter. And my daughter doesn’t have an exact diagnosis either she was just born at 26 weeks and there were complications along the way.

Kathleen thinks she’s raising awareness, but she isn’t.
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This is exactly how I had responded to her last night before my reply was deleted. How are we supposed to educate people if they are too scared to ask questions for fear of offending someone? Apparently I’m being ableist and allowing people to be insensitive and intrusive. What she fails to realise is that, unless you have a child with additional needs (I, personally don’t use the word disabled as I told her last night as I feel it is a negative word but I don’t get offended by people that do), it’s not something that you think about all that much. I wonder how many people have actually asked her this?
 
I too wanted to throw my phone across the room when watching her latest ted talk,she is a danger to the sen community.How dare she demand that nobody should ask ‘What is wrong’ when all she has done for 3 years is bang on and on about what is wrong,nothing is ever right for her
I have several hidden disabilities and if a stranger asked me ‘What’s wrong?’ I would interpret the question as coming from a place of care and empathy.When I see my GP or if you were to go to hospital the Dr will often use the opening line of ‘What’s wrong today?’ it is not rude! So in future if a dr asks me ‘What’s wrong?’ I am supposed to say ‘Please don’t use that word,ask me what my diagnoses are!’ Twatty twit twit...
 
YomAsal said:
She's actually written 'cutler' recommendations. In anyone else I'd assume this was a joke but I wonder if she thinks that's actually a word
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The only other place I see it is a hilarious account called hunsnet and our Kath is defo a hun
 

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Spyglass said:
There are plenty of bamboo backed g tube pad covers... this is Kathy who won't use medical dressings on prescription that she doesn't have to pay for she's not going to put her hand in her pocket and buy something she isn't going to use.
There's a lot she could be doing to help her son but chooses not to. Amount of times she defends her care towards his tube being left in and it's a load of bullshit. She just keeps doing the same neglect and ignores any questions and advice raised because helping his site heal gives her no content and no means to try keep kieras. Same as his medications and feeds if she listened to advice she'd quit messing around with them and give him the medication he needs for stomach acid. She's a lazy, pathetic mother or should I say carer and puts her own needs before her sons every single time.
As someone whose watched since she started her account, filming him at his hospital cot side her neglect has been a constant throughout his life.
She picks and chooses when her sons disability is beneficial for her pocket and ego. Creating her inspirational single mother persona of a disabled medically complex child. She cares nothing of that boys well being, feelings and privacy. How she thinks she can talk at people and preach thinking her opinion is gospel whilst constantly showing what a huge hypocrit she is with the vile ableism attitude she has is beyond me.
I don't look at much anymore because she just boils my piss. The desperation to be someone relevant oozes out of her.
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Surely if she got carers based on J's peg site being sore and inflamed, then said carers would advise her how to look after it then carers wouldn't be necessary. That girl has my head done in.
 
squeezing out the soaking wet dressing has finally tipped me over the edge into unfollowing her. That poor wee boy. I will just hope and pray that the kieras and his school are on top of what is actually going on and he will get the help and support he actually needs versus what that dopey mother of his thinks he needs.
 
Livingmybestlife28 said:
Dress does nothing for her , why would you do an add and have your boobs hanging out side if your dress looks minging
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Wow! The difference is unbelievable. She may be slightly screwed by the new ASA law that bans Influencers from using filters /apps when posting ads for any beauty product.
I predict an A@E trip in the next few weeks,infected tube site ( all to score high on his Kiera’s assessment) or Potassium...
 
I’m not a fan of knocking how she dresses because each to their own and I think anyone should wear whatever they feel happy in. However, I’m not sure near enough having your boob out on a hallmark ad about caring whilst having your toddler on your knee is the right tone. You can feel her trying so hard to portray things and she always misses the mark. Also she looks knackered, for the first time ever I think!
 
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