Thenursemum #6 GP, it’s me, it’s Kathy, On the phone again... So many vooooooooooms

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I’m pretty sure if no one acknowledged her child’s additional needs then she’d complain everyone is ignorant. I’m also pretty sure I saw her not too long back saying she appreciates people asking questions about his condition/s & needs so she can educate.
That said, there’s nothing really to ask when she exposes him daily for the gram highlighting his disabilities & additional needs and having a good old laugh at Js expense. She doesn’t deserve that boy and someone should take him away for his own sake and safety
 
She wouldn’t be happy whatever way you asked her would she.
In reality someone who asks, is just trying to educate themselves, they don’t need a lecture, or belittling when they ask in some way you don’t necessarily like..

As someone who has had 2 kids, every time someone sees you they always ask “how long you got left?” Because they can’t ask if your nipples have started leaking or if you piss when you lean the wrong way. They’re just trying to be polite.

Tiktok unsafe link https://tattle.life/threads/19920/

just watch the video.. sums it up really 🤥😂
 
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bagpuss17278 said:
Didn’t get blocked. But did get a condescending reply. Not everyone gets as easily offended as you Munchleen. I’d rather people are aware of my sons issues than they ignore or avoid him.


Love that a disabled adult has told her that she doesn’t need an able bodied person speaking for her and she doesn’t mind being asked what’s wrong with her.
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😂😂😂 you’ll be blocked soon as she reads here and sees your name
 
bagpuss17278 said:
Didn’t get blocked. But did get a condescending reply. Not everyone gets as easily offended as you Munchleen. I’d rather people are aware of my sons issues than they ignore or avoid him.


Love that a disabled adult has told her that she doesn’t need an able bodied person speaking for her and she doesn’t mind being asked what’s wrong with her.
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If she comments again you should ask her why she finds it offensive for people to ask her what's wrong when shes based her whole brand on having a child with 'something wrong' and is earning a living from it. How is it right to build a living out of your childs disabilities but wrong for people to ask what's wrong with him when you're making money based on telling everyone somethings wrong. Shes been on tv, radio and in the press telling everyone hes different to other children, has greater needs than any other child, that he has multiple things wrong with him. She crys over keiras whilst telling everyone all the things "wrong" with him, she has only started recognising his abilities and showing gratitude because of us here on tattle. Now shes learning from people on here and trying to use it as content. She is quick enough to tell everyone what they're doing wrong but never looks at herself and realises that she is one of the most ableist accounts on insta. She believes she is Js voice until he has one, he has a voice already but is not old enough to be vocal about his opinions on something like sharing his medical history with everyone, nothing to do with his abilities to communicate. Even if he can never communicate for himself, it doesnt give her the right to communicate what she believes and claim it to be on behalf of him. Word it differently and explain she doesnt like it being said, not that it's wrong to say it, in many cases it's right for people to ask, like the person who is disabled who commented, but in some cases it is wrong to ask. That makes it very hard for neurotypical people and they shouldn't be shouted at for getting it wrong, it's about educating people, embracing curiosity as a symbol somebody is open to learning. She tells everyone what she thinks is "wrong" with him, she is two faced, self centred and delusional. She hasnt got a clue about advocating for the sen community.
Edited to add ive just seen her latest comment to you. Sarcastic or what! Why on earth would you ask that other lady if she's disabled when her insta handle is based on her disability. Shes clearly reading here and has seen you are off tattle. Her attitude stinks.
 
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Abettermumma said:
Surely she could modify a breast pad/bib/sanitary product so that it could cover the button and soak up any excess water that leaks out. Just do the minimum rather than just leave him in wet clothes..
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In case she does read here .... she should get some of these, there are tons available online, I am sure she could get some with characters that J enjoys
(I have no connection to this, or any other sellers, I just did a quick google to see if such a thing was available)
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There are plenty of bamboo backed g tube pad covers... this is Kathy who won't use medical dressings on prescription that she doesn't have to pay for she's not going to put her hand in her pocket and buy something she isn't going to use.
There's a lot she could be doing to help her son but chooses not to. Amount of times she defends her care towards his tube being left in and it's a load of bullshit. She just keeps doing the same neglect and ignores any questions and advice raised because helping his site heal gives her no content and no means to try keep kieras. Same as his medications and feeds if she listened to advice she'd quit messing around with them and give him the medication he needs for stomach acid. She's a lazy, pathetic mother or should I say carer and puts her own needs before her sons every single time.
As someone whose watched since she started her account, filming him at his hospital cot side her neglect has been a constant throughout his life.
She picks and chooses when her sons disability is beneficial for her pocket and ego. Creating her inspirational single mother persona of a disabled medically complex child. She cares nothing of that boys well being, feelings and privacy. How she thinks she can talk at people and preach thinking her opinion is gospel whilst constantly showing what a huge hypocrit she is with the vile ableism attitude she has is beyond me.
I don't look at much anymore because she just boils my piss. The desperation to be someone relevant oozes out of her.
 
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There are plenty of bamboo backed g tube pad covers... this is Kathy who won't use medical dressings on prescription that she doesn't have to pay for she's not going to put her hand in her pocket and buy something she isn't going to use.
There's a lot she could be doing to help her son but chooses not to. Amount of times she defends her care towards his tube being left in and it's a load of bullshit. She just keeps doing the same neglect and ignores any questions and advice raised because helping his site heal gives her no content and no means to try keep kieras. Same as his medications and feeds if she listened to advice she'd quit messing around with them and give him the medication he needs for stomach acid. She's a lazy, pathetic mother or should I say carer and puts her own needs before her sons every single time.
As someone whose watched since she started her account, filming him at his hospital cot side her neglect has been a constant throughout his life.
She picks and chooses when her sons disability is beneficial for her pocket and ego. Creating her inspirational single mother persona of a disabled medically complex child. She cares nothing of that boys well being, feelings and privacy. How she thinks she can talk at people and preach thinking her opinion is gospel whilst constantly showing what a huge hypocrit she is with the vile ableism attitude she has is beyond me.
I don't look at much anymore because she just boils my piss. The desperation to be someone relevant oozes out of her.
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Us in the send community hate the whole "golden ticket" label that is put upon us if we attempt the EHC plan process or challenge decisions. I hate mentioning the golden ticket argument because of the damage it causes, but It should be reassigned to parents like her who use their child as a golden ticket to fundraise a luxury lifestyle and become a so called name on insta. The more she posts the more she disgusts me with the damage she causes to the rest of the send community.
 
Sendparent said:
If she comments again you should ask her why she finds it offensive for people to ask her what's wrong when shes based her whole brand on having a child with 'something wrong' and is earning a living from it. How is it right to build a living out of your childs disabilities but wrong for people to ask what's wrong with him when you're making money based on telling everyone somethings wrong. Shes been on tv, radio and in the press telling everyone hes different to other children, has greater needs than any other child, that he has multiple things wrong with him. She crys over keiras whilst telling everyone all the things "wrong" with him, she has only started recognising his abilities and showing gratitude because of us here on tattle. Now shes learning from people on here and trying to use it as content. She is quick enough to tell everyone what they're doing wrong but never looks at herself and realises that she is one of the most ableist accounts on insta. She believes she is Js voice until he has one, he has a voice already but is not old enough to be vocal about his opinions on something like sharing his medical history with everyone, nothing to do with his abilities to communicate. Even if he can never communicate for himself, it doesnt give her the right to communicate what she believes and claim it to be on behalf of him. Word it differently and explain she doesnt like it being said, not that it's wrong to say it, in many cases it's right for people to ask, like the person who is disabled who commented, but in some cases it is wrong to ask. That makes it very hard for neurotypical people and they shouldn't be shouted at for getting it wrong, it's about educating people, embracing curiosity as a symbol somebody is open to learning. She tells everyone what she thinks is "wrong" with him, she is two faced, self centred and delusional. She hasnt got a clue about advocating for the sen community.
Edited to add ive just seen her latest comment to you. Sarcastic or what! Why on earth would you ask that other lady if she's disabled when her insta handle is based on her disability. Shes clearly reading here and has seen you are off tattle. Her attitude stinks.
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She’s really made my blood boil with that bitchy comment. I’ve replied and not been as restrained as before. Blocking imminent I feel.

Sendparent said:
Us in the send community hate the whole "golden ticket" label that is put upon us if we attempt the EHC plan process or challenge decisions. I hate mentioning the golden ticket argument because of the damage it causes, but It should be reassigned to parents like her who use their child as a golden ticket to fundraise a luxury lifestyle and become a so called name on insta. The more she posts the more she disgusts me with the damage she causes to the rest of the send community.
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Totally agree. I claim what I need for my boy. Not a penny more. Any extras like free carers tickets we only use if really needed.

She’s deleted her last comment and my reply. She must delete any negative comments she gets to make it look like everyone agrees with her 😡
 
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