Thenursemum #3 Last Christmas you paid for my Amazon Cart but the very next day Kiera’s were taken away.

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What happens to old medical items? Like his wheelchair, walker or specialist chair - when he gets a new one, is the old one returned to the NHS and passed on to someone else who needs it or is it one person only, NHS won't take it back so would have to donate /sell it on privately? Just wondering if the stuff she's been given will ever actually be used properly by someone who would benefit from them.
 
OwlWatcher23 said:
What happens to old medical items? Like his wheelchair, walker or specialist chair - when he gets a new one, is the old one returned to the NHS and passed on to someone else who needs it or is it one person only, NHS won't take it back so would have to donate /sell it on privately? Just wondering if the stuff she's been given will ever actually be used properly by someone who would benefit from them.
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All medical equipment gets reused except moulded wheelchairs. Equipment Services loan out items and they then collect them once outgrown/not needed. Clean them. Then loan them out to another child.
Moulded wheelchairs obviously are fit around each child so they get destroyed.
You arnt allowed to spray paint, alter any equipment. You sign a disclosure when you take a piece of equipment.
 
Who else noticed he’s locked in his bed/cell while she has a shower? He’s 3. He should at least be in the bathroom with her OR shower when he’s asleep (yes K we all have to do this not just the single parents) or even shower at the same time (again we have ALL had to co bathe with our children at some point) or is it just not the same if it’s not the shard?.
So again. 24/7 around the clock care or he will die but if I need to wash my hair well that’s another story.
 
OwlWatcher23 said:
What happens to old medical items? Like his wheelchair, walker or specialist chair - when he gets a new one, is the old one returned to the NHS and passed on to someone else who needs it or is it one person only, NHS won't take it back so would have to donate /sell it on privately? Just wondering if the stuff she's been given will ever actually be used properly by someone who would benefit from them.
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His wheelchair is moulded to fit his body. A mould seat is cast usually once a year for growth but depends on how quickly a child grows. There are 3 layers of foam inserts in the mould, which you take out once you need more room. On your final insert the OT then refers you to the wheelchair clinic to be recast. This is done so you get recast before your child fully out grows the mould seat so you arnt left without anything.....
Kaytee has left it far too late to get in touch with the OT to let her know she's on the last liner, so he's now totally out grown his wheelchair.... And of course it's the wheelchair clinics fault 🙄

A mould costs usually a grand. That's just the mould. You the have the wheelchair base.

She hasn't used that wheelchair much at all. A moulded chair helps hip growth, making sure the spine doesn't curve... Etc. She's used a basic cheap pushchair for the last few years. She uses an ikea high chair in the house.

Waste of money. The only reason she's kicking up a fuss now isn't because of her sons bad posture or comfort... Its because transport need him in a wheelchair to bolt the chair down in the bus. A wheelchair is crash tested in a vehicle, they have metal loops on for clamps to bolt the chair to the floor of a bus/wav. Transport and school will of commented on him being sat in a chair he doesn't fit in. It's unsafe.

Thats the only reason. She doesn't give a tit about his posture or comfort otherwise she'd of done something a long time ago. She'd of made sure he uses that wheelchair alone. That she notifys the OT etc when down to the second liner. She's a useless SEN mum.
 
If he goes on transport now how is he getting there if his pushchair doesn’t clamp and they’re not allowed to lift him into a chair? Does anybody remember she kicked off on stories about it got rushed through for an appointment with wheelchair services that normal people have to wait a while to get one for and now one is in order 🙄
 
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His wheelchair is moulded to fit his body. A mould seat is cast usually once a year for growth but depends on how quickly a child grows. There are 3 layers of foam inserts in the mould, which you take out once you need more room. On your final insert the OT then refers you to the wheelchair clinic to be recast. This is done so you get recast before your child fully out grows the mould seat so you arnt left without anything.....
Kaytee has left it far too late to get in touch with the OT to let her know she's on the last liner, so he's now totally out grown his wheelchair.... And of course it's the wheelchair clinics fault 🙄

A mould costs usually a grand. That's just the mould. You the have the wheelchair base.

She hasn't used that wheelchair much at all. A moulded chair helps hip growth, making sure the spine doesn't curve... Etc. She's used a basic cheap pushchair for the last few years. She uses an ikea high chair in the house.

Waste of money. The only reason she's kicking up a fuss now isn't because of her sons bad posture or comfort... Its because transport need him in a wheelchair to bolt the chair down in the bus. A wheelchair is crash tested in a vehicle, they have metal loops on for clamps to bolt the chair to the floor of a bus/wav. Transport and school will of commented on him being sat in a chair he doesn't fit in. It's unsafe.

Thats the only reason. She doesn't give a tit about his posture or comfort otherwise she'd of done something a long time ago. She'd of made sure he uses that wheelchair alone. That she notifys the OT etc when down to the second liner. She's a useless SEN mum.
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She’s a useless mum all together, definitely does not have her sons best interests at heart and uses him for financial gain. What mother does that?!
 
CoffeeAndSenLife said:
If he goes on transport now how is he getting there if his pushchair doesn’t clamp and they’re not allowed to lift him into a chair? Does anybody remember she kicked off on stories about it got rushed through for an appointment with wheelchair services that normal people have to wait a while to get one for and now one is in order 🙄
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Does the chair he has now lock in? I would guess he’s going in the one that he doesn’t fit in properly and the school have pointed out he’s outgrown it. Otherwise I would expect she wouldn’t have bothered.


AreYouJoking? said:
Who else noticed he’s locked in his bed/cell while she has a shower? He’s 3. He should at least be in the bathroom with her OR shower when he’s asleep (yes K we all have to do this not just the single parents) or even shower at the same time (again we have ALL had to co bathe with our children at some point) or is it just not the same if it’s not the shard?.
So again. 24/7 around the clock care or he will die but if I need to wash my hair well that’s another story.
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Exactly this!!! She always has time for makeup and hair done up. She honestly hasn’t got the first bloody idea what it really is to be a mother at all. Send mum or otherwise.
 
CoffeeAndSenLife said:
If he goes on transport now how is he getting there if his pushchair doesn’t clamp and they’re not allowed to lift him into a chair? Does anybody remember she kicked off on stories about it got rushed through for an appointment with wheelchair services that normal people have to wait a while to get one for and now one is in order 🙄
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The pushchair won't be used as there's no way to clamp it down to the vehicle and it isn't crash tested. They won't lift him as its health and safety if they hurt themselves or if they hurt J when transferring him. She isn't taking him which is the best out come here. Any good mother would say OK I will take him to school and pick him up whilst we wait for a new wheelchair.... But no.
She's sending him say in the ill fitting wheelchair. Transport staff or school will have flagged it up with her that she needs to get it sorted immediately but they obviously haven't refused.
Im actually surprised J hasn't been given a wheelchair he can use himself. He seems really capable of using his arms. If I was kaytee I'd be asking for a wheelchair that j can spin the wheels himself to be able to get around and be more independent as he's obviously very very capable.
Sadly I don't think she tries to help develop him. A lot of parents fight for things to better their children. They research equipment. Ask their OT if they thing a self propelling chair maybe something they can be working towards.. I get non of that with her.
There's no... Come on J let's get you everything you needs to help you progress. The reason he's done so well of late I believe is the schools input and the footsteps place she goes to. Pushing him. Kaytee never seems to do anything with him unless it's for an Ad.

And let's face it.... If she wanted the best for him she's of used that fundraised money for private therapies, for equipment. Not every designer handbag under the sun.
She did nothing for that money. The majority of SEN families hold auction nights, they do raffles, they do a sponsored run, swim, climb. They sell tshirts, badges, diaries.
She couldn't wait for the OT to supply the chair (they would of) and took to stories ranting and complaining. Then sat on her arse as others set up go fund mes on top of her own and raked in the cash.

A lot of sen families HATE setting up fundraisers. They hate asking... They don't want to be seen as a begger. Even more so now Kaytee has tarnished the SEN community. People already have said they won't ever give to fundraisers after her fraudulent ways. It's not fair on others.

She had no problem putting that go fund me up or accepting the funds from others. I think she's always known she'd fundraise..
There's no.... Shame in her. She doesn't care clearly that the money raised for her son.... Was used on a hot tub (I won't go into why it's actually bad for him) that she's left to go green. She's left the water to congeal and clog the pipes. She may have really damaged the system for leaving it untreated. Does she care? No. Instead she talks about it on stories like its just another chore for her. Another job to add to her list sh eloves writing down and showing everyone.

All that money people have gave and that's how much she appreciates that help. Not looking after something that supposedly is life changing for her son. He NEEDS it. If he needed it that badly she'd of looked after that tub.
 
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PeaGreen1 said:
Does the chair he has now lock in? I would guess he’s going in the one that he doesn’t fit in properly and the school have pointed out he’s outgrown it. Otherwise I would expect she wouldn’t have bothered.




Exactly this!!! She always has time for makeup and hair done up. She honestly hasn’t got the first bloody idea what it really is to be a mother at all. Send mum or otherwise.
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Exactly!! It drives me mad she always has perfect nails and full face of make up. I'm a mum to a disabled child and a three year old. Some weeks I'm lucky if I get chance to wash my hair let alone anything else.
 
noobie123 said:
Spending your “hard earned Instagram ad money” to buy yourself some more followers kaytee??
Or is it your sons go fund me money that’s buying your fake followers instead 🤔

I see ya 👋🏻
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It just freaks me out HOW MANY OF YOUR FOLLOWERS ARE PAEDOS KAYTEEEEE?!! Oh you don’t know and don’t care that your EXPLOITING your son for likes and hearts and free samples. This THIS is what’s disgusts me about “influencers”
 
J is making such huge strides with his development. It’s amazing to see. With the latest videos, if J is able to drink out of the bottle like, would he not be able to use a little open cup or a 360? He’s got the right action and they don’t require sucking, just slight pressure on the edge and the water comes out. I’m genuinely ask here, as I don’t have personal experience with this. But it seems like it would be a better option than buying lots of bottles as theyre reusable. Better money and environment wise. But maybe that wouldn’t work?
 
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