TheNurseMum #11 my tears are not what you thinky, come down to the party and let’s get kinky

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Surely spending a gofundme/JustGiving money on anything but what it was raised for is illegal? Isn’t it obtaining money by deception? I thought there were rules around it. People who donate in good faith have a right to know where the money has been spent, don’t they?
A lot of people on the Ashley Cain thread have looked into this and basically, although morally reprehensible, it’s not illegal. Some who donated to baby Azaylia requested refunds on the basis they donated to fund treatment rather than anything for her parents but a lot of people were turned down.
 
Seriously???? Why in the hell are we glorifying the Frazzles of starvation??
 

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Previously labelled herself a NurseMum when she wasn’t even qualified as a Nurse and the Mum she was wasn’t a good one.
Now she needs another label so is calling herself a Grieving Mum.
She has to have a gimmick, a pull, a brand that she knows will get her attention. And it’s always with the intention of getting all the DM’s, all the advert engagements. She is so so lonely but wants all the fake love.
 
Previously labelled herself a NurseMum when she wasn’t even qualified as a Nurse and the Mum she was wasn’t a good one.
Now she needs another label so is calling herself a Grieving Mum.
She has to have a gimmick, a pull, a brand that she knows will get her attention. And it’s always with the intention of getting all the DM’s, all the advert engagements. She is so so lonely but wants all the fake love.
The gay grieving mum
 
Very weird sheep she’s got , looks like she went clubbing at some point ( recent stories ) so she’s not grieving that much is she
Ah well she gets dissociation you see.... that's when/why she can holiday, do make up, go clubbing, drive around in her merc, plan the ball, beg freebies for said ball... her dissociation gives her enough of a break from grieving to look like she's actually doing OK. She's such a very odd, odd character. I mean, the brass neck to story about frazzles after j's history with them.
 
Very weird sheep she’s got , looks like she went clubbing at some point ( recent stories ) so she’s not grieving that much is she
I don't want to stick up for anyone here but I can tell you 100% clubbing does not mean someone isn't grieving. Neither does planning a ball or getting dressed and wearing make up. Grief isn't something rhat cripples you 24/7 even though you may feel hurt 24/7 you can still act like normal.
 
I don't want to stick up for anyone here but I can tell you 100% clubbing does not mean someone isn't grieving. Neither does planning a ball or getting dressed and wearing make up. Grief isn't something rhat cripples you 24/7 even though you may feel hurt 24/7 you can still act like normal.

She puts the act on as much as Ashley cain & his girlfriend 😂😂😂 fakes the lot of them
 
She puts the act on as much as Ashley cain & his girlfriend 😂😂😂 fakes the lot of them
Absolutely I agree they are fake as duck, I just don't think you can say going clubbing means she isn't grieving. I think no matter how much people may not want to admit it she obviously is grieving. No matter how bad of a person she may be it would be impossible not to greive when loosing a child under any circumstance. I don't believe she goes about things the right way and I do think she's scamming people any opportunity she can but I also think she is grieving and it's just childish not to admit that.
 
Absolutely I agree they are fake as duck, I just don't think you can say going clubbing means she isn't grieving. I think no matter how much people may not want to admit it she obviously is grieving. No matter how bad of a person she may be it would be impossible not to greive when loosing a child under any circumstance. I don't believe she goes about things the right way and I do think she's scamming people any opportunity she can but I also think she is grieving and it's just childish not to admit that.

Fair point
 
I don’t think it’s grieving she feels it’s guilt and that feeling of wishing she’d done more, had more and been more. She let J down and I would think she battles with that which then entwines with what she thinks is grief.
Your quiet possibly right but we all feel that way to a degree when we loose someone don't we

Edit to add I really don't know why I'm sticking up for her. I just got annoyed at the comment about her not grieving just cus she's out clubbing. I recently lost someone and on the outside I'm sure people think I'm fine but inside I'm not. So I know as I'm sure many others do that Appearances can be deceiving
 
Your quiet possibly right but we all feel that way to a degree when we loose someone don't we

Edit to add I really don't know why I'm sticking up for her. I just got annoyed at the comment about her not grieving just cus she's out clubbing. I recently lost someone and on the outside I'm sure people think I'm fine but inside I'm not. So I know as I'm sure many others do that Appearances can be deceiving

I totally understand what you’re saying. People can still live life and have grief as it comes in waves. I’m just not sure Kathleen is as normal about it as can be made out to be. We all saw how she treated J, how she behaved and how often she wasn’t actually with him that it makes me think I think she struggles with guilt more than actual grief.

I’ve luckily never lost someone so close to me that my heart has broken. I’ve had miscarriages and that was rough but I know it’s not the same as losing a physical loved one. Maybe I’m being over critical of her but it’s just how I perceive her to be behaving
 
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