Hereforthehonesty
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She's a qualified solicitor apparently so has been to uni.
If you're bringing in 50k between you and aren't having the odd takeaway coffee or a sneaky childfree weekend away though then that's a choice you've made as a couple, not based on income.
Being reasonably logical about it, the two situations are hardly comparable are they.
FYI we do spend money frivolously on the aforementioned but it’s within our means. The point here is whatever you earn (or receive) live within your means. It’s quite simple-But clearly not for Anna. I don’t know? Maybe you are more self aware when you actually have to work hard for your money? But to constantly question why you are not where you expected to be in this stage of life….whilst displaying on the daily 578547 reasons/ways she could improve her circumstances make me shudder :/
We live and breathe this journey with her meanwhile she’s got her Botox and her fenty foundation, her little Italian vacay whilst the forgotten kids are at home probs with another greggs sausage roll. My point being I do not spend this much on MYSELF even though I can afford to because I’m an adult and prioritise financial security over self care -especially to the degree this big headed twit does. Well aware, that’s my choice, yes I could afford the luxuries she spends on herself but I could also afford to replace my car keys if they were lost because I save for unexpected Things.
The begging attitude the poor me show the actual charity she is getting via PayPal is a kick in the teeth for people who live in poverty and without bloody blue cheese, botox and burrata!
I’m aware she has a degree in bullshit, but as you are aware Anna, your always moaning that it doesn’t fit in with you being the main caregiver so perhaps you need a more “ACCESSIBLE” career or your going to continue resenting your poor children forever more. I’m sure your aware the children will continue to need parenting for at least the next 15 years +