The.Yes.Life Abi Jenkins

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Italy2 said:
I find the age difference between Erin and Abi strange to be such close friends. Why did Erin not have close friends of her own age group rather than this Abi who is nearly the age of her mum. Looks a bit like mummy issues. Abi does seem to prey on young vulnerable girls. Creep!!
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I have a friend who is 20 years older than me. She is quite young at heart, but I still don’t think the age gap is a big deal. There’s only 10 years between Abi and Erin.
I think it’s strange that they were so close considering that Abi is now married to Erin’s ex. I think it’s good to have a civil relationship with exes especially when children are involved, but I think Abi has a saviour complex as someone previously said. I do wonder whether Erin was attached to Abi as she was estranged from her mum.
 
I dont think there is anything wrong with age gap friendships but I think Erin and Abi’s relationship seems odd because of the ex and also with how controlling Abi comes across. It seems that Abi was mothering or guiding Erin as such and could have taken the opportunity to give advice to Erin on occasions because Erin lacked that figure in her life. Abi comes across as controlling and one to have the last say in an argument. I don’t know how to explain it but she has the attitude where she is always right and knows best.

MsGilmore said:
I have a friend who is 20 years older than me. She is quite young at heart, but I still don’t think the age gap is a big deal. There’s only 10 years between Abi and Erin.
I think it’s strange that they were so close considering that Abi is now married to Erin’s ex. I think it’s good to have a civil relationship with exes especially when children are involved, but I think Abi has a saviour complex as someone previously said. I do wonder whether Erin was attached to Abi as she was estranged from her mum.
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Why is she lying here? They have already collected money for the funeral now from public donations so she should have mentioned it here rather than be greedy and say you can donate for the boys. Something isn’t right here
 

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I saw her latest Tik Tok referring to having a bad day and being angry about the press. What press? There’s only an article about Erin’s death. I think a) she’s breadcrumbing for attention and b) is trying to get people on side because she knows that she’s being looked into and it’ll only get worse when the sympathy that people have for her dries up. There’s no reason at all that any donations should be going into her PayPal. None. At the very least any donations should be going to Erin’s husband and the father to the boys.

I was shocked when her little car drive for food was to what looked like a Miller and Carter! Who paid for that?

I think I’m at the point where I’m sure she’s a nasty piece of work and I feel so so sorry for Erin’s family.
 
I’ve read every news article I could find reporting on Erin’s death and aside from the fact they are possibly writing articles without permission from Erin’s husband/family, I can’t see anything negative in them or any reason (other than not getting her name mentioned!) that Abi would be so furious at them.
 
Reading between the lines and I may be totally wrong but some of the news reports describe her youngest son’s father as a “hero father” and Erin has publicly blamed him and his family for being drunk when the fire took place in the caravan. Not sure if that’s what she’s refering to. If not, it doesn’t make sense
 
I’ve never invested in a tik toker or anything but Erin’s story really touched me especially losing a child as my family has been through similar. I fell upon Erin and watched her tik toks and I messaged her one day and said her strength after losing her son and her cancer battle was remarkable. She replied with such a lovely sweet message. I won’t disclose what was said but she was just really nice and I feel she was very vulnerable even before losing her son in the fire. I wonder if partners/friends/family used that to their advantage. I still can’t believe a young woman could not only endure losing two children but then got a terminal diagnosis and seemed estranged from her family. She also showed that a terminal diagnosis doesn’t bring the fame and bucket list wishes that other people with cancer seem to get on social. Her journey seemed very raw and real no gifted holidays.!
As for Abi, what hit me most was the thing where she said about visitors. Like she wanted Erin guarded, broke my heart she had no family with her in her final days, regardless of how strained the relationships were. All her family had was updates from a women who disliked Erin up until 2020. I didn’t like how she almost told Erin off for wanting to go to Tesco, she almost seemed angered. Thpost Erin done where she said ‘it’ll be my last time ever leaving the house’ I just couldn’t fathom how she got her head around it
Abi has already said they are having days out, holidays and holidays abroad making memories. Made me wonder how much money was already there and also how much she was planning on getting. That money is for Dan and Erin’s children no one else.! Why does she need to go.?
I get bad vibes about this whole thing and the only people who will be hurt will be the boys. Erin I think made cancer real, it wasn’t posed Instagram pictures from Lapland and Disney. It was Erin at home making scrapbooks for her boys. It could be any of us at any time
 
Mutley98 said:
I’ve never invested in a tik toker or anything but Erin’s story really touched me especially losing a child as my family has been through similar. I fell upon Erin and watched her tik toks and I messaged her one day and said her strength after losing her son and her cancer battle was remarkable. She replied with such a lovely sweet message. I won’t disclose what was said but she was just really nice and I feel she was very vulnerable even before losing her son in the fire. I wonder if partners/friends/family used that to their advantage. I still can’t believe a young woman could not only endure losing two children but then got a terminal diagnosis and seemed estranged from her family. She also showed that a terminal diagnosis doesn’t bring the fame and bucket list wishes that other people with cancer seem to get on social. Her journey seemed very raw and real no gifted holidays.!
As for Abi, what hit me most was the thing where she said about visitors. Like she wanted Erin guarded, broke my heart she had no family with her in her final days, regardless of how strained the relationships were. All her family had was updates from a women who disliked Erin up until 2020. I didn’t like how she almost told Erin off for wanting to go to Tesco, she almost seemed angered. Thpost Erin done where she said ‘it’ll be my last time ever leaving the house’ I just couldn’t fathom how she got her head around it
Abi has already said they are having days out, holidays and holidays abroad making memories. Made me wonder how much money was already there and also how much she was planning on getting. That money is for Dan and Erin’s children no one else.! Why does she need to go.?
I get bad vibes about this whole thing and the only people who will be hurt will be the boys. Erin I think made cancer real, it wasn’t posed Instagram pictures from Lapland and Disney. It was Erin at home making scrapbooks for her boys. It could be any of us at any time
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Also with the money going to HER account she ensures she has control (again) of what Dan can access and that she stays involved.
I wonder with the comment about the press whether she is courting them, almost goading, as SHE wants to be interviewed to get HER name out there even more to raise her profile even more.
She is very self-promoting... on the live she was listing out all the "directorships" she's had, that she had her own pub at 18, how she doesn't NEED the money for herself. I wonder how much of her income sits below the HMRC radar and what benefits she is scamming.
 
Last night’s video was about her feeling unwell but not having time for it because she’s got a funeral and a chapel of rest to organise. Maybe Dan is happy for her to do it but I can’t help think he didn’t get the choice.

The Nurses were back yesterday to say goodbye to Abi and talk about becoming involved in Erin’s Angels. Hope they don’t get into trouble if they were on shift…They’ve also learnt so much from her and Erin - they nursed her but they helped them because they were so honest. Not sure how that’s teaching the Nurses anything as everyone is different and that must be part of the training.

She also said she got a lovely message from someone who had the courage to sit with her dad as he passed away because of her and Erin. Abi said something like “oh I can’t even stop, people need me!” Not sure she had any intention of stopping.

And she needs to change her pyjamas 😂
 
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Also with the money going to HER account she ensures she has control (again) of what Dan can access and that she stays involved.
I wonder with the comment about the press whether she is courting them, almost goading, as SHE wants to be interviewed to get HER name out there even more to raise her profile even more.
She is very self-promoting... on the live she was listing out all the "directorships" she's had, that she had her own pub at 18, how she doesn't NEED the money for herself. I wonder how much of her income sits below the HMRC radar and what benefits she is scamming.
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How did Erin lose a second child ?
 

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I can’t get over how smiley she is in her videos considering her ‘best friend’ died two days ago. She comes across incredibly insincere and so full of self importance! When she said the nurses had learnt from her, my eyes rolled so far to the back of my head that I saw the inside of my own skull! 😂.
I honestly cannot bear the woman.

Also, she said she’s got so much more to share about then end of Erin’s life, which fine, if Erin had agreed to that, but the fact that Erin’s son is 13 and will no doubt have access to social media/TikTok and could potentially come across videos describing his mothers last moments before she died, just seems really insensitive to me. It’s as though updating her TikTok followers and drip feeding information to keep engagement up is her priority and has always been her priority, over the well being of those poor boys who have just lost their mother.
 
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I can’t get over how smiley she is in her videos considering her ‘best friend’ died two days ago. She comes across incredibly insincere and so full of self importance! When she said the nurses had learnt from her, my eyes rolled so far to the back of my head that I saw the inside of my own skull! 😂.
I honestly cannot bear the woman.

Also, she said she’s got so much more to share about then end of Erin’s life, which fine, if Erin had agreed to that, but the fact that Erin’s son is 13 and will no doubt have access to social media/TikTok and could potentially come across videos describing his mothers last moments before she died, just seems really insensitive to me. It’s as though updating her TikTok followers and drip feeding information to keep engagement up is her priority and has always been her priority, over the well being of those poor boys who have just lost their mother.
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I totally agree with this. She is drip feeding followers, dangling the carrot like she did with the ‘missing 48 hours’ video - when in reality the only thing that happened here was that Erin became severely distressed and had to be sedated a few times.
I am all for raising awareness but I also think a line is being crossed here from awareness to grief voyeurism. Is it really in anyone’s best interest to know intimate details about Erin in her last 24 hours?

She reminds me of the typical know it all, I’m right you’re wrong character you’d end up with as a colleague. Not actually that smart but thinks they know best on any topic. I reckon she’s absolutely exhausting to be around and likes the sound of her voice a little too much!
 
You know what's the saddest part of Erin's story for me? That there was no silver lining. When we are going through something traumatic we tend to think that it will get better, for example Erin made a TikTok at the beginning of 2023 saying that she thought it would be her year after all that she went through and boom she got cancer. She didn't get to enjoy some peace between all the tragedies and her illness. I know that cancer is cruel and every cancer sucks but even here she got the worst card, she didn't get sick with breast cancer where it would be possible to live for 5+ years and it's all so so heartbreaking.

I also wonder why Dan is allowing Abi to do whatever she wants?? The money should be put in his name and he should spend it on himself and the boys. Why Abi? Because it's convenient cause he won't have to do a lot? I think it's a huge mistake and I really hope that boys won't be separated.
 
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